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“The Refractory Period Is More Than Physical”

Background
I ended an SR “run” today at Day 7. I probably could have extended it a day or two. But I decided that I didn’t want a visit from Mr. Blue! I used ‘edgemeplease.com’ for a short session and it worked very well!

As expected, I developed a refractory period following a nice ejaculation. I didn’t feel too awful, thank goodness! But one thing I noticed this time is how downright TURNED-OFF FROM SEX I felt! It was almost as if I became not a male nor a female but a “neutered” human! Any kind of sexual stimulation was furthest from my mind. I had no interest in chastity either.

How long did this feeling last? Hard to say exactly but my guess is about 8 hours. Obviously, I would like this number to be smaller, but I’ll accept the hand that I’m dealt!

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Reference (from International Society for Sexual Medicine):

What is the refractory period?

“After orgasm, both men and women experience a resolution stage. At this time, their bodies “recover” from sexual excitement and return to their normal states. For men, the penis becomes flaccid again and he goes through a refractory period.

During the refractory period, a man doesn’t think about sex or get aroused. His body does not respond to sexual stimulation and he is unable to reach orgasm again until the period is over. The length of the refractory period is different for every man. It may take a half hour or more for his body to perform sexually again. Read more »

Three days off. Sessions getting more prostate focused.

WOW! Had a little time this morning so did a quick session. Things got exciting fast but had to stop. Second session got a LOT more intense. I REALLY wish I hadn’t had to stop it.

Sensations are getting MUCH more prostate focused. I can now feel the pressure building in it as the O builds. Pleasure is starting to radiate out further in the area going slightly down the inside of my legs, up into my very low abdomen. Really enjoying this.

Someone had mentioned having some residual pain with the PS-New. At this time I’m not getting any. I really like this model.

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“There When I Need It The Most”

Introduction
What is “it”? And where was “it” when it was needed? Of course, I am referring to my “chastity cup” which I wore to bed last night. It was my Mueller Flex Cup, one of my favorites. I am now in Day 6 of semen retention and feeling the effects of increased testosterone. One thing about wearing a cup to bed is the interaction of my erections within the cup: the top of the cup rubs nicely against my erect penis and especially the frenulum; this action almost keeps the erection going for much longer than normal, when, without stimulation, the erection would begin to subside. With stimulation from the cup, an erection can last 30 minutes or longer. And because when I wear a cup all night, I can have an almost constant “stream” of stimulating erections (NPTs that all normal males must experience) when I am aware of them.

Session
Of course, all these erections make me very horny. In fact, without the protection of the cup, by Day 6, I would be so horny that I would need to ejaculate. Since I usually develop blue-balls any day after Day 6, the pressure is mounting for me to ejaculate! Read more »

A slow motion or bullet time session

Hi guys, I briefly must tell you about my last edging session. This morning I stayed in bed and had some awesome slow-mo edging fun only holding my member with two fingers and doing nothing else at all. First to initiate some arousal I had positioned my left forefinger right above my member’s root and lay the ball of my right hand on my solar plexus with forefinger and middlefinger above and below my left nipple. Soon I felt arousal building up in my abdomen and briefly closing my fingers to touch my nipple already provoke some strong involuntaries. When I finally was rock hard and thrusting forward my pulsating member I decided to sit up and do some slo mo edging. I pushed down my boxers and held my member between forefinger and middlefinger of my right hand. My forefinger rested at the height of my multiple ridged band and my middlefinger I put short below my frenulum. Then I did nothing else. My gland took over and sent out one orgasm after the other throughout my body. From time to time a drop of precum appeared on my glans and some more involuntaries along with more orgasms shook my body. Often I felt really close to cumming but the only fluid I produced remained to be precum. After a while my feelings calmed down but soon built up again and adding some little nipple stim finally grew up to at least three very satifying superOs. What a morning, oh yeaaaahhhh!

An Aneros/Body Synergy

Hi guys,

The last Aneros session I had was probably two plus weeks ago. I had so many distractions in my life since then. However my body and certainly my psyche had other ideas. I craved a session the last few days. Really I was really horny for one.

Also while the Aneros and hot guys like @goldenboy have enabled me to get in touch with my body through the 21 day Semen Retention Challenge and “Chastity,” my nights upon retiring to bed, I would slip on one of my cups and jocks and then diddle my nipples to great satisfaction while slumbering through the night.

Well, I think the last time I masturbated to orgasm and ejaculation of copious semen was probably three or four weeks ago. I lost count. But late Wednesday night, I had a thoroughly satisfying jack off session. Yesterday morning however I woke up still horny.

This morning, apartment management are away on a charity event until this morning. So I had a session with my favorite Aneros models, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE which lasted about 45 minutes. They took over my body of their own accord as they massaged my prostate and anal musculature. I really didn’t have to anything to help them along except diddle my nipples and aureoles at intervals, so very sweet. I think there was perfect Aneros/Body synergy in this morning’s session. Read more »

A Great Ride, literally!

I know I’ve been rather quiet in the last few months but I didn’t feel I had much to contribute as all my sessions are pretty well the same; GREAT!

Thursday, I had some alone time so I opted for a rare morning session even if I had things to do.  I lubed up and inserted one of my faithful friend; my Eupho Syn.  I spent a few minutes lying on the couch getting my prostate acclimatised to it’s cuddling friend. 

I had an errand to run so I got off the couch, got in the pickup truck and headed out on the road with the Aneros still inserted.  We live in a country suburb where the roads are sometimes a little rougher than in the city.  During the ride, my prostate felt every single bump and crease on the road and converted them into direct pleasure waves.  With such intense pleasure waves pulsating my anal canal and prostate, instead of driving to avoid the bumps and crevaces on the road, I was actually looking for them and aimed the vehicle accordingly.  The sensations in my entire pelvic area was absolutely exquisite.

At destination, I got out of the truck and did my business while talking to a few unsuspecting people.  Meanwhile, the Eupho Syn was doing it’s job pleasuring my prostate.  The experience continued on the return trip and once I reached home, I headed for the couch again to finish my session.  What a great ride! Literally! Read more »

saw doctor

This morning I saw my doctor. Last time I had seen my doctor she had mentioned about blood pressure medication and cholesterol medication and wanted me to think it over. My doctor has been aware for years of the fact that my wife and I have a statistically sexless marriage and she is aware – and approves – of my aneros use. Having reviewed things with me, she noted that the only downside to taking these medications would be a strong possibility of ED. A statistical sexless marriage is one thing less than 10 times per years. An absolute sexless marriage is something else. My wife and I had been averaging 2 to 4 times per year for many years now.

So I informed my doctor that recently my wife and I decided to discontinue sex altogether. I said it was my idea, my offer and my wife readily agreed. I told my doctor that my health was more important than getting hard, when quite frankly I had no use or need for an erection. My doctor told me that it might reduce my libido as well. I told her I was fine with that.

So now I have a couple prescriptions.

“Sheer Frustration…..Averted!”

Background
I have been sleeping at night without wearing a “chastity cup”. A good feeling, except when I am awakened by a rock-hard erection. That happened again this morning and the pinnacle was when my “stick” emerged from my PJ bottoms! Since I am in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of not ejaculating for 4 days. Any rubbing on the frenulum sends me to a place where my only thoughts revolve around…..ejaculating! Since I want to avoid that now, I had no choice but to quench the fire and put-on my XO cup!
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Moaning
Sometimes if I am having a good Aneros session, I will experience some rather involuntary “moans”. Those moans came back again this morning, but this time not because of a prostate massage. The moans came because it felt so good wearing the cup as I had the satisfaction of ejaculatory protection around my male member. It seemed to settle things down and quite rapidly! I know with my new “rule” I could have extended the frenulum-rubbing against the cup but this time, it felt good just to relax and let things settle-down normally.
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Session
With only about an hour to go before I had to rise for the day, I decided on a quick session. I knew in advance that I wanted the Eupho Classic for this ride. The Eupho is a delicate work of art, crafted to glide-in to my most private area and begin to stimulate my prostate in a very delicate way. This session did not fail to disappoint me and I felt the effects immediately. ‘Sheer prostate heaven’ as I experienced both voluntary and involuntary contractions. The Eupho’s curved, bulbous head makes gentle contact in and around my prostate. This short (~15 minute) session was stimulating and invigorating. I ended this session not wanting any more.
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Conclusion
I have found that wearing a jockstrap with (or without) a cup is a perfect complement to my sexual style and helps keep me focused on my role as a male! It is a normal and natural (albeit male) piece of apparel! Weird or kinky?…….no way! Read more »

Chastity “Rules” Revised

Introduction
I slept in only my PJs overnight. Sure enough, during a night-time erection, I was awakened. While “catching” myself playing with my package, I got an urge to put-on one of my swimmer jockstraps: the Duke. This jock has a nice, large pouch and fits my package well. I decided to go lie-down on my comfortable sofa and just chill with some nice, erotic tracks.

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New Chastity Rules
Somehow, I was given “new” chastity rules when wearing a jockstrap: I can’t take it off and I can’t ejaculate in the pouch. Anything else goes!

I went to lie-down and listen. This “new rule” didn’t come into play until I developed an erection within the pouch. Then, it became very easy to touch and fondle my frenulum beneath the pouch but not too much! I remembered the new “rule” but it wasn’t easy. I was able to maintain my composure for at least an hour-and-a-half.

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Another New Chastity Rule
Since it was almost time to rise again for the day, I was given another “new” chastity rule when wearing a cup jockstrap: As before, I can’t take it off but this time I CAN ejaculate in the cup! What a change! I quickly exchanged the Duke jockstrap for the Mueller jockstrap with cup. Read more »