Newbie looking for advice…

So for about a year or so I have experimented with various vibrators in my ass which definitely have felt good and have led to some amazing orgasms while masturbating or having sex. But I more recently learned about prostate orgasms that have nothing to do with the penis and bought myself a new toy… I decided to start in the bath tub since that’s where I play with other toys in my ass a lot and once I got the aneros in I definitely could feel how it worked but as I relaxed and tried to build the spasms and contractions I just never could. After a good hour or so of different techniques I decided to get out and try it in bed with some porn on to help get me really stimulated.

Once in bed I began on my back again like I was in the tub and still wasn’t really able to get much to build together. I was doing deep breaths, holding the contraction and everything I had read online but not much was working. Decided to flip over to my stomach and what a difference that made. I quickly started to squirm and move around as the spasms and contractions began to build and I was just letting my body do its thing.