Category: Aneros blogs

Newfound Success… 10 Years On.

Aneros remains one of the greatest wonders I have discovered. I am superbly happy to have had the journey with it. But it can only get me to a deep orgasmic state and blissful state if I have at least 5-6 hours of solo time and no distractions, which is rare. Recently, I have learned to combine it with nipple stimulation which can get me there a little faster. But I still need an Aneros and a lot of alone time to get me to a place of incredible mental and physical pleasure where I lose the sense of being and float space. What works for me is extreme relaxation and plenty of time on my own.

That’s why, despite my success with Aneros, I was always jealous of men that can achieve regular anal orgasms through sex, particularly HFWO which I have never had. Never ever. I guess you always want something that you cannot have. I have tried riding my partner every which way possible and every form of toy available for the past several years. I have spent a lot of money buying and throwing things out like dildos, fucking machines, hypnosis tapes, poppers and even shrooms that simply didn’t work or change anything. In the end, I simply considered myself to be one of those people for whom it will never happen. I kept an nJoy wand in my closet but only used occasionally to milk myself after an Aneros session, never deriving substantial sexual pleasure or orgasming from it. Read more »

Starting Over – New Lessons

For a long time, I had been wanting to go back to using the Peridise, and Helix Trident to try and achieve anal, prostate, and other pleasurable sensations. Unfortunately, an anal injury had been making this impossible. Over the span of a years, I consciously took steps to heal my injuries, improve my anal health, and gradually re-train my body to accept things into my anus. This was a long process, with many setbacks, pitfalls, struggles, and eventually small successes. It is so rewarding to finally be able to use my anus again for both pleasure, and function.

As a refresher, I read through a lot of the forum posts. The knowledge with the stickied posts, as well as other more recent users’ comments were really vital in starting up my training again. Folks in the chatroom were extremely kind, and helpful with their posts. Armed with new information, and classic knowledge, I felt ready to try out my Aneros again.

For the first few sessions, I limited the time to 60 to 90 minutes. My body was still getting reacquainted with having objects inside my anus, and flexing all of the various muscles around there. In the past, lying on my left side was successful with the Peridise, so that is the position in which I started. With plenty of lubrication, I would relax with deep breathing, and slowly slide the Aneros bit by bit into my anus. My past practice with much smaller objects helped tremendously, and helped me succeed in getting the Aneros inside. With a few gentle contractions, it would slide into place. While my body adjusted to having a guest inside it, I would very gently practice contractions, or adjust soft, steady pressure. Usually after 20 minutes, I could feel the device moving into where it needed to be, and the pressure on my prostate, bladder, and perineum felt good. Read more »

Orgasm after radical prostatectomy

This is my first blog ever. I had nerve sparing radical prostatectomy about 2.5 years ago. A great deal of time is spent talking about erections, but I was at a loss when it came to information on pleasure and orgasm. The only results I got from Cialis or Viagra was partial erections while urinating while sitting down, for a few days following. I also tried pumps but was not a big fan. Through it all my wife has been supportive, but I was left feeling that she was more on the sidelines waiting for me to figure it out leaving me frustrated and unjustifiably angry with her. The stress on our marriage has been extreme. I was given very little support from my doctor other than erection pills, penis injections or surgery to put a pump in my testicle sac to pump up an erection. Nothing addressed sexual pleasure other than being told the only kind of orgasm I could have would be a dry orgasm. “WTF” does that even mean.
After 2 years of trying, failing, and doing my own research to address the fact that there seemed to be some correlation between my erections and stimulation of the internal nerves that were spared during the surgery. I researched prostate massagers to if any might stimulate the spared nerves even though the prostate was removed. I discussed the possibility of benefit with my doctor’s office and had a very difficult discussion with my wife. I was so relieved when she responded that she loved me and would work with me to figure it out. I settled on the Helix Syn V and Progasm. I found the Progasm comfortable enough to wear while slept. Within a week or so of leaving it in all night every night I started getting erections while peeing sitting down even though I hadn’t taken any erection medication.
I have been able to give my wife orgasms without having an erection, but I was denied any form of physical pleasure myself. One night lying in bed on my stomach facing away from my wife, my legs spread and the Progasm inside me, I asked her to roll over and put her leg over mine. When she did I my body responded and did it ever. Every muscle in my body was contracting, my toes curled, I started panting and maybe even whimpering. This built up for several minutes until I was able to catch my breath and relax, but not for long before I started to blast off again. I not sure but I think this rolling orgasm lasted more than 30 minutes. We were traveling the next day and that night it happened again. So much of my frustration and anger was feeling that sexual pleasure was something that I would never experience again. I can honestly say that I have never had an orgasm as intense or satisfying. Any more my wife can roll over and rub my ankle and get me fired up. I feel the sensations when on my own but never to the extent as I do when my wife is with me.
At this point I’m looking for some counseling. I’m still frustrated with the medical community for their lack of help finding quality of life solutions for their patients. I shouldn’t have had to spend the amount of time I did in pornography to find medical information that the medical community is to squeamish to talk about. Grow up already!

THCaaa…

Under normal circumstances, I build my arousal for several days, then set the mood in advance for a 3-4 hour session at the very least. I start to breathe deeply to relax, self-hypnotise to sink deeper, let go, surrender and visualise a variety of images and stories before anything starts to happen. In a few hours, I start to float and really get into the session. I have P-waves, a couple of dry orgasms and mental calm seas pleasure. I feel relieved and satisfied and then get on with my day. Every fourth session or so, I’m able to achieve a super orgasm. I then lay there out of breath and count my blessings thinking about this amazing world and the pleasure within (it only happens after the 3-4 hours of play). It’s outrageously amazing and I wish that every man had a chance to experience it, but..

With THC, it is a completely different story. Aneros just takes over my body and fucks me endlessly into oblivion in any possible position and with all possible orgasm variations you can imagine. It almost doesn’t matter what I have experienced prior, and what I normally write or say about an ordinary Aneros session. With a bit of THC, everything just becomes superbly enhanced. In fact, those sessions are so different, that I feel that it is a completely different reality or universe. Read more »

Nipple Orgasmic

Just before Christmas, I had a full body orgasm riding my partner. It never happened before or since. I felt over the moon that night. Even though he was also exhilarated with the result, he hasn’t shown much interest in fucking me regularly. He doesn’t usually like topping and I am not planning to cheat. When I top, I enjoy sex a lot but I am also a much more sexual person than he is. So I decided that I want a to explore the possibility of a receptive orgasm through intercourse using another solution. Over Christmas, I purchased a real powerful fucking machine to test my limits and find out if I could orgasm again from the stimulation alone. I couldn’t reach the same level of pleasure and felt guilty about using it, so in the end I got rid of it. But it was an experience in itself that I can share in another post.

After Christmas, my schedule really intensified. In order to maintain a clear head in this busy period, I masturbated every morning before work. It kept my fantasies and my Aneros at bay. I simply didn’t have time for it. My partner also worked short days and was mostly at home, which prevented me having a session on my days off. I was no longer travelling for work due to Covid, so couldn’t take an Aneros with me for a night away. We had sex occasionally, and it was great, but I still wanted to keep my options open on Aneros. My only option was massaging my nipples quietly in bed at night and I was getting more and more out of it. Read more »

The elusive Aless orgasm

Some say that they need the right mood, others champion spontaneity. There are some that claim to have it on demand as soon as they close their eyes. Previous prostate play experience helps a lot, as you can link back to the experience of using an Aneros or another toy. To me, I rarely do it and rarely to reach the same level of pleasure. But maybe I should invest more time into it. No prep, no clean-up.

If I am in the right state of mind, I will attempt Aless at night. My technique is to imagine that I have an Aneros inside, slowly moving and touching all the right spots. Then my session almost matches an Aneros session. Only once I have ended up with an Aless super O.

Nipples help for sure! But I don’t consider it fully Aless, more like nipple induced prostate orgasms. Just last night my partner began stimulating my nipples during sex. I became superbly excited and had a few dry Os in the process, which was amazing. Afterwards, my prostate fluttered, and I didn’t want to cum yet. I decided that I wanted to stay in the arousal mode.

Then, as he fell asleep, I slowly began Aless contractions and reached a sweaty shaking orgasm. It wasn’t very intense, but I imagined a toy going in and out, and visualised it massaging my prostate. In the process that took over an hour, I had several strange visuals that enhanced the experience. I saw a finger or a hand there, reaching in and tickling my pSpot, I imagined being fucked and stimulated. And I just wanted to surrender and submit to the experience. Read more »

New Decade

For me, after several months of dull or limiting sessions in my Aneros journey, I have almost stopped having them.

Then, I suddenly and unexpectedly reached new heights in the last seven days. It started with finding out that I may be alone for several days and nights that inspired me to prepare mentally and physically for potentially long sessions that would allow me to relax and re-discover pleasure, and continue my journey. I was getting very excited about that. Whilst that didn’t transpire, I held back and decided not to orgasm in a traditional way. What followed was completely unbelievable, phenomenal and blew my mind completely.

Day 1 – On day 1, my partner went to bed early. He didn’t know that I was holding out, so I decided to just lay next to him and slip in a generic massager that was closest to me. I didn’t experience any overwhelming sensations, but it was pleasant. This increased my arousal further and I wanted more. Read more »