Had a GREAT session this morning with at least six (lost count) dry orgasms. I feel like I’ve finally got my prostate dialed in I can can get to orgasms faster than before. I was reading afterward and could feel my prostate buzzing, so I started flexing as I would if I had my Helix in and almost immediately had another orgasm! Fantastic!!!!
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Prostate Milking, a neglected process.
In the forum’s general discussion, there seems to be a lot written on the subject of prostate milking. I had been neglecting performing this practice thinking it provoked a refractory period. I avoid ejaculation as much as possible for the same reasons but today, I decided the time had come to ‘clean the pipes’.
My wife took off to do errands so I took out my NJOY Pure Wand and decided to use it for the first time as a milking tool. When I bought this device last Summer, I had tried the big knob side to see if I could generate some positive sensations but not much came out of it so it landed in my cupboard.
Today, my sole mission was to milk my prostate so I pulled it out, I lubed up and inserted the smaller knob end and performed a long but delicate massage on the gland. The process lasted approximately twenty minutes and generated a fair amount of prostatic fluids.
There is nothing spectacular about what I just wrote but following the milking, I felt great, relieved and full of energy. This great feeling could not go to waist and since my wife was still gone, I sat on the couch and engaged in an Aless. I must say this was one of the best I ever had!
I plan to use this NJOY tool more often
“The Chastity/Arousal Continuum”
I didn’t know what else to call this but let me try to explain it……
Since I sleep in a “chastity cup” almost every night now, I find that when I don’t, it can become very arousing and erotic. For example, I went to bed last night without my cup on and, sure enough, when I awoke (due to a night-time erection) I “caught” myself coddling my balls and stroking my cock. I seem to do this lately without much forethought.
Today, I was curled-up on a sofa watching a movie and (sure enough) I became aroused when again I started caressing my firm balls and shaft through my trousers. Almost like an automatic response. What is going on here?
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I started to think about it and it now it seems to me to make perfect sense. There is a connection, a link if you will, between male chastity and arousal; for want of a better term I’ll label it the “chastity/arousal continuum”. What do I mean by this?
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Let me look at the definitions of chastity and arousal; hence:
CHASTITY
The condition or quality of being chaste, especially the condition of not having had sexual intercourse or of abstaining from sexual relations.
SEXUAL AROUSAL
In sexual arousal the nerve impulse release sex hormones and dilate arteries in the genital areas.
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Near-Perfect Erotic Prostate “Finger Massage”
OMG! What a session! Here are the details…..
Background: I am only in Day 2 of SR and didn’t really expect anything from a session. I didn’t wear a “cup” to bed but awoke about 2 AM with an erection and found myself fondling my package. So I needed to get-into a “cup” ASAP! I selected my XO ProCup, put it on and went back to bed. Couldn’t sleep so after about 45 minutes or so, I decided to go to my comfortable couch and listen to some relaxing tracks (no binaural beats). I did so for about an hour and decided to go back to bed. I wasn’t feeling especially aroused but wanted to do a relaxing “do-nothing” session with the HIH 950 (my smallest massager). I could not possibly have predicted what would happen next…..
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“Ready Or Not, Here They Come….”
Who are “they”? you may ask…. Here is the answer….
“They” are night-time erections (technically called Nocturnal Penile Tumescence) and all healthy guys (without ED) get them. Since I usually sleep in a “chastity cup”, I can sometimes be awakened by these erections. I usually can feel them coming on if I am awakened; I will get a strange “tingling” feeling in my cock and it is only a matter of time (only a minute or two) before a strong erection ensues. I can’t stop them (neither can you!)
I find that wearing a “cup” to bed helps me to avoid masturbating or playing with my junk. Sometimes, that can lead me to an ejaculation which I try to avoid while in chastity.
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An interesting side-note: I had a “quick” session about 10 PM last night that lasted only about 20 minutes. Afterwards, following nice p-waves, things really settled-down and I was completely flaccid and unaroused. I began to ponder: when will I get my next night-time erection? Will I get one at all? So I settled-in for the night. Sure enough, I don’t know how much time passed (perhaps 2 hours later) I awoke with that “tingling”, strange feeling in my cock. And sure enough, within a short minute or two, I had a full erection, one which I could not control nor could I discourage. It had to happen.
First experimental session
My Helix arrived finally! (Two weeks ago) After reading as much information while waiting on the arrival, I thought I was ready to start my Aneros journey. Time was rushed but I had to test drive the unit. So in the shower we went to do some multi-tasking. As soon as it was in I knew there was going to be magic in that little devise. The one thing I learned right away was there are more muscle groups down there than I knew was possible. One clinch and release gave two sensations of muscle relaxing. Thinking this was odd I tried again, same result. I consciously contracted again and using much concentration I relaxed one muscle group at a time. At that point I knew I needed more time with this little gem! I knew I needed to strengthen and separate use of those different muscles. By this time my shower was done and I regretfully had to end the session. I was already thinking of when my next session could be!
“…And Hold On Tight!”
I think I had my first Super-O with the SGX! Here goes……
I awoke about 12:30 AM with a moderate erection. Went to the bathroom (#1 only). Decided to do a session with the SGX (since it was next in the rotation). I put on my XO “chastity cup”, put the waterproof paper pad beneath me, lubed-up and started the session. One think I noticed right away is that the last inch “pull-in” of the SGX seemed especially strong, like it knew where it was going and what it was going to do. I couldn’t possibly predict what happened next…..
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Within the first 2 or 3 minutes, I began to experience the familiar “auto-f**k” contractions. I have experienced them many times before. But something about these contractions seemed different. For one thing, I couldn’t stop them! I mean that most sincerely! They were strong and plentiful. They were regular and quick, like a “crazed” pendulum clock. Occasionally, there were some extremely strong “pull-in” contractions as well. Auto-kegels and reverse-kegels. I began to moan; I remember saying (or thinking) “NO!” “NO!” “STOP IT!” but to no avail. I began shaking violently on the bed. I “sensed” a color wheel in my head, a tingling feeling up my spine. For a while, I honestly didn’t know who I was, where I was or what I was doing…..Was I doing prostate stim? I couldn’t tell you…..
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“Prostate Contact Is The Key”
I had been thinking about this for the past 2-3 days. I know it sounds so simple but hear me out…..
The key to real prostate pleasure is physical contact with the prostate and surrounding nerves, usually with an Aneros massager. But other toys can be used as well, even a finger! In days gone by, here in the US, some doctors and medical therapists used to “milk” men’s prostates manually, usually to relieve prostate symptoms. Today, other therapies are used instead. I believe that in China, however, this practice of manual “milking” of the prostate still occurs.
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I know that Aless pleasure is very real and I experience it too, but for me, nothing can compare to a “real”, stimulating massage from a “real” Aneros! I have owned several other so-called “prostate massagers” but they just didn’t do anything for me. In short, they don’t make proper contact with my prostate. There is something about the design of the Aneros that creates a built-in “rocking action” caused by PC/anal contractions that takes prostate massage pleasure to the next level and beyond.
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When I am lying down in a session, I don’t have to do anything. But since the Aneros is right there nuzzled up against my prostate, and making contact, I can be assured that if I am supposed to have an orgasm, I will! I have gone from “do-nothing” to amazing Dry-Os just by being “plugged” by an Aneros massager! As I said, prostate contact is the key!
“Semen Retention: Something New?”
Coincidence or not? You decide…..
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Yesterday, I was in Day 8 of SR and decided that to forestall the dreaded “blue-balls” I would ejaculate. But instead of a usual wanking, I decided to do it a little differently. So I got out my prostate vibrator, the Svakom Paddy, and with it set to vibrate intermittently at the lowest vibration level, I decided that I would use it to gently coax out an ejaculation. I started with my balls and perineum and very gradually worked my way up to my cock. I avoided the glans until the end. I decided in advance that I would do this “edging” for a minimum of 7 minutes. Well, after about 10 minutes, I couldn’t take it any more. I was ready to explode! [Side note: while in this state, I rotated my hips and “fantasized” about sexual penetration! So easy; so much for ED! I could easily have ejaculated with only a few thrusts.] So I moved the vibrator near the glans and before long, I experienced a great ejaculation; I didn’t “spurt” violently, but the contractions were quite intense, much more so than usual. A large amount of cum and it kept cumming for a while. For the rest of the day, however, I really felt like I was in “low-gear” and didn’t have much energy. Oh, the dreaded “refractory period”.
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questions
Two days so far. first was no big deal This AM it felt better but does not seem to really produce the feelings I used to get with a directed vibrator. The Aneros does not feel like it is hitting the prostate.
Any suggestions?