no motivation, 3 years of trying.

I just can’t do it. I am so close to giving up all together. 3 years of nothing. Made a few waves every now and again but they are not consistent. I’ve never even had involuntaries. I’ve been consistently playing at least a few times a month for the last 3 years and it’s just so disheartening not being able to do something i’ve put this many hours into.

I’ve tried it all, read probably over 1000 posts and guides on it but I just can’t do it.

I’m not sure what it will take but I just don’t know what to do, I have experimented with so many toys and positions, breathing techniques and meditation. They have just not worked for me.

Weird feeling’s?

When insert my aneros it doesn’t necessarily hurt but feels uncomfortable and good at the same time. It’s really a balance between pain and pleasure. It’s very hard to describe but it’s not so painful.

it hurts and feels good at the same time, is this normal?

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