Category: Aneros blogs

“How Deep Is The Well?—-A Reflection”

While listening to a familiar track on YouTube this morning, I began to reflect on our male sexuality.

[I had a session recently where I experienced a 2-hour refractory period after release of some prostate fluid. It caught me by surprise. In essence, I lost all desire for anything sexual. It was an “empty” feeling—one which came on very suddenly and without warning. After the period was over, I did regain most of my sexuality].

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Then, continuing to listen, I reflected on our male sexuality: “Will It Be There When You Need It?” Of course, “it” refers to our arousal—our erections. It is those erections that seems to “trigger” something much deeper within us. [Here I got a sense of a sexual “well”]. Without that erection, we can’t even begin to look down into the well. Can we see the bottom? What is in the well? This reflection continued……

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What is it, then that makes our prostates pulse? [Here, I began to perform nice PC contractions in sync with the music]. After all, no doubt about it, we will need our prostates to be involved in our sexual decisions and actions. Our sexual “wells” run very deep. What’s in yours?

What turns you on? Is it a sight? A touch? A smell? A taste? A sound? Ah….these are the senses. it seems to me, then that we as males are “wired” for sex. We have to be. There are things that will trigger a sexual response in us. We like it, we need it, and we desire it. Read more »

Definite success

Just had my first mini o, either that or it was a really intense p wave. Laid on my back, legs up, and did a mix of do nothing and matching contractions with my breathing, relaxing while breathing in, and contracting while breathing out. I felt it, very specifically wash over me, like a wave at the beach, like it wasn’t just an all over feeling that got more intense, it was the same intensity all the way through it, but it spread from my bum, up my stomach, and down my legs. It was over in a half second, but it was euphoric.

Friday 6.30am. SR Day 13

I composed this blog whilst lying in bed this morning having “endured”, if that’s the right word, two hours of joyous feelings. It seems that my body has decided to take matters into it’s own hands to relieve the pressure if I refuse to use mine. Time and again I have felt that unmistakeable feeling that signals an imminent ejaculation, without any stimulation at all from me. Flacid member, throbbing erect member, lurid fantasies conjured up from nowhere, all combined with dry O”s and a constant flow of pre cum. Had I been using my Helix or Progasm Jr, I would have recorded this as one of my best sessions ever but, it is all taking place without. Just how I have been able to keep myself from caving in and finishing myself off I do not know. I just want the sensations to last. Well, a bit longer anyway.
I know I am heading the blog with the number of days without ejaculating. However I did not set out with the intention of reaching any particular day. I have just done 21 days, prior the the new “count”, which I found much easier than this one. I thought it might be useful to record the day number and the level of horniness or arousal as the days pass. I am wondering if there is an optimum time for retention and the levels of arousal it brings. Maybe my arousal will recede slightly as I pass a certain stage. I am certainly hoping so as it is reaching a crisis point at the moment. I have a date with Madame Helix tonight, maybe she will soothe me. Somehow I doubt it.

Athletic cup & SR challenge! Session for Friday March 23 (day 19) : there is exquisite power in wearing an athletic cup!

Hi guys,

Today is my 19th day of my SR challenge. I am just two days away from achieving my 21 day goal. I have decided not to have an Aneros session today, but rather to take note of what I am experiencing now as my SR challenge matures and reaches the finish line.

I hope to wear my BIKE CUP Supporter unit no. 85 for most of the day. However, I may change into just briefs as I visit a church parishioner recovering from surgery in a hospital 4.5 miles from my residence early this afternoon.

I awoke in the 3 o’clock hour early this morning and listened to my walkman radio. My cup supporter felt so exquisitely sweet as I diddled my nipples through my Under Armour Coldgear shirt and as I Kegeled in my BIKE CUP!

At this writing, my Kegels happen naturallly. The BIKE CUP and jockstrap caress my perineum. The sexual sweetness right is akin to what I feel in the vicinity of the PONR! I plan to do this many times today. Take care!

“This Session Didn’t Work….Or Did It?”

Background: I am in Day 12 of SR and still feeling very horny. I am due for a “scheduled” prostate massage session today (Friday). So I decide to start a session with the MGX/Boy Butter.

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I know that expectation for a session are supposed to be kept to a minimum, but since I am scheduling these sessions and still remain horny in chastity and devoid of prostate pleasure for a couple of days, I honestly expected more from this session. I was wrong. What did I expect? Actually, I expected a good deal of dry-o’s perhaps leading up to a super-o (which I have not had in a while).

The session with the MGX lasted about 25 minutes or so. I felt a “pumping” from within my prostate once or twice but didn’t feel much of anything else. So I considered this session to be essentially a “dud”.

Still wanting more, I lubed-up the Helix Trident with a little more Boy Butter and continued the ride. This was for another 25 minutes. I did feel an intense “auto-f***” from the combination if the P- and K-tabs. I felt a distinct “lateral” movement of the Helix. But still no dry-o’s or a super-o. I was disappointed.

Following the session, I went to clean-up. I was surprised to see a fair amount of “wetness” inside the pouch of my XO “chastity cup”. It was not urine, nor was it sticky. Conclusion: it was prostate fluid (which is thin and milky). Read more »

Athletic cup & SR challenge! Session for Wednesday March 22 (day 18) : There is power and sublimity in my Aneros tools!

Hi guys,

I am now in day 18 of my athletic/”chastity” cup and SR challenge this morning. I am composing this blog entry immersed in powerful, yet Aless following another amazing Aneros session which I had in the five and six o’clock hour here before sunrise. I am interacting this Aless with lots of Kegels which comes to me so naturally now!

I believe that the 21 day Semen Retention Aless as you progress through it actually improves your Aneros sessions. You refrain from ejaculatory orgasms during the period. This is the basis of male chastity which redounds in more sexual attention and even more so sexual tension. I wrote some reflections on male chastity in a blog post last December just before Christmas. I said that most chastity disciplines are religious in nature. I cited examples in the Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox religious monastic and ordained life, also chastity as practiced in the Mormon Church for strengthening married life and more committed Mormons. Yes, in most Eastern Orthodox churches, you have a married clergy, but married priests in those churches live a very strict life in sexual relations with their wives.

Not much has been written about chastity inspired by ethics. However, there seems to be medical or health benefits of male chastity for long periods of time. However, there is a physical need for an occasional ejaculatory orgasm for “clearing the pipes” of semen past due! 🙂 Read more »

Thursday 3.30am. SR Day 12

Due to a social engagement I was disappointed that I would have to forgo my scheduled Aneros session for Wednesday night. I was hoping it would help to alleviate some of the mounting horniness I have been feeling. I’ll never know whether skipping that session led to what followed later. I found myself having the following conversation with myself in the middle of the night, half wondering whether it was a dream.

I stir, feeling by the urge to pee.
No wait, it feels like I’m going to ejaculate.
Can’t be.
Well get ready cos it sure feels like it.
OMG! A tiny dry O.
Here it comes again, I can feel it rushing through the pipes.
Stop! What if it’s pee this time round?
Well my bladder doesn’t feel full but……..
Yep, better not chance it.
I scramble out of bed and put on some underwear. In any eventuality they will catch some of whatever it is. I settle back down. A fluttering feeling below, I am just on the verge.
Concentrate, careful! Slowly let it come.
I squirt a couple of drops of pee and leap out of bed.
Sh**!
Back from the bathroom, bladder forced to empty. Sleep.
Hang on, I think I’m going to cum.
What the heck!
Well it can’t be pee this time.
I’m not even hard.
A small convulsion and I am wet. It’s not semen but pre cum.
Am I disappointed? Hmm, yes and no. Let the horniness continue! Read more »

Chastity “Grab-Bag”

My use of “chastity cups” has taken a new turn! Let me explain….

Last night, I had to decide on which cup to wear. I wanted the soft, flexible fit of the SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup with the comfortable, relaxing fit of the SafeTGard jockstrap. So what did I do? I combined them! And I wore this “combination” overnight with great success! The SD cup is my favorite. It is long enough for my erect cock and nicely tapered at the bottom, straddling my perineum. The SafeTGard jockstrap has a nice, wide waistband that is not too tight, a smooth and soft cup pouch and nice, wide leg straps. By combining these two male chastity “elements”, I achieved the best of each. I was greatly aroused during the night and with this combination, the cup “expands” away from my body (due to the erection) just enough to accommodate and add to the stimulation on my cock. I am currently in Day 11 of SR and still hoping to achieve another wet dream any night now.

My “chastity cup” collection: SD Ultra Pro Carbon, SD Soft Cup, Mueller, XO, SafeTGard, Bike
My “pouch jockstrap” collection (capable of holding a cup): SD 227, SD 218, Mueller, XO, SafeTGard, Bike, ARMR

So there are various “combinations” possible; enticing pleasure awaits! I would expect some new and unique feelings emanating from the “new” combinations of male “chastity cups” and pouch jockstraps. [Note: The Bike jockstrap pouch is rather small and can’t accommodate every cup.] Read more »

Best-Laid Plans / Got to be Flexible

In my first post I said that I would not ejaculate for at least 3 weeks. Ha! That brilliant plan was nixed on Day 9 by blue balls.

I had an intensely pleasurable session last night with even more and stronger p-waves than my Friday session. The pleasure would grow and then subside, over and over. After a couple of hours, I was really tired and starting to doze off, so I removed the Helix Syn and was about to go to bed when I was struck by a dull aching sensation. I know what blue balls feels like even though it has been years since I last experienced it. So, I relubed and reinserted the Helix and proceeded to relieve the symptoms. The orgasm was doubly intense because of 9 days of abstinence and also the relief of the blue balls feeling. The drawback is that my arousal level is now reset. The truth is it had built up to a point where it was starting to annoy me. I was sitting at my desk at work yesterday doing fidgety nervous activities like shaking a leg or tapping a pencil against the desk, which is very unlike me normally. And I attribute this nervous energy to a protracted period of being at a high level of arousal. Read more »

Session 3, New Sensations.

Started off really nice, tried the “do nothing” thing again, and got some really nice p-waves. Although they were more immediate, maybe 2 or three minutes after inserting, and were way more intense than the last time. Also tried holding a contraction for as long as possible, this seemed to do the job for me. Definitely felt a full body wave of pleasure, made me feel like I was just starting to float out of my body, and felt something building in my ass, right at the tip of where i imagine my helix sits, it definitely felt like the beginning of an orgasm… And then my family came home and fucked it. Just my luck. Rode for about an hour after that and never quite got back into the swing of it but i did move to lay on my side, and my helix started rubbing against the side of my rectum and for a second that was this EXPLOSION of pleasure, but it fizzled out. Wanked off. I await the possibility of the same “buzzing” in my prostate that may start up later.