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As I mentioned in a previous post, I’m relatively new to this. I have an Aneros Helix Syn and will be using it for the second time ever tonight.
When you engage in prostate play, do you watch or listen to porn, or do you just turn everything off and try to focus on the moment? I’m interested to learn new techniques.
Thanks in advance!
I’ve been interested in the idea of prostate play/massage for a while, but have never tried it. I’m 39 and married, but my wife is extremely conservative in the bedroom – unfortunately.
So, wanting to try it, since I have to go it alone, I bought the Helix Syn. I read a lot of comments and suggestions on here about what to do before I started. I had to wait until I knew I had the house to myself for a while since I can’t do it with my wife home.
I got naked in our bedroom, put on some porn, laid down on the bed and started. I lubed my finger and started to massage in and around my anus. Then I lubed up the Syn and slowly inserted it. My penis was flaccid at this point, but I didn’t touch it. I just tried to relax.
I started tightening and relaxing my muscles, trying to feel some sort of pleasure. I did this for close to an hour. My penis barely got hard, and I finally caved and masturbated to finish. Every once in awhile, it would feel like the Syn was sliding out, but it wasn’t.
I guess what I’m asking is what should I be feeling? Am I doing something wrong? I was hoping for this incredible experience – physically and emotionally. Should I lower my expectations? Should I look for other toys? Thanks for reading. Any help you can give a first-timer would be great.