Nubs on the MGX Trident are pressing too hard on my sweet spot

I recently ordered a MGX. I thought I would need an upgrade after I had some success with the Helix Syn. But with the MGX I can’t fell any pleasure because the nubs are pressing way to hard into my body. The nubs of the Helix Syn are perfect, they had triggered some enormous pleasure.
How can I solve that problem and make them softer?
I saw some posts were people had cut them of, but I want that stimulation but not that hard

Didn’t cum in 1 week to archieve a prostate orgasm

Hey guys (and girls?) I’m into the aneros thing for about 3 months. In my past sessions sometimes I had very pleasurable feelings, nearly as pleasurful as a normal orgasm. But these feelings only last a few seconds, then there gone and I have to start again to come back to this level of pleasure.
Last week I decided to stop having normal orgasms caused by stimulating my cock.
I’m very horny all the time because today is the 7th day of my chastity.
I’m having an aneros session every evening. I often feel great pleasure but I want to finally archieve a prostate orgasm.
Which methode works the best?
In my first sessions I used vaseline and coconut oil, but now I switched to waterbased anallube which works much better for me, in the next days I’ll get a high quality silicone anal lube. I hope the new lube will increases the movement of my Aneros Helix Syn
Any tips concerning lube?

My first Aneros Session(yesterday)

Yesterday my Aneros helix syn trident finally arrived. I was very excited about how it would feel. I lubed up my asshole an shove the Aneros in. I did some relaxing breathing exercise and felt how my ass contracted involuntery. But only for a few moments then it was gone, this happened about 5-6 times. After half an hour I had to apply some more lube becaus my water-based lube dried.
Now I want to try coconut oil for todays session. For future sessions want to use silicon based lube. Is silicon based lube suitable for the silicon finish of the aneros?