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“The Male Chastity Lifestyle: Putting It All Into Perspective”

Having been in the male chastity “lifestyle” for a while now (it started with semen retention and the 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge), I find that the transition to male chastity is a very natural development. “Forced” male chastity is probably a myth. Many guys practice a form of male chastity that is based on the “honor system”. That means that when alone and not within cock restraint (such as with a chastity cage), he will not “cheat” and allow himself to cum.

There is a certain amount of self-restraint necessary to maintain the chaste lifestyle. When practiced correctly, this self-restraint can be very arousing to say the least! In my case, since my wife is aware of my new “lifestyle” she is well-aware that I need to orgasm and ejaculate periodically. She seems to know my limit of denial. She knows I can take a lot but like every other male, I will need to cum from time to time. She knows that if she does not allow me to cum with her, I may be headed for coming during a wet dream.

This “honor system” seems to work for me. I selectively place myself in physical male chastity such as by wearing a full chastity “cup” or a cock cage. Sometimes, I will allow myself to experience some cock tease pleasure, such as “edgemeplease.com” where I will produce a lot of precum but I know that I can go no farther than that. I will not cheat and come. Prostate “milking” is another pleasure that I need from time-to-time and it takes a great deal of restraint not to orgasm and ejaculate. But that is all part of the lifestyle too. Read more »

“Genuine CB-6000S: First Ride”

Well, my “genuine” CB-6000S arrived today! I couldn’t wait to try it out! First thing I noticed is that the cock cage is shorter than the one I have now. I thought I had a CB-6000S clone, but it looks like I have a CB-6000 clone instead with a longer cock cage! The genuine article is higher quality for sure. And the shorter cock cage means that my cock nearly fills the tube up when flaccid, the way it should!

After cleaning it up, I put it on and immediately it felt very comfortable. I had already determined the correct ring size and spacer length so I kept these the same. Now I don’t know how it will feel when I get an erection; I probably will know that later on tonight or tomorrow morning. I will not wear it overnight until I have some experience with it during the day.

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A Chastity “Dream” I Want To Have

The ultimate male chastity fantasy for me……

I am used to wearing my (clone) CB-6000S every day now and am seriously considering buying a “genuine” CB-X 6000S. This morning I decided to take-off my “cup” cage and put on instead the CB-6000S. I did that and went to lie down for a while. I had been dreaming and later on awakened with a firm erection inside the chastity cage. My balls were very tight as they should be. I had been “experimenting” with the right combination of base ring and spacer length and almost have it right. I cannot escape from the device at any time. I dropped my PJs to have a look…..much to my amazement (and delight!) the brass padlock on the cage was NOT the one which I had put-on this morning! Instead, there was a black-colored lock which I have not seen before! I am securely locked-in chastity but I DON’T HAVE THE KEY! Who did this to me? Only one other person in the house…..my wife!

OMG! Have I transitioned to full-time male chastity? Am I ready for this? Is my mind in-tune to the challenge? I think I am. Yes, it will be a challenge, but very rewarding at the same time. The feeling of being in male chastity is a great turn-on for me. The subtle arousal of chastity is permanent. Read more »

Aneros MGX Shower Time

I’ve been an Aneros MGX user for less than a week, but what a wonderful week it’s been! I’m taking celexa for anxiety and it caused me sensation loss both by myself or with my wife. The MGX solved that!! Anyway, I’ve found the shower to be my time. Allows me to clean myself and enjoy some private time. Start by squatting to insert, then slowly stand until that magic feeling starts. Not quite standing, not sitting, somewhere closer to standing. Then let my hips take over, small wiggles with my legs together. Everything melts away and I get lost in the sensation as wave after wave rolls through my body. Not sure how long I go, but I don’t want it to end. I’ve also noticed that a hard plastic chair with a slight curvature can set me off the next day without the MGX, talk about some strange looks at work!! An unexpected surprise that was!!! I bought a Vice after my first MGX experience, more on that another time, all I’ll say is WOW!!!!

If you’re on the fence or think it will turn you gay or something like that, grow up and join those of us who are loving new sensations! I never understood how gay sex could be pleasurable, I get it now. Guess what, I still only want my wife and the only penis I want is my own! I’ve got nothing but envy for gay guys knowing this secret!! Open your mind and your buns my straight brothers!

“But Not For Me”….A Chastity Fantasy

I started listening to a nice track on YouTube: “Mix: Music To Have Sex To” and it immediately put me into the mood for an erotic fantasy. Here it is as best as I can remember…..

As usual, I am locked-into my jock cup, unable to even touch my package. I find myself with a group of male friends and we are “visiting” a “men’s club” which specializes in fulfilling men’s erotic fantasies.

We start our “journey” by taking nice hot showers (but not me. I am watching and just going along “for the ride”). Next, the guys walk through a passageway (similar to a carwash) where a lubricant spray is directed at their privates. Oh, how I wish I could go through it!

Next, the naked guys must traverse a narrow passageway by crawling through it on their stomachs. The passageway has vibrators built-in and as they go through, their cocks are being stimulated. Since they are already lubed-up, most of the guys now have very hard erections when they emerge.

Next up, they are given a dose of Viagra (but not me), just to make sure they don’t deflate any time soon. After a while, they are led to a nice-looking room where beautiful masseuses are waiting. Each guy is directed to climb-onto a waiting table, almost like a massage table. There, they are pleasured beyond their imaginations (but not me…..I am watching and fantasizing). All the guys are moaning and waiting for a release…..but not me. Read more »

Still here… enjoying the ride and shared my secret

I continue to enjoy the ride and journey with 80% HFWO success with the progasm. Will start to mix it up with my other models since I’ve enjoyed progasm exclusively for the last 4 months or so. Also did a tantra the other day which helped in the breathing exercises (still not consistent) and the movement of the arousal energy capability. Highly recommended. Also had the chance to share my secret with a friend who was looking for “more”. Hope he starts his own journey soon and it was great to feel like “the expert” while explaining that it is a journey which is different for everyone.

“A Ruined Orgasm”

I have read about a “ruined orgasm” while in male chastity but never suspected I would experience one. Let me explain……

I was in Day 13 or SR and chastity and had worn my CB-6000S for six hours yesterday. My wife wanted some action last night and wanted to cuddle. But no sooner did I start that I developed a rock-hard erection which she felt. We “cuddled” for a while but I told her that I needed to cum; would she allow me? She said “yes” and I told her that SHE alone needed to get me off. So I pulled-down my PJs and told her to “do her thing”. (I would not touch my cock at all). Well, it was less than a minute that I felt an intense welling-up in my groin and an impending ejaculation which I suspected would feel great. But something else happened. I experienced not intense rhythmic pulses of white semen but rather an almost continuous flow of semen (like from a hose) which pooled on the waiting towel as well as on her hand! In just a few short seconds, it was over! Did I just ejaculate? I had to look at the towel to be sure. Was this a ruined orgasm? I know now that it was. Immediately afterwards, I still felt like I could cum again, and tried myself. But it seemed that I was already into my refractory period and would just have to wait. Read more »

Eupho Syn’s first entry!

I finally received my Eupho Syn yesterday and last night was it’s inauguration night.  At first, I did not feel anything (used to Maximus, MGX, H-Syn and Progasm) but it did not take long for it to go to work.  The new model generated new senstions and I now know why it is considered one of the most maneuverable model.

It is a nice addition to my collection and I look forwrd to more sessions with my new toy.

Life is wonderful!

“Male Chastity: Going The Distance”

I have been flip-flopping between my PrisonBird and CB-6000S chastity cages. I am now preferring the CB-6000S since it is “unmodified” and is actually quite comfortable. I can wear it our in public and am up to about 6 hours of continuous wear. I have not slept through it yet as I understand the night-time erections can be painful! But I am building-up to that.

Of course, while in chastity there are several “issues” that need to be addressed. First, urination. It is better to be seated for this event, it is just less of a bother. Second, hygiene. Since I am not wearing it continuously (yet), I don’t have to be too concerned. But the penis needs to be cleaned daily and I am exploring ways that I can accomplish this. There is a lot of info online regarding this subject. Third, and this is a little gross, there is a bit of “leakage” of seminal fluid from the penis while in chastity. Not really a problem yet, just an interesting observation.

Will I be able to continue this practice of chastity? Will I be able to hand-over the keys? Interesting questions; but right now, I am still in “chastity-play” mode so those questions are moot. All I can say is that if you are at all interested in male chastity, take it slow, take it one step at a time, do research and enjoy yourself! This is an interesting “chapter” in my sexuality and I never would have guessed that it could be so easily integrated into daily life! There is a different mindset involved in all of this and it is probably not for every guy. But I have found this a perfect “match” for me at this point in my life. Read more »

“Chastity Delights”

What a morning! Got up with a very powerful erection and immediately decided to go into chastity. So I put on my Shock Doctor Ultra cup and lay down. After a short while, I changed chastity to my new “modified” PrisonBird. It fit like a glove and I actually wore it for about 90 minutes with no issues. Finally, I decided to let my “keyholder” tease and pleasure me with my Svakom Paddy anal vibrator. What “she” did this time is press it (through my PJs) into my anus. She did about 4 or 5 “prostate massages” this way, using different combinations of vibration strengths and patterns. OMG! When she finished each one, I had an “aftershock” erection and felt an intense horniness for perhaps 5 or more minutes afterwards. After 4 or 5, I couldn’t take any more and told her so. Of course this is “fantasy” chastity play, but I like the feeling. I am ready to take-on the day!

PS A new Day 9 in semen retention and I’m lovin’ it!

PS Just like the original Aneros stim, the name of the game in chastity play is “hands-off the penis” (literally!) That is one reason chastity play for me is so f*****g arousing!

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