I’ve been a prostate play fan for about 2 years now and my collection has grown from a single Aneros to 3 Aneros toys, dildos, vibrating prostate massagers and the famous Njoy Pure Wand. However, my question really relates to Aneros massagers as I feel these have the most potential for me to achieve hands free orgasms.
I struggled for AGES to get involuntary contractions but I recently started to get them by focusing more on slowly tightening the sphincter muscle, holding the contraction for 30 seconds and then slowly relaxing. This now creates a lot of quivering which continues even when I fully relax – I consider this to be involuntary contractions. Sometimes this quivering causes what I think are “p-waves”. For me, this is when the scrotum moves (if you know, you know) and my penis gets hard very quickly and my perineum generates a lot of pleasure. This is the best way I can describe it and I’d love if someone could also confirm if this is considered p-waves as it’s just my assumption to what these are.
Whilst this eventually makes my prostate feel quite good, I’m at a loss of where to go now in terms of going for orgasms. I always thought that if I achieved involuntaries then these would lead to hands free, dry orgasms but sadly this hasn’t been the case.