Hey guys I need some advice. I have an aneros style toy and I always start with light kegels and mindgasm. My sessions are usually about 45 minutes where the tension slowly builds then I start getting erect and then I cum (all hands free). I feel like this is keeping me from a true super O but I’m not sure what to do.
Once contractions start that’s usually when I get hard and orgasm happens soon after.
Any tips?