I have learned with Aneros: you can’t be “up” all the time. You need to take a break once in a while. It’s okay; it doesn’t mean that your body and your sex drive have taken a big hit. It just means that your body is traversing through a prostate “cycle” of arousal, much like a penile arousal that comes and goes, especially at night. I am now in Day 4 of my semen retention and just came-off an incredible 12-Days of SR (ending with a powerful ejaculation). But now that that is over, I need to start-over with a new prostate arousal cycle and it takes time. But that’s okay with me; I needed some “down-time” to myself. Yes, I’m still into male chastity and still sleep in a “rotation” of “chastity cups” — in fact, I recently added two to my collection: a “soft-jock cup” by Shock Doctor (which is nice because I can’t touch my package directly but can “feel” it somewhat through the cup). And another (which I have not yet received) is the XO ProCup supporter. This one is supposed to be “the most comfortable cup you can buy” and I am looking forward to it!
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Lesson learned: To all my Aneros “buddies” still striving for a Super-O, take your time, relax, let your body lead you in the direction it wants to go. Even if you have experienced some Super-O’s before (like me), that was well over a year-and-a-half ago. Do I still want to have them? Yes, but I am not going to be disappointed if I don’t. Perhaps my body (and my prostate) are going through a long cycle of arousal. Perhaps I will re-experience that Super-O someday. But if I don’t, I won’t be discouraged. After all, prostate pleasures comes to us in many different ways. Take Aless, for example. There are ways to experience it sans a massager. Once you are in tune with your body, you can make great progress! You can experience a prostate “high” when you want it (even if you are at a “low” in the arousal cycle). Go for it!
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A relish for the Aneros : Sessions for October 10. 12, and 14
Hi guys,
I had four sessions this week, all very good. My session for Monday October 9, Columbus Day, I have already recounted.
In that session, I used my full complement of Aneros model, which I call my Aneros “Full Court Press”: Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, MGX, and Prograsm (either ICE or Classic).
Tuesday and Thursday, I just used Helix Classic, MGX, and ICE.
This morning once again I used my Aneros “Full Court Press.”
There is a temptation to have an Aneros session every day if you wish. The Aneros feels so good that yes, you have a horniness or relish for one’s Aneros models, which I do now. However, I have found that there are diminishing returns in having daily sessions. It is similar to a regimen of weight training in a gym. I was warned when I worked out many years ago that lifting weights everyday may have an adverse effect on your body’s muscles in tearing them down instead of building them up. Lifting weights every other day allows the body to rest and recover. I have discovered that my Aneros sessions are more effective if I have them every other day. Actually I take Sundays off, but have sessions on the other days of the week. I use the Aneros so lovingly now because I need a continuing education of my prostate and anal musculature.
“A Sudden Surge of Horniness”
I am in a “new” Day 5 of SR and starting to develop new “horniness” feelings. At night, while wearing a “chastity cup”, I feel so close to a wet dream or an auto-ejaculation. And today, during the day when I rarely have any erections, I am getting an intense “prostate-horny” feeling and actually a spontaneous erection or two. It feels like my body wants to ejaculate in the worst way. But I am still in chastity and will be withholding my ejaculations as long as possible. But this horniness feeling is quite distracting—hard to think of anything else! I would be very surprised if I don’t have a wet dream any night now…..if I last that long!
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My thoughts on…an Intro
Hi everyone. This is a blog I guess! I’ve been a member on this site for 9 years and an aneros ‘rider’ for almost 12. I don’t post much on the forum, but I do chat…quite a lot! In the chatroom originally but now mostly on Skype. I originally came to the site to get help, and from that I started to rewire and found aneros probably the best purchase of my life so far. After that I started to pass on what I learnt to other guys, and one or two even listened…heh. After a while a few guys came back and said what I suggested had worked for them. I love chatting to other guys because its rare that guys actually talk about their solo time. Im not a ‘locker room talk’ kinda guy but talking about aneros and how it works is an openness that is really positive for me. After a while I started to find I was giving the same advice to multiple guys on different chats, so I thought Id try writing some of it down. A lot of it has already been said many times, but because every guy is different, I figure what I say may resonate with some folks, especially if you’re pretty new to aneros or want to get preogressively more result from riding…or both. I’ve pretty much tried every single variant, so I can only write about what works for me.
Getting underway options
What would be the likely outcome of insertion and then just working in the office on the computer (seated)? I’ve read that a) this ain’t for 25% of males b) it takes time to acclimate, which is the reason for this post. If you don’t know for a while if it’s for you, rather than watching paint dry, I’d like to periodically focus on sensory awareness and then no back to “work”. The idea of devoting hours at a time is a little off putting.
“The Real Magic Began Near The End Of This Session”
Well, it was time for a session. I am currently in Day 12 of SR and hadn’t had a session in about a week. So it was time. I lubed-up the HIH 950 with Boy Butter, lay on my side and slowly and deliberately inserted it. This session was longer than most others at about 1 hour, and actually nothing unusual happened throughout….
But stop! Just near the end of this session, I began to gyrate my hips, slowly at first but then faster and more deliberately, and began to “belly-breathe” almost at the same time (moving my hips up and down). And when I did, I began to get the most amazing feeling emanating from my prostate. I couldn’t control it. I felt a “tensing” sensation there that I have not felt before. I also felt a tingling, numbing sensation near the base of my spine. I could only imagine what the HIH 950 was doing to my prostate during this time. I wanted to continue with this feeling but felt that after one hour, it really was time to stop. Perhaps next time, I can introduce this technique earlier in the session and see how far I can go. But it was an amazing feeling.
PS I am in my Mueller “chastity cup” for this session (having slept in it, there was no need to remove it, so my cock was totally out of the picture). I put on a pair of silky Perry Ellis boxers on top of the jock, then my short PJs. A nice “package”!
A “Virtual” Session Fantasy
An unusual “virtual” session! Here are the details……
I was just chilling early this morning and listening to some soothing, erotic tracks, including one for erectile dysfunction with embedded binaural beats. I had listened enough and removed the headphones and went to lie down again. I still had a nice “tingling” in my prostate. And I must have fallen-into a kind of dream-like fantasy . But this fantasy involved an Aneros session with a prostate stimulator! I felt a large “toy” within my anus and it proceeded to stimulate my rectum and then my prostate. It felt amazingly real! I believe I was asleep because I had been lucid-dreaming earlier in the night. What was unusual about this “session” is that it didn’t seem to involve any action on my part (e.g. deliberate Aless contractions). But when awake now, I definitely feel that something went on in my prostate because I feel an obvious “pulsing” from it. I can continue Aless contractions and feel the pleasure waves.
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I had put on my Shock Doctor Pro Ultra Carbon “chastity cup” earlier this morning. I didn’t go to sleep in it but awoke stroking and playing with my cock. So I needed to go-into chastity ASAP! I love the feeling!
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I am sure I will encounter this “virtual” prostate stim session again! It was amazing…….
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good vibes
Have been having a few more experimental sessions with the vibrating beads and tonight I managed to find the best position to use the vibrator,on my back with with knees bent but legs spread and a cushion under my bottom and with 2 beads inserted and the third just outside my sphincter and fourth and battery pack outside I found this was the right counter balance weight to start the contractions the vibrator sent on slowest speed got me started slowly tickling the prostate then it started to feel like it wasslowly moving in and out I had a mirror and actually checked to see if what i felt was happening was and the 3rd gead was sliding slowly in my spincter I laid back and let go, the vibrating and the sliding was getting wild I was in rapture wave after wave then orgasm after orgasm over and over then i laid there and the vibrations would ignite it over and over until I felt the 3rd bead suck right in and nail me into a super o and it kept happening deep breaths then bliss and quiet rapture then bang heart rate up whole body taught bliss .I’ve had super o’s before but never like these they were bang then bliss with silence and then from nowhere bang bliss rapture like the quiet before a storm in between each one ,I must have been in a daze almost a trance as I thought it had been a good 30 mins since the orgasms started but after I managed to stop it was 2 hours later than i thought .
“Full-Body Tantric Massage: Ultimate Male Fantasy”
Wow! I never saw this coming! Let me explain how it happened……
I went to sleep only in a swimmer’s jock and silky boxers beneath my PJs but it soon became apparent that I needed more “restraint” from my wandering hands so I switched to my SD “chastity cup” instead. Woke up a few hours later and decided to listen to some erotic tracks. I did so for about an hour. Then went back to bed.
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At some point, I began to fall-into a fantasy: a full-body tantric massage on every square inch of my male body by my lover. Nothing was overlooked; even my eyebrows and eyelashes became erotically sensitive. It is truly amazing that every square inch of the body becomes an erogenous zone. I’ve heard it before but never truly experienced it like this. At one point, all my clothing came off except for my chastity cup. That never came off, but, oh my…..she deftly reached around and beneath it to get at my most intimate parts. I had a strong erection at that point and I thought she would bring me to an ejaculation. She did not, but still I felt an overpowering satisfying feeling throughout my entire body. I could not believe this fantasy lasted almost two full hours! Was some of this a dream? Was it all real? At this point, I really can’t say, only that the blissful feeling seemed to last an eternity! I was in erogenous heaven!
A “Classic” Session With A Twist (True BPH Relief!)
I would call this a “classic” Aneros session with a twist. Here’s why……
I awoke while sleeping in my SD Pro Ultra Carbon “chastity cup” highly aroused. I do find it hard to empty my bladder with a full erection (or otherwise for that matter), but I tried beforehand as best I could. Then, I lubed-up the 950 and proceeded with this session. Right from the start, I began where I left-off at the end of the last session: I began lightly thrusting my hips while deep-breathing and almost immediately began feeling the intense pleasure waves from my prostate. I continued this for perhaps 10-15 minutes when I fell-into a fantasy. I am in my urologist’s office in a private room and I am being prepared for a prostate exam, including an evaluation for BPH relief. The prostate needs to be aroused to demonstrate this and so I am lying there with a prostate massager inserted. It feels so f*****g good! When the time was up (about 30 minutes), I was told to leave the massager alone and go into the nearby bathroom and “try” to empty my bladder. My goodness! I stood over the toilet and completely emptied my bladder! Are you wondering about the effect of prostate massage on BPH? Of course there is a connection; I just demonstrated it! Then, when my bladder was empty, I reached back and carefully removed the massager, as I was told beforehand to do. PS I noticed a nice “wet spot” on the “chastity cup”!