I’d like to start this out by explaining I am no newbie when it comes to anal play—I’ve been sticking stuff in there for years. The problem is, I have never felt pleasure from this stuff, be it my fingers, a dildo, a vibrator, or a fixed-length insert.
With toys like the Aneros, I can lay there for hours doing the PC and anal contractions and breathing muscles to move the toy, but I feel absolutely no pleasure. I mean, it doesn’t feel BAD, but still, nothing. I have read every guide out there. If I keep it in while I have a traditional orgasm, it makes it much better.
With vibrating inserts like the Lelo Hugo, I can sit there doing contractions or breathing exercises while it vibrates inside, but it just feels like vibrations deep inside—no pleasure.
With curved dildos like the Nioy Pure Wand, I can’t even locate my prostate. All I feel is pressure when I push upwards. When I insert far enough, I hit some sort of wall (where I need to curve the toy upward to insert it farther, but I’m assuming that’s too far to hit it, anyway) and when I pull it out, I feel nothing but pressure. Not even the peeing sensation that I’ve read about commonly. If I move it too fast, my body literally tries to push it out like going to the bathroom.