Dildo vs Aneros

I have seen a lot of post about is dildo the next step after aneros or does anal play make me gay? Those are questions that you must find the answer to within yourself. But as a openly gay male I will give you my in tell on how the two aneros or real thing are totally different.

Firstly when I got introduced to aneros I was already sexually active. I’ve had a few boyfriends and sex toys but this experience was different. For me when i placed the lubed up Helix Syn in it just rested in my hole. It just sat there. I had done my research prior but was still confused. As a few minutes passed it began to stir in me. It got my insides all fluttery. No man or toy has ever made me feel this way. With a dildo I just get cleaned out an probe my hole til I reach my sexual peak an then I orgasm. With aneros it is a slower steady pace build up to the orgasm. With a dildo I can control how it goes in an how far I want it to be in me. With aneros it is a designed size to just reach. Short and simple straight to the point.

“This SGX Session Packed A Punch!”

I had just had a BM and felt completely ready for a session. I knew I wanted more, so instead of my trusty HIH 950, I reached for the SGX. It did not disappoint me. Let me explain….

I lubed-up with BB and started a most relaxing session. I was wearing my XO cup for a couple of hours this morning (I’m not sleeping in it yet). When I started the session, I knew right away that this would be a good one. I did not expect that, before long, I was feeling tingling in my toes and especially my fingertips. What happened next is that as I began to completely relax, I felt waves of pleasure moving throughout my body, so much so that I could not help but start to squirm, shake and convulse. I could not help but let out a few moderate moans as well. Every new position on the bed only brought me closer to complete euphoria.

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I have not had this much precum produced in a session before! I don’t know what was happening but I felt a “pumping” going on within my groin and it felt great! Towards the end of this session, I took off the cup and began to feel like I wanted to “expel” the SGX with reverse kegels. But the more I tried to expel it, the tapered ribbed stem took over and pulled it back in! In this way, my anus became thoroughly stimulated and I began producing more precum! My penis was hard and I could easily have cum. But I didn’t want to (I am only in Day 5 of SR). Finally, I felt like I had enough and expelled it completely.

“A Respite From Chastity”

I had been having some discomfort in my groin area and thought it would be best if I suspend my night-time use of “chastity cups” for a while. Glad to report that the irritation is clearing up. But, for the past two nights, I have been sleeping only in my PJs. What a difference! Let me explain…..

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I awoke several times last night with an incredibly strong erection; so much so that I thought my wife slipped me some Viagra! Not only was I erect, I had ample precum oozing from my cock. I felt it right down to my prostate. I honestly felt like I was headed for a wet dream or at least an unassisted, spontaneous ejaculation. At one point, I removed my PJ bottoms and gently squirmed on the bed on my stomach, waiting for the discharge. I had at least three or four fantasies run through my head during this time (some male, some female). I thought how wonderful it would be to have an Aneros session right about now! A HFWO for sure!

But, alas, it was morning already and I had to put aside all this pleasure for another time…. I thought chastity was a real turn-on. But when the “chains” are removed, the unhindered sexual freedom has emerged! I feel like a newlywed ready to “spin the wheels”, trying out all my “equipment”! I am eagerly awaiting another night!

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A note on my Aless Sessions

This blog entry is more for my future reference than anything else. Sometime in the future, I will be revisiting these notes and reminiscing on my journey’s progress.

Today, I must note how pleasurable my Aless sessions have become. It seems everyday (at least twice a day), my Aless sessions escalate to a new level sending me in total bliss but still without orgasms. I’m not shooting for an orgasm (no pun intended) but I do look forward to the pure pleasures a simple breath, a subtle contraction here and there and a bit of concentration can generate.

At night, lying in bed, I can transpose myself in the ‘zone’ with ease and without efforts and remain there for as long as I wish. When I think about it, it’s much easier than penile play, less messy and less of a drain on my system.

I never would have thought such pleasures were possible and abundant. I appreciate the gift Aneros gave me.

Life is wonderful!

A Rare “Dual” Session!

While suffering with a head ailment for about 2 weeks, I am feeling much better now. I have not had a session for that long and felt it long overdue. I had slept in my SD “chastity cup” since early this morning and felt ready. I lubed-up the HIH 950 and began the session. No sooner did it start that I had an almost immediate erection and several auto-fuck contractions! That is always a good sign! This session was quite arousing and I began squirming, moaning and thrusting. I positioned myself differently on the bed and—oh my!—I felt a blissful state of my prostate that I have not felt before! I still kept on the cup since I didn’t want my cock involved at all. But then…..

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I decided to take-off the cup and just see what would happen. Honestly, I didn’t care if I came on the bed. And guess what? I began to lightly caress my balls (and my cock only a little bit) and I began to get a an erection and more direct stimulation on my prostate within my session-in-progress! So I kept it up. My erection subsided a little then went back up. All the while, I was producing precum now like crazy! I thought that maybe I would have a HFWO. But after a while, things settled-down and so I stopped…..I didn’t have the feeling that I needed to ejaculate.

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Overnight Sleeper

I have always wanted to travel on an overnight sleeper train but hadn’t had the opportunity until now. Here is my experience with aless on the train.

The sleeper cabin was warm and comfortable and I had it to myself for 12 hours. After dinner and a bottle of wine in the buffet car, I settled down for the night. The rolling stock was old and noisy compared to more modern trains so I used my noise cancelling headphones to suppress the clatter. It helped, but I couldn’t do anything about the rocking and movement of the carriage which kept me awake. After an hour of being bumped around, I resigned myself to not sleeping. As I lay in the dark, my cock responded to the subconscious thought that I was not going to sleep and developed an immediate aless boner. Giving in, I raised my knees and spread my legs and enjoyed the pulsating pleasure as my erect cock swayed and bumped around in response to the train movements. After a while, I couldn’t feel my erection, but I could certainly feel the amazing aless pleasure waves, which made my entire pelvic zone a pleasure centre, with orgasmic cloud hovering over it. The rocking and swaying of the train produced a constant hum of pleasure as every nerve ending responded in a dance of unpredictability and sublime intensity. Cascades of orgasmic pleasure filled the cabin with joy and a sense of well being like nothing else.

“A Ruined Orgasm! I’m Still In The Game”

Background: I am in Day 8 of SR. Had a nice “cuddling” session with my wife last night before bed. Sleeping in my XO “chastity cup”. Awoke about 3 AM feeling the need to ejaculate and end the SR run. I decided to lube-up the HIH 950 and do a nice, leisurely but stimulating session. I “relaxed” for about 15 minutes and then slowly did about 30 strong-and-hold contractions. At some point, I felt that I definitely wanted to cum. But I wanted to extend the teasing and give myself a voluminous ejaculation, so……

I wanted to play ‘edgemeplease’ online. I had not played it in a while and felt it would be appropriate for me this morning. I still had the 950 in and started the game. Now I must be honest and say that I have never had this much precum! I could barely hold onto my cock, it was so wet and slippery! I wanted, begged to go off! And guess what? At the end of the game, I was denied a cum! Bummer! What do I do now?…..

Not feeling satisfied, and still very horny, I decided to play again! I set-up the game for a short session, begging to let me cum. And so I started the game……

Wait! I felt like an ejaculation was imminent. I vowed to go-off even if the game said otherwise. And then…..what happened?….

Being rewired

I have been in this prostate journey for some years now an it’s crazy that my body still finds ways to sexually surprise me. I like to make far in-between journey entrys to really show I’m being authentic. So I have a few toys but it has come to my attention that my A-less sessions be the most exciting as of late. Just now I’m laying here righting this spent an still gasping for air. I decided to read a few erotic novels. It’s a great passtime of mine. The nastiest the better. So it’s it’s chilly here in the Midwest and I’m just in bed reading a nice hot an heavy story about a boy an his older lover having a epic sex battle. As I’m reading I feel a churning in my stomach an then my legs begin to shake. As I continue to read my dick just gets rock fucking hard. These stories always get me hot but has never kicked off a aneros session before. As I continue reading it’s getting harder an harder in my pants. I’m beginning to gasp for air cause this page I’m reading is getting so intense. I begin to leak precum as my body starts to shake uncontrolling. Trying to keep it together by calming my breathing as I’m mmo’ing back to back. I’m reading an churning and shaking an boom. As soon as the young reached his orgasm with his lover I began to stream globs of hot cum out if my now erect stiff penis. I couldn’t do anything but just let it happen. Oh it felt so damn good. I love having hfwo. Once you tap that prostate he continues to work even when you least expect it. I have been having after shocks the whole writing this. I am still so happy I found this site an learned about prostate play.

“Chastity: A Complete Male Shield”

While sleeping in my SD Ultra Pro “Chastity Cup” , when I awoke this morning, I began to feel its curved, contoured shape with my hands and began to dwell on a nice meditation….

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There is a definite similarity between a “chastity cup” and a man-made marvel of nature: for example, Hoover Dam. You may laugh but I see a connection. Let me explain…..

The dam is designed to hold-back a great, powerful body of water. The cup is designed to hold-back the great, male, raw sexual power.

The dam is designed to periodically release some water; otherwise it would overflow. The chastity cup when properly used is designed to allow a male a periodic release of seminal fluid.

An overflowed dam can be compared to a wet dream.

The dam generates power by virtue of it great potential energy. The cup generates power by holding-back that great male libido; raw sexual energy. The greatest power generated can be compared to an ejaculation.

No natural disaster: earthquake, tornado, lightning will destroy the dam. The chastity cup is designed to withstand direct blows without fail. It will not collapse or otherwise fall apart.

See the connection? I did! This made for a great meditation!

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“Twenty Minutes of Freedom”

Periodic release in male chastity is good…and fun! Dominant females periodically release and “treat” their chaste males to a variety of activities, up to and including ejaculation (if they allow it). Some, however, will take him right to the edge and quickly place him back in chastity, which is very frustrating. Here is what happened to me… This morning, while wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight, I was “treated” to 20 minutes of chastity release—-I was “allowed” to change into my ARMR jockstrap for up to 20 minutes! I quickly shed the cup and replaced it with a very secure 3″ jockstrap. I was allowed to fondle my package through the pouch but was prohibited from seeing it or ejaculating. Anything else was fair game. I got an erection almost immediately. I began to lightly caress, fondle and otherwise adore my package, if only through the pouch. After a while, while still erect, I was not too surprised to see a nice, dark, slippery, wet spot of precum! Oh, how I really wanted to ejaculate! When the 20 minutes were up, I was instructed to quickly put-on the Bike “chastity cup” which is very secure. After twenty minutes of freedom, I am back in chastity.

PS This “freedom” exercise is effective for stimulating the chaste male’s genitals and it certainly felt good for me. I was not feeling particularly aroused this morning but afterwards, now feel a warm, satisfying ‘tingle’ from my package. I have gone 6 days without an ejaculation and am feeling ready for one!