Category: Aneros blogs

Ride 3 – Blog 1

I got my first Aneros yesterday. While I’m not new to prostate toys, I’m new to dry orgasms and am so excited about achieving my first experience!

I’m still learning, first and foremost, how to leave my dick alone but as I lay in bed watching a guy demo his Helix, Cumming over and over and over, I definitely felt as though I was getting somewhere..

I lived myself up and started with a finger, gently massaging the outside of my hole, dipping the pad of my finger in slightly as it opened up to tease my anus further. When I was ready, the Helix slipped in and nuzzled itself up against my prostate nicely, and I began to gently raise my PC muscles for a second or two, before gently pressing my sphincter back down again.. As I did this, gently contracting harden then softer, my dick became rock hard and I began to ooze Previn all over my stomach, through my trail and upcto my belly button.

As I watched the guy in the video climax over and over, inspiring me to keep going, I lifted a huge drop of pre from my slit and smeared it over my right nipple before beginning to gently slide my finger over it – watching my dick pulse and twitch in time to the contractions of my ass. Read more »

“A Matter Of Degrees”

Introduction
I have been thinking about this lately. Let me explain it…..

Many things us guys do, particularly of a sexual nature, involve varying degrees of action. Here are some examples:

Masturbation/Edging – I can masturbate forcefully and elicit an ejaculation in probably less than a minute. Or I can take my time, go slowly, and extend the pleasure for perhaps 15 or 20 minutes or more. It is up to me how far I want to go.

Semen Retention – I can practice SR for just a few days as I have done. Or (barring the infamous ‘blue-balls’) I can extend it to perhaps 8-10 days or more. My most recent “run” was to 10 days and I had to end it, not due to ‘blue-balls’ but due to the extreme horniness that was generated.

Male Chastity – I can wear a “chastity cup” all night, or I can wait until I am aroused by a night-time (NPT) erection. The resulting feelings are similar but yet different.

Prostate Stimulation – I can do (and have done) daily Aneros sessions regardless of outcome. Some sessions are short, others are longer. I can do these sessions for therapy, e.g., control of BPH symptoms. Or, I can space-out the sessions as I am doing now. I use my arousal level as a guide to when I feel my prostate is telling me that a session is needed. Usually, those sessions are the best, as I can feel the immediate effects throughout my prostate and perineal area. An ejaculation usually is not required to appreciate all the stimulating effects of prostate massage. Read more »

The Road to Rewiring

When I look back at the milestone of my rewiring 11 years ago I now realize that it was a bringing together of the jig saw puzzle of events and experiences from the start of my sexual journey of discovery that began in earnest in my early 30’s with the experiences of the first two years of my Aneros practice. Looking back on it the potential was always there and the adoption of Aneros practice was the key that opened the door. In effect I believe that rewiring brought together the male and female sides of my sexual psyche and forged them into bisexuality.

The first step in this evolutionary forging of my sexuality that rewired me was my participation in a workshop on female sexuality and female sexual response when I was in my early 30’s. My eyes were opened to the deeper more visceral experience of orgasmic pleasure that women have as opposed to men. I learned the inextricable link between a woman’ s mind, her vagina, the visceral sensory presence of her lover (his scent, looks, feel etc), her whole body experience of pleasure, the strategic ingredient of how she feels psychologically at that moment and her orgasm. Read more »

First super O

Up till yesterday, I was managing dry o/mini os that would come and go and sometimes chain almost consecutively.

The 2 days prior to this I had sessions that were so pleasurable I didn’t feel the need to ejaculate like I usually do at the end of every Aneros session, I was more than satisfied. So technically at this point I was on day 2 of semen retention which is 1 day longer than my record for years haha.

Last night was different, I was entering new territory. What started out as a typical dry orgasm which spread across the whole body didn’t stop after the usual few seconds but kept getting stronger. It didn’t break or chain into another O, it was a single orgasm that kept going. If a regular ejaculatory orgasm was on a scale of 1, this would be a 1 that grew into a 2 and 3 then 4. It lasted as long as 4 orgasms too.

My body was super receptive and every part of my body felt so aroused. My hands circled from my chest down the sides of my belly and outer thighs but when they caressed the inner thighs, I felt a jolt of pleasure in the pc muscles and prostate. It was automatic and instant. I tried repeating the process like another 7 times and it worked everytime. This never happened before! I was so in tuned and content with my body. Read more »

A New Level

The Super-O is such a difficult thing to describe. It always comes across like hyperbole or unreal. It’s like something from the best dream you can think of but when youre having one there is no denying it.

I’ve been wondering intently if there is a limit to the pleasure or intensity and for the past two weeks I had a very good estimate of what appeared to be the limit. What I thought was shattered. I woke up with incredible butt buzz from last nights session. I started to aless and just like last night I was in a perpetual state of orgasmic pleasure with a super-O ever 10-15 mins.

And the I started to play with my left nipple. There was no build up to this super-O it came so quickly and it was deep it felt like my prostate was being sucked like literally someone took my prostate and sucked it like a popsicle and it kept building. I was shaking all through my torso and my toes were curling repeatedly. I started to scream dont stop…and it didnt. It was so explosive. I kept rubbing my nipple and it was as if I was adding to my normal pleasure levels. And then it gradually died down. No crash…its as if it walked away. And left me in a pool of my own sweat.

Rumble in the Jungle

So…just a tad bit about me. I work in the IT industry as an executive. I’m super hands on so the past 48 hours I have been working with my team doing a series of deployments and upgrades to our environment. I was exhausted. So the wife and I went out to get some last minute items for the Xmas party we are hosting at our house. She cleaned up the house so she said no cooking. We went out to a local bar…I had one drink…shit knocked me out by 8pm once I got home. The key note here is that in the past 48 hours…I hadnt done anything from my routine. No kegels…no cool draw…no edging…nothing…

I woke up at 11pm. Nothing out of the ordinary. Opened up Reddit and just laid there.

Well Mr Prostate woke right up and almost immediately I was getting constant pleasure. My prostate was super sensitive to the lightest of touches and it wasnt too long until I was MMOing…like just a constant orgasm that just crashed down on me. I could feel it in the back of my throat. The pleasure was mounting and without warning my entire body tensed up and was trembling the only thing moving was what felt like the softest dildo up my ass. Just gently touching my prostate and sending me into Super-O stratosphere. After a minute I would come down from the high but it was not the crash that would normally happen…it sent me just right back to the edge and kept me there…a few seconds later….full tense again…my prostate begging for a little more speed….a little more push. This went on for the next 45 mins. My back was sweating. I literally had no breaks…I had to come here and write about it.

Kegeling and Diddling in a Jock and Cup

Hi guys,

About a week or two ago, I composed a blog entry on how to choose correctly the best fit jock and cup for your gonads and cock. Tonight I declare that both items are ideal for Kegels and Diddling yourself.

Ordinary jockstraps and jocks with pockets for holding athletic cups are ideal for the Kegel Exercises and for the pleasures of diddling your nipples. Athletic supporters and cup jocks have the elasticity of material in the waistbands, leg straps, and pouches that facilitate the Kegels and enhance the pleasure of nipple diddling. If you are wearing an athletic cup for contact sports or a cup for maintaining your chastity or sexual continence, just be sure that such cups and their jock cup holder fit your genitalia as perfectly as possible. An ill-fitting jock and cup combo may be downright uncomfortable and lessens the beneficial effects of the Kegels and even your diddling.

Kegeling and diddling in a jock and cup is ideal any time of the day, say sitting at my PC, or sitting on a couch watching TV, or even walking outdoors in a natural fashion. A cup bulge in your jeans or slacks may be noticeable, or even obscene, but heck, you are doing something good for yourself, and it is certainly health promoting.

@goldenboy has inspired me to wear a jock and cup to bed most nights. Kegeling and diddling in the still of the night are indeed sweet and powerful. @darkbond through his daily Kegel routine has inspired to look at the Kegel Exercises anew. Take care! Read more »

“Day 9 and Rolling!”

[Thanks to @darkbond for the inspiration and positive success!]

Introduction
I reached Day 6 of SR and began to think: will I need to ejaculate soon due to blue-balls? I read a post from @darkbond recently giving a “Cool Draw” breathing technique for control of blue balls. I was a little skeptical at first, but decided to give it a try.

Well, three days later I am now at Day 9 with absolutely no hint of blue-balls! I have been performing the “Cool Draw” technique every day and it seems to be keeping the blue-balls at bay! I hope that it will continue to work.

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Here is some additional information I got from Reddit on this subject:

“A Technique for Aiding Unwanted Erections, Blue Balls and Wet Dreams”

“I have mentioned this before, I hope some find this useful.

Upon pressure in testicles (blue balls) or unwanted erections, perform technique right away. For wet dream prevention, perform everyday before bed.

Sit down and sit up straight, spine straight, do not lie down. Suck in your gut as hard as you can while simultaneously breathing out. Suck in abs, exhale, do this forcefully. Let go and inhale, relax abdomen and then repeat, suck in abdomen and exhale forcefully. Hold the hollow position of sucking in the gut and hold the breath exhaled for as long as you can in between cycles. Visualize energy going from below the waist, to up higher in the spine. Read more »

Smash Brothers then Smash Prostate

So…I’ve been playing a lot of Smash Brothers the past few days. Never really got into the game but I am liking this one. Mainly because it’s on the Switch and I can take it anywhere in the house. Well I was playing a little bit while doing some light kegels. That led to those kegels producing some nice p-waves. Next thing you know I am putting down the switch and just enjoying the waves.

I decided to kick it up a notch. I lifted up my T-shirt and started playing with both my nipples. My hands were crossed so that opposite hand would handle opposite nipple. Next thing I knew…bam…dry orgasm leading into a super-o then back down to dry orgasm….basically an MMO with a few pretty short Super-Os. It felt like a Thimble just pushing against my prostate…and the more it pushed the more waves radiated outside my body.

I then had a new sensation…it felt like my prostate move to the base of my penis…and yes thats where it is but it felt so much closer to my penis boner. I focused on that feel…diddling my nipples and it felt so good I was whimpering from the pleasure….

…..and as I am writing this….like literally just now…while sitting down. I had dry orgasm that lasted for 2 mins. Felt like a heartbeat getting stronger and stronger in my ass. What an amazing feeling…