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Doing other stuff to not get frustrated

I’ve been finding a mild amount of success with putting in an aneros for an hour, porn on in the background but more for the sound and occasional glance. I then proceed to read for class or do other homework. I’ll go for an hour and then either take an hour off or pee and switch to a different model (I have a progasm and the euph). Gotten some very pleasurable sensations and can go for several hours without the frustration and desire to jerk off that I get from listening to shibby tracks.

Thoughts?

which aneros do I buy?

I started out this morning thinking, fuck it I’m getting a prostate massager. After lots of research the only question I have is which aneros do I get? I know it’s probably different for everyone but I’m probably only ever buying one so I need it to be “fool proof” I’m 6’3 if that makes any difference what so ever lol

Advice needed – no involuntary contractions

I’m having an Aneros Helix for a few weeks. Unfortunately, I have not yet been able to induce involuntary contractions of the sphincter and PC muscles by tensing and relaxing them. It also doesn’t make sense to me how this is supposed to be brought about by training these muscles (-> mindgasm). After all, if I train these muscles, they get stronger, get used to the load, which is rather counterproductive to involuntary contractions due to fatigue, isn’t it?
Does anyone have any tips on how I can achieve involuntary contractions as a precursor to a (super) O?
The massage of the prostate by the Aneros is also rather weak/barely felt by me. I suspect that the Helix is too short and thin (I feel more with the Nexus Glide) and will try the Progasm. Thanks in advance for your tips.

Just recieved my first anal toy in the mail 2 hours ago and am here after trying it.

I just got the Helix Syn V.. I am straight, struggle with pleasure and the Helix Syn Trident was recommended; saw the vibrating option and went with it… why not.

I masturbate with a folded pillow between my legs and never have been able to stay hard or ejaculated with my hand or any other method known to myself.

This implies with sex I’ve had with women also! (I can stay hard and have sex for hours though never get an erge to orgasm.)

It wasn’t charged so cannot say that I know what it’s like with it vibrating though found it pretty disappointing? I have never put anything into myself before; used water-based warming lube and put it in.

I got an erection from putting it in then slowly grinded against my pillow (I usually squeeze my legs together and clench my arse as I thrust). I can’t say I felt any stimulation from it and felt like I just had something between my butt cheeks, the rest of the toy that was in me felt barely recognisable?

Am I doing something wrong..? pretty disappointed with the product atm..

I tried it for a solid hour and didn’t get myself off (that’s normal for me) I tend to struggle with my pillow for an hour + to orgasm.

Edit: what would also be the best way to store the prostate massager? I have just cleaned it and placed it back into the red box it had came in; would that be suitable storage for it?

Did I piss myself?

Last two sessions I’ve gotten myself to the point of getting some undescribably good feelings. Both times those feelings climaxed with a ton of precum mixed with urine. It didn’t feel like I peed more like someone squeezing my bladder from the inside to force the fluids out. Anyone else experience something like this? Was this a dry O? I’m 8 years in on this journey and finally feel like I’m on the right track.

How do you focus the energy and buildup

So when the aneros / or aless is building… its almost as if like an electrical current in your body is building up (is the way i would describe it). I find that this sometimes can get very harsh and powerful and sometimes it is more of a gental energy. I would describe the Super O as when the energy keeps flicking super fast thru the body and prostate area and then all of a sudden it just stops and you get the calm seas super O where it feels like you are floating thru space.
The question is what do you focus the energy on when it builds, do you try and keep it calm and slow, or do you enjoy when you clench (or kegal) and the energy builds and builds. I have had mixed results with both methods. But i much prefer the calm energy that slowly builds. I find the harsh energy can sometimes make your entire body start to twitch all over.
Do other people have this same build up of energy style (fwiw i rarely use the aneros anymore as I can do it all Aless… especailly with thc it just sets it off instantly) But just seeing which method people use to reach their super O..
I find the best sessions are when i try and almost stop the energy (which is impossible on thc) and try and stop the body from performing keegals and it eventually gets too much and I have to give into it.

Success? I think

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for years now. I’ve always found it pleasurable, but have never had the experiences like I read about on here. I’ve recently discovered nipple play + hip thrusts really get me going, so I planned for a session on Friday night. I had held off from cumming for 3 days prior, just to make sure I was really horny. I find that 420 enhances my experiences, so I smoked a bowl and laid on my bed. This time around I used the progasm, and….wow. This time as different. Immediately after putting it in I felt this wave of sensation over my body. As I began to rub my nipples, I started feeling a tingling pleasure in my groin and my cock began to twitch. I kept at this for a bit, and then starting thrusting my hips. For the first time, I started having those body shakes I hear people talking about. I could also feel my heart rate increase significantly. Kept going at this for a bit and then it started to diminish, and I wondered what the next step was going to be. I decided to try lying on my stomach, and seeing what that would do. I laid there for about 10 minutes, just doing small contractions and hip thrusts when I started feeling the pressure again. This time though, I felt more pleasure and could feel what I assume to be the start of an orgasm. I keep at it, not sure what was going to happen. Eventually I felt a very strong pulsing and felt like I was about to cum. I kept going, and then experienced a massive wet orgasm. Even after it was done, I was able to continue with the contractions and hip thrusts and it felt like a flutter. In hindsight, I wish I would have edged that pressure feeling out a bit and explored where it would take me. But I’m still wondering, what is it that I experienced? It was much stronger than a typical orgasm, and I never once touched my dick. Was this a prostate orgasm? Why do I see so many people talking about dry orgasms? Are the dry ones more intense?

Question: Is there any long term effect on health relating to the prostate or pleasure centres of the brain that I should be aware of in relation pursuing an orgasm every night ?

I’m just wondering if anyone knows anything because I’m at a point where I no longer need an aneros product to achieve an orgasm & I only really use it once a week but I’m kinda addicted to the whole routine of pursuing an orgasm every night now & am seeking anyones insight into whether I should be taking longer breaks for the sake of long term health?

Progress, maybe?

Hi there!

A few months ago, I bought myself a Progasm Jr. I haven’t had much success with it so far, just mild anal pleasure. That said, I kept trying in the hopes that my body would eventually get used to it, taking from the accounts of people on this sub and other websites. Here and there, I read that refraining yourself from masturbating the usual way for a few days would make you more sensitive to pleasure in other parts of your body.

So I gradually started to space out my masturbation sessions for longer and longer periods of time, and when I felt like I wanted to jerk off, I made sure to always plug in my Progasm Jr, and only ever use my hands when the frustration really got to me. Eventually my toy began to move on its own while I was watching porn and I did start feeling some other kind of pleasure from that, but nothing too substantial. However, something different happened today.

As I usually do before any session, I went to the bathroom to empty my bladder. It would seem, however, that I did a poor job, as I felt the urge to pee half an hour in. I didn’t want to end my session that early, so I pushed on despite the risks, and I began experimenting with that feeling. I tried to concentrate on the area where the urge to pee was coming from, and little by little, I switched focus to a spot right under it that felt really good. Read more »