Can the massage be too fast?

I am brand new to the Aneros or anal play. My not very frequent partner has been using it and was very excited to incorporate it into sex the other night.

Later in the night, we used the Aneros in and out, but I started to go faster because he was getting close, and he came. He has seemed a bit weirded out and I worry that I might have gone too far, or too fast.

I’m still waiting to talk to him, but just wondering if anyone here has used the Aneros in a faster massage motion? Or is that a complete misuse ? Thanks

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