I’m a 71 year old guy with some BPH issues, and perhaps a pending “Uriolift” procedure. Years ago I had a fantastic 3 hour session using a short broomstick handle cut off, lots of lube and several extra special “O”‘s that day. Reading up on prostate issues, I noted the Aneros models in their various formats, and opted for this 4” long model, knowing my anatomy is not what one could consider large. The other night, when the Aneros arrived, I used it with success, to understate it, and my goal is to keep the prostate active and ‘cleared out’, if this is helpful. So I am looking for others with somewhat the same experience as far a uninary tract issues AND those having used the Aneros, which as research shows, was actually invented to help with these conditions. Also, I note (have you?) some dangers and risks listed (Wikipedia) associated with the use of Aneros devices. Anyone with valid medical background…your comments would be most appreciated in response. I am looking forward to periodic use of the device, assuming it is safe to go ahead. (use plenty of water-soluable lube, I know). THANKS.
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“Year-End Encouragement”
As 2018 draws to a close, I would like to express a few thoughts. I have been actively pursuing my Aneros “journey” about 3 years now, although it feels like yesterday when I had my first Super-O. Since then, I have explored my sexuality in various, stimulating ways. I am amazed that at my age now (67) I still have the sexual vigor and stamina I did when I was 30 years younger! Was Aneros responsible for this change? I believe the answer has to be a resounding “yes!”
I have made a lot of anonymous “friends” over the years through this site. And that leads me to the thrust of this message. Whether newbie or expert, all of us have our lives, our sexual passions to share with one another and I encourage all to share that knowledge that has been personally gained through Aneros. Yes, there are many erotic, perhaps tawdry elements that creep in, but the basic male biology remains unchanged. For the most part, we males need to ejaculate regularly. We need to exercise our prostates regularly. The process by which we arrive at our destination will certainly vary from man to man. It is in the variety of choices that we are able to share our mutual experiences here in this forum.
I for one am grateful to have this platform in order to express my individual path to sexual fulfillment. I encourage all of you to participate as well. I wish all of you to experience a happy and sexually healthy 2019!
Night Night…Good Morning…
Finally I have some time to tell you all about Monday Night…and then Tuesday morning…
So Monday night…I decided to get some aless in. Session was at least 1.5 hours and while I got some nice pleasure waves and some really sweet mini-Os it was nothing to write about. I believe I was just tired. After that time…I went to bed…content and accepting the session for what it was.
630am rolls around. My wife kisses me to wake me up…she is off to work. I am laying in bed with just a tshirt on. Its a little chilly so I cover up a little bit and roll on my back. My prostate says “Good Morning” with just a little pulse. Oh now you want to play I say to myself. I obliged him…it wasnt before long…BANG…I’m in the ecstasy I wanted 8 hours prior. It’s building…and building…and building…and a few mins later that familiar full body pulsing was back and my entire body is tingling all over. The pleasure is magnifying…I am back at that new level I found a few days earlier. It’s soooo amazing. This session lasts for another hour. Every 6-8 mins I would have at least a 2+ minute Super-O that would leave me breathless.
After this…I got up…jumped in the shower and got ready for work and had a rather good day at work…
“This Is Why There Are Different Aneros Models!”
Introduction
Back-to-back sessions from last night to this morning. I was still “feeling it” at Day 7 of SR and decided on another session. Somehow, I KNEW that my prostate wanted the MGX! So I quickly lubed-up with SSG and started.
Session
The MGX is designed differently from the Helix; it has a different profile and also the ribbed stem which facilitates anal stimulation. Both work to give an amazing ride! I felt p-waves almost from the beginning and, like yesterday’s session with the Helix Trident, I felt “more” when I re-positioned myself in bed. I began to switch from light kegsls to some deep contractions and everything felt amazing!
How long did this session last? Not sure but probably in the order of 30 minutes. Since I’m already at Day 7, I’m hoping that these back-to-back sessions will propel me to Day 10 or beyond!
Conclusion
Directly from the Aneros website: “Aneros prostate massagers might look very similar but each one has been designed to produce exciting and different effects.”
Yes, this is why I currently have five Aneros models: SGX Classic, MGX Classic, Helix Trident, Eupho Classic and HIH 950. And I intend to keep all of them! Since each one has its own “signature”, there is really no reason to “favor” one over another! But I recommend letting your prostate “tell” you which one it wants! Your brain will tell the difference and will reward you with success in your sessions! Touche’.
“A Different Point Of View”
Background
Day 6 of SR, wearing Mueller FlexCup overnight. Not especially aroused, but feeling a strong desire not just for a session, but for one with a specific Aneros model: Helix Trident! How could I not oblige? Here are the details…..
Session
I got-out the HT, lubed-up with SSG and began the journey. Now in the past, the HT has not been especially fruitful, so my expectations early this morning (about 2 AM) were low. And at first, although it felt nice, I did not feel anything. But little by little, I began to feel a stirring in my prostate and around the same time, a ‘pseudo-erection’ as well. I just kept at it for a while and eventually, I felt some nice p-waves combined with some strong abdominal contractions as well as some whole-body convulsions. I had not experienced these in a session in a while. They felt amazingly good!
New Position
For this session, I was lying on my right side like I usually do. Around mid-way during the session, I decided to rotate my hips and actually lie face-down. (Since I was still wearing my cup, there was no chance of stimulation from my cock, and so I proceeded.)
Almost IMMEDIATELY, I felt such a surge of pleasure from my prostate that I nearly screamed! I had been moaning prior to this, but the (slight) additional pressure on my prostate by the HT was unbelievable! With every little contraction on my part, I was rewarded ten-fold! I began to convulse all-over again and my toes were “twitching”! I could not stop the movement generated by the little Helix Trident.
Some progress
I’ve made little progress since my last blog. I’ve actually felt some pleasure not in my prostate but in my anus. I’ve decided that since I can feel sensations in my anus I would focus on that since I don’t really feel anything in my prostate. Not until I’m very aroused anyway. Here’s how my session went. I began by taking a hot shower, witch is something I’ve found helps me relax, then after I dried of I lied in bed and did some deep breathing. Then I began caressing my thighs. Then I applied some lube to my anus and gently messaged to relax the anal sphincters. At first I didn’t feel anything so I began focusing on my anus near the opening. That made me more aware of of sensations but I still couldn’t feel much pleasure. That’s when I realized that I had to have erotic feelings if I wanted to feel any pleasure. So I began I set about finding a fantasy that would help. But that didn’t work either so I just lied there and focused on the physical sensations. Then I started thinking of the sensations as pleasurable instead of just there and that’s what did it. That’s all it took. I didn’t have an orgasm and the pleasure wasn’t constant it came and went, kinda like waves. But that’s ok because I enjoyed myself. I guess before I wasn’t able to get of some of those nagging thoughts in my head that prevented me from feeling anything. I think I’ve a great leap but there’s still a lot left learn about myself.
Hummmm
Possible progress?
Fridays session found more of the same. No sensations unless I initiated it manually by massaging the sweet spot but I did something slightly different. Rather than push through the sensations to completion I stopped short and let them linger a second than performed a pc contraction. When I did this the sensation burst from my prostate and flowed over my body. I did this several times. Felt wonderful but did not expand further than that.
Sunday I thought I would have some me time so I joined w/ helix. Turns out she had other plans. Fuck it, I stayed joined and did what running needed to be done. I didn’t have time to feel or enjoy being joined but knew I was getting ‘seat time’. While sitting on the couch several hours later I was leaning against the hand rail on the left side and my knees were in front of me, kinda like side saddle. I reached behind and found the handle/tabs. I started to slide my finger over this in a flicking type motion. The sensation went straight to my prostate. I changed to a scratching across the fabric of my pants. It felt really good. After about 20 minutes I felt the sensation of an orgasm start to build. I kept at it till it went away. This wasn’t strong and didn’t last but mere seconds but showed me I could reach the same feelings without manual stimulation of my sweet spot.
Hugging my blanket
This morning I went into awesome Aless, without any focusing, any kegels, any fantasies, only hugging my blanket and a little stretching. Grabbing my blanket felt like holding my stream of ecstasy vibes to not fall off. It was a strange experience, powerful and soothing at the same time. Like floating on a sea of bliss and tranquility while flashes of lustful sexual power electrify the scene and my whole being. But this was no envision, only a bodywide feeling and perceptiion of my surrounding. At least four or more SOs crushed over me and let me moan and hum on different pitch levels. It felt so wonderful, until the phone rang. Sighing I believed I had to call it a session. After having answered the phone call I went back to bed and lay down, covered myself with my blanket again. And, bam, the session continued as if I never had left it. I still can’t believe it myself, what an incredible morning.
My Sexual Trinity
There are so many aspects to rewiring I don’t know if I can cover them all or provide adequate description of them all. It would be like trying to describe life itself or the meaning of sex. But at three years into this journey, aside from the mental changes and the changes in my sexual outlook, the most significant impact of rewiring on me was my experience of the sensation of sexual pleasure.
By the time I hit my third year of Aneros practice I had been experiencing orgasm and serious sexual pleasure for 30+ years. For me the focus of that pleasure was my cockhead and the first 3 inches of my cock behind my cockhead. Masturbation was a race to the ejaculatory “finish line” and the ceremonious spewing of a rope of semen.
As I described in the previous entry, the rewired me experienced sex in an entirely new way. The two most significant changes in my experience of sexual pleasure were: (1) the slowing down of my sensory systems and the shift in my perception of those sensory systems. The outside world gets shut out; all I can feel or sense is the pleasure inside my body. Everything outside my body ceases to exist, I feel totally isolated and contained inside my skin. As reality fades from my awareness I am transported inside my mind to a state of perfect happiness in a hazy soft idyllic place and (2) my physical experience of sexual sensation expands. No longer is my penis the nexus of my sensations, they are felt across the landscape of my body with particular expression in my cock root and cock slit, my nipples and my anal canal.
“Would You Shake Hands With Gloves On?”
Introduction
While wearing my XO “chastity cup” overnight, I began to dwell on this concept. What do I need to fully participate in an activity? Of course, one generally would not want to shake hands while wearing gloves. But why is that? I began to meditate….
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Feelings
In any activity, one wants to feel immersed in the task at hand. The glove example: one want to feel the other person’s human hand as part of the gesture. It is only natural and normal.
So there are myriad other examples too. Here are a few that come to mind….
[Some of these are of a sexual nature so reader discretion is advised.]
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Wearing a condom for sex – Really? Skin-on skin sexual contact is the epitome of the male/female bonding.
Cuddling while not naked – No way! Is this the way mother nature intended?
Wearing a “chastity cup” for a masturbation session – You kidding? You need access to your erect cock and the personal “touch” of a hand (your own or a partner’s) for fulfillment.
Not wearing a “chastity cup” with a full-blown erection – Not in my book! These types of erections can lead to an unintended ejaculation. If that’s not what is intended, better to wear one!
Not using a prostate massager – Get out of town! Your prostate needs to be properly massaged; a massager like the Aneros gets right in there and does its job all by itself. It needs no other help from you other than some gentle contractions.