So I’ve tried a variety of clenches and positions and have a toy. I’ve felt very nice feelings. My body reacts—it trembles and flushes with a hot feeling. All of that is great.
But…
Nothing I’ve felt has come close to the amount of pleasure from the exact moment of cumming traditionally. Even though it’s a short 5-10 seconds at the peak of pleasure, nothing—not even hours-long feelings of “niceness” have—come close to that.
I understand that it’s a whole other kind of pleasure, and many of you would say it can’t be compared. However, there has to be some arbitrary scale in which you can say you’ve felt a better feeling during prostate play than jacking off. What is that feeling like? Because if you told me that I’d be signing up for feeling the pleasure of a traditional orgasm strung out over a long duration—hell yeah, I’ll be all over that. But if you tell me that it’ll never get as “quantifiably” pleasurable as that, rather it’s just about the waves and the length of time and all that, I can’t bring myself to get too excited about that. Idk why, but I can’t. Maybe I’m just looking for a new mindset more than anything.
I’m not trying to diminish the fun of prostate play at all. This is totally a personal hang-up which may or may not actually be a hang-up. That’s what I’m trying to figure out.