I’m gonna keep this short but sweet, if you are a person who is looking into getting an aneros or prostate play in general here is my mindset and experience on it after a month in.
1. Don’t over think it, use anything anyone is saying as a reference point and focus on yourself. Even with the mindsets people are peddling don’t over think it. Focus only on how it feels for you and make sure you aren’t beating yourself down. This includes an overemphasis on relaxation, it’s important, but telling another human to relax doesn’t help them relax. Don’t make the same mistake with yourself.
2. It doesn’t feel like how people describe it, some people describe feeling their prostate as a tingling or warm feeling, or it spreading throughout their body but that is their own interpretations of what’s going on in their body. You will more than likely interpret it different way, don’t chase a specific feeling you are being told to expect.
Instead I found it more helpful to draw comparisons from what you have heard to what you feel.
3. Don’t underestimate how much marijuana affects you. I was a person who was very adamant about not doing this with weed. However, after trying it once I can say the sensations were completely different and helped me to actually realize what I was feeling in my prostate.