Category: Aneros blogs

“Is This A Dance? Is This A Race?”

I was thinking about all the sexual things I do, except for actual (p.i.v.)* sex. Do they all have something in common? Yes they do—-almost all of them involve some sort of “dance” around——an ejaculation!

Thinking about it, all the Aneros sessions, all the prostate play, all the pseudo male chastity play really has one goal in mind: ejaculation! Ah, but it is in “dance” that it all becomes worthwhile, almost like an art form! The idea is: how far can I go without ejaculating? How much stimulation can I endure before I have to blow the load?

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How far can I go? Here, I am referring to the practice of semen retention. For those guys that have never tried it, I would recommend it. It is a way of boosting your overall sexual response to any form of stimulation. Even by itself, just the practice of withholding semen will boost your testosterone level by almost 50%! You are sure to feel the results; I sure do! But one caveat—blue balls! I can get them, and usually do, after about 7 days of SR. For me, this “dance” ends and another one starts.

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“Horny and Desperate”

Introduction
I was online reading and watching videos about guys locked-up in chastity cages and one phrase that caught my attention was “horny and desperate”. It seemed that this guy was locked-in his cock cage and he was not the keyholder. He had an erection inside his cage and wanted to ejaculate so desperately. He tried and tried stroking and masturbating his cage but was unsuccessful. He became very frustrated to say the least!

Similarity
I decided to sleep in my XO cup overnight. Since I am now at Day 7 of semen retention (SR), I am feeling more frustrated that I have not yet ejaculated. I had a very strong erection within the cup overnight and was squirming-around on the bed close to the PONR. I guess you could say that I too was desperate for an ejaculation, sort-of like a wet-dream. But it was not to be and I became very frustrated.

I went to lie-down on my sofa and started to listen to some erotic chillout mixes. Very nice indeed! I changed from my XO cup to my ARMR all-cotton jockstrap. This strap is very tight and supportive and has a wide, 3” waistband. So it feels very good. It also has a cup pouch. Sure enough, I began to fondle my package beneath the pouch and, secretly, I wanted to ejaculate. But the frustration came back when the cup found its way into the pouch! I became more desperate by the minute! Read more »

Good session

Took about 10 minutes to get going but it got really good, really fast. I’ve stopped starting on my back. Starting out face down just works. Didn’t stop because I wanted to. I had things I had to get taken care of. The way things were progressing though I probably could have kept going another hour and found another universe.

Something I found out. If you want something to stimulate your nipples go find some “Bio-Freeze” in the roll-on bottle. It’s like the old Ben-Gay for sore muscles just more potent. Roll this onto your nipples and rub it in. It’s awesome! A small touch on your asshole, like using the residue on your fingers after rubbing it into your nipples, brings on some interesting sensations. I wouldn’t go much heavier than finger residue.

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PS-New

Regardless of what model I use I get to the BIG SO faster lying on my stomach. Lying on my back gets me there but slower and with less intensity.

The Joy continues

Last night my wife and I talked – I reminded her we last made love in March and here it is late October. She reminded me of her perimenopause into menopause phase that she has been stuck in for the last 5 or 6 years, and that it could last another five years, maybe more. She said to be honest she has no interest in sex other than private masturbation. I told her from my perspective the connection was the most part, and she agreed. So I made her an offer. We abandon sex altogether indefinitely in exchange for kissing and cuddling. She is allowed to masturbate her labia and clit in private but no vaginal or anal penetration with toys, fingers, objects. I am allowed to use my prostate toys in my rectum in private but no touching or rubbing of my penis or scrotum for arousal purposes. If I want to acquire a chastity device she will supervise the installation and hold the key, but it would need to be something wearable 24/7 as she does not want to be involved taking it off and putting it back on me. We discussed me seeing my doctor to review the cholesterol and blood pressure medications she had previously suggested as erectile dysfunction would be ideal for us.

“Portable Chastity”

Background
I decided to sleep in my Mueller cup overnight. When I awoke early this morning, I wanted to chill with some relaxing music. I set myself up on my sofa, put on headphones and started listening. At some point, I wanted to remove the cup and just relax in my PJs. So I did….

Thwarted by the Cup
When I settled-in wearing only my PJs, of course my hands began to wander. As sure enough, they found my rising cock and began to play. Since I am only in Day 4 of semen retention, I did not want to run the risk of ejaculating so soon. So what did I do? I took the cup out of the jockstrap and placed it over my PJs and my groin! And with my hand holding the cup, I was unable to continue the stimulation on my cock! Problem solved!

Waking-Up
At some point, however, I must have dozed-off. When I woke-up again, I could not believe the erection I had. It was so strong and I began to lightly “pump” the cup. Oh that feeling of being near the PONR was so strong, I honestly knew that I could ejaculate at that point. But I held-back, and kept the cup in place with my hand until the erection began to subside. At one point, I remember placing my hand inside the pouch of the jock and that was stimulating in itself! Read more »

Losing its lustre

This wasn’t a bad session just not as good as some I’ve had especially with the Progasm. Think I’m going to take a week off and see what happens next time.

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“Wear Underwear? You Can Wear A Cup!”

Background
I am only in Day 2 of a new “run” of SR and I slept almost through the entire night without wearing a “chastity cup”. Towards morning, I noticed that I was “grabbing” my swollen package a little too much. I couldn’t believe how stimulating it felt, but I wanted it to stop! And that’s when I got the urge to put-on my SD carbon cup and quench the fire!

The cup goes on easily, like putting-on some underwear. And as soon as I had it on, I had a great relief knowing that my “private package” was again off-limits to my wandering hands. That is the essence of male chastity, whether by an athletic cup or a more traditional cock cage. The feeling is the same.

Male Chastity
Male chastity is not as much about a sexy, stimulating feeling (although that is a great side-benefit!) It is about control. In particular, in my case, it is about someone (or something) being in control of my sexual response, in particular, my ejaculations. When that control is given-up, strange things happen. At once, I am not in control of my ejaculations. (Yes, ultimately, in this game-of-one, I am). But temporarily, I have given up that control to an inanimate object. And that object I can wear! That hard piece of plastic, perfectly shaped for my male anatomy, cradles and protects my package perfectly! If I play by-the-rules, I can’t cheat! Read more »

“At Day 7, Anything Can Happen!”

Introduction
I made it to Day 7 of SR and I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight. It could be a coincidental T-thing, but I seemed to have multiple erections during the night. Towards morning, I was awakened by the usual “PONR” feeling within the cup. But this time, I felt like I was further-along towards an ejaculation. Somewhere deep in my mind, I knew that an ejaculation was forthcoming. But I didn’t know when and where. I must have stayed in this realm for perhaps 20 minutes or more.

Binaural Listening Session
Still erect within the cup, I wanted to augment the PONR “feeling” by retiring to my comfortable couch and start listening to some binaural beats for orgasm and ejaculation. I was ready for both. The one I selected (and the one that worked) was:

“DOUBLE ORGASM – COME TWICE – Binaural Audio Stimulation – Hands Free Beats + Isochronics Tones”

I listened twice to this 14-minute gem; the first one got me wet with precum and the second one finished me off. I almost didn’t need my hands to finish the job! But towards the end, I was so ready for the ejaculation that I “helped” to accelerate it! Man, it felt ever so good to cum!

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Note (from WebMD.com):

“Erections depend on testosterone, but the relationship between the two is complex and not fully understood. Some men have healthy erections despite testosterone levels well below the normal range.” Read more »

PS-New first time

One, I need to take a break. I’ve had a session every day for the past four days.

This is an interesting device. Definitely applies more pressure than the Helix, not quite as much as the Progasm. You can definitely tell the PS-New is there. It seems to reach higher than the Helix too. Not sure about the Progasm. Good device.

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