Hello just after some advice really so here goes , I am a straight guy recently divorced after 22 yrs of marriage & now I am living alone I felt like exploring myself more so I bought the Aneros vibrating one. I have used it a few times & have had some pleasurable feeling but no orgasms as of yet. I have been reading posts on here trying to get tips. I smoke weed regulary so that ticks the box apparently. I have no expectations every time I put it in other than to try & have fun.
Question 1 how much lube do people use ? I have been using ky jelly at the moment.
Question 2 is it best to be gentle when contracting etc ?
Question 3 this is related to right now lol , I have just got hold of some coke (sniff) & was wondering if that would help ?