I’ve tried searching this sub and couldn’t find anything. I’m considering buying an aneros, but I can’t find an explanation of how to actually use it. Thanks.
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Which lube do you recommend?
I have yet to find a good lube brand. Either it is too liquidy and dries out too quickly, or it is too dense and requires some grip strength to dispense. Any recommendations?
First experience with Trident Helix – wow.
I did some research as my girlfriend and I have been enjoying dipping our toes into anal play (especially involving tongue, etc.), and settled on getting the Trident Helix + sliquid silk for the lube. From my research I was a little worried it would take a while of effort of me just letting it happen, and such as people say to do in here. However, I thought maybe I’d get lucky as I have played with myself before with no toys, and so I’m loosened up to the idea of that play, y’know.
Anyways, I tried it today in the shower for the first time, put lube in my hand and then just swirled the Helix around in my hand till it was properly lubed, inserted pretty easily, and damn – it was such a good experience. I actually came faster than I normally would, and it was for sure a more intense experience. I turned my shower setting to a less intense spray so I didn’t have to worry about lube being removed as much which was a good call. Tried playing with myself standing up at first, but quickly just laid down in the tub and enjoyed it.
I must have lasted less than 4 minutes honestly. I think me doing kegels with it in helped warm me up to it quickly, and I also noticed that I got to the edge way faster than I normally would, and just let it happen. I think this is just the beginning of the intensity of it for me, especially since I haven’t involved my gf yet.
Staying in the NOW & Avoiding Fantasy
It’s easy to get ahead of the sensations and fantasize about what the waves of pleasure COULD be like, but this attitude almost always shifts me out of the current pleasures and grinds them to a halt.
Seems like fantasy builds tension which kills relaxation…and the Super O.
How do you stay grounded in the now and avoid being too focused on reaching the Super O?
To wear or not to wear, that is the question.
I’m getting my hair cut this morning, and I’m considering wearing my toy while I get it done. I find the public aspect exhilarating.
What’s your suggestion, and has anyone else done something similar?
Had some progress and need advice
I got the Aneros Helix Syn V a couple of months ago and have been occasionally playing around with it working towards a prostate orgasm. I’ve had mild success before; a little bit of shaking during long sessions, but nothing to crazy and definitely no hands free o / super o.
I saw a post here saying that before your session it helps to edge for a little bit so I did just that. I jerked off for maybe 30 min and brought myself close 10 or so times.
I did this late at night and was in a very relaxed state, which probably helped a lot. After a bit of fun (no cumming, though) I decided it was time to start with playing with the toy. I took 10 or so min before starting to hit my weed pen and to make sure it had been a bit since I touched my cock.
Laying down on my bed, I lubed up the toy and after rubbing it against my hole for a bit I gently pushed it in. I started the session with the vibration off and just trie to focus on contracting. I also made sure that I tried different types of contractions; I saw a post saying that they didn’t have to be big ones and found that I had the best results with little contractions.
Posistion for best prostate contact?
I understand that all bodies are different and that everybody has their own preferences, but based on standard/typical/average/”normal” human anatomy, which body position should yield the best contact between the toy and the prostate? I usually lay on my back, but I feel like I’m losing connection with my prostate when things starts to get interesting.
Advice for a dry orgasam
Advice on the Anal/prostate orgasam
Hey guys,
I have been using #Aneros, #purewand, #weredog dildos for a while, I am able to HFWO either through shaking or rubbing my prostate.
I plan to do a big session and I would like some advice on how to have an anal or prostate orgasam without ejaculation?
When I ride my dildos I also find that my body convulses and I squirt a lot of urine pre cum and cum, it makes a huge mess even though it feels amazing I don’t have the same pleasure of heading towards climax.
I use poppers with the Dildos only and I notice that my hole really opens up and almost pushes out, i get loads of pleasure and I could climax, I feel most of the pleasure comes from my prostate so I feel like that’s a good direction to go in but I don’t want to take loads of poppers.
I will start my session with #aneros then purewand and see how aroused and excited I get before moving on to a weredog. I plan for a good 6 hour session as I have found that’s how long it takes to get my prostate in action.
Any advice is appreciated
Thanks
M
Not into it when constantly pulsing PC muscle
Does anyone else not benefit from the pc muscle clenching ? I find that my best sessions are when I get into a deep meditative like state and barely clench (if at all). Maybe the muscle exercises help at a different stage than I am at but trying to create a rhythm of clenching takes my mind out of it and doesn’t let me focus on my prostate. Is anyone like this or was like this?
I understand that this writing is already many before me, but still, there are basic exercises.
I asked a possibly similar question, but I’ll try to find out again, I have been practicing and “trying” for many years, I have tried different sizes and different toys, I have fortunately or unfortunately already experienced a “prostate orgasm” several times but I forgot how I this was done by “this problem with my memory” fortunately and regretfully, I found out that this is possible but I don’t remember exactly what I did, but after this happened I wrote two “notes” in one indicated
: (1) tighten the penis and the anus will contract on its own, and at the same time tighten the muscles of the legs. second note:
2. clamp the member between the legs, use a small size massager, stick it in almost to the stop, then squeeze the anus and legs.
I’m trying to repeat everything that I described in those notes, but I can’t, I understand that the primary goal is not the end, but the pleasure, but still maybe somewhere I made a mistake.
ps.sorry i used a translator ^-^