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Multiple HFO and rewiring in 4 weeks

Hi again. Unlike my last posts, I’m not going to describe you my latest session. I’m here to tell you that rewiring is possible and that all efforts made in order to achieve HFO are completely worth it. As some of you may know, I started focusing on my prostate 4 weeks ago. Since then, I haven’t had any penile masturbation, and I can really tell you that I don’t miss it.

Just a month ago I was lost, I really tried my best to follow all the tips I’d been reading on reddit, but nothing was happening while playing with my prostate. I then realized that chasing a sensation was sabotaging myself. I had never had a prostate orgasm before, so I could not look for one, I just had to have fun and, someday, it would come. It finally did.

During these last weeks the pleasure I’ve been getting from my prostate has only increased. I don’t even know where the limits are now because each session is better than the previous one. I can now say that I have had prostate orgasms. I wasn’t sure about it, but yesterday I realized that all those amazing sensations were orgasms. I mean, as we are used to penile orgasms, we can’t distinguish any other until we have finally rewired our prostate/nipples. During yesterday’s session I had several very strong prostate orgasms and I ended with a HFWO. It has been my best sexual experience. The thing is that, after the previous session, I felt the same. Which means that the limits of pleasure are unthinkable until we feel something better. Read more »

Fingering during session?

Anybody else run their fingers around the aneros in mid session? It’s almost like being rimmed, it made for a unique feeling but not sure if it distracts from letting the helix do it’s thing.

I’ve had some pretty intense sessions, lots of involuntary shaking and head to toe buzzing, feels like it builds until I hit a ceiling but I have trouble finding time to go much beyond 90 minutes for a session.

Getting so close…

I’ve got a helix and am getting tantalising close to a P-orgasm. The helix is massively enhancing my orgasms but they are still ejaculatory penile orgasms. With the Aneros in place the climaxes are radiating far deeper and they are lasting much longer. Now I really want a P-orgasm but it’s proving elusive. I’m thinking a larger model like the Progasm might help.

Thoughts?

Second Prostate Play Session

Massager: Aneros Helix Trident

Lube: Coconut Oil (Lubed toy, hole, and used a lube shooter)

This session was pretty similar to the last one except for the last part.

I had like a full minute where my whole body was shaking violently, my legs were flailing like fish on a boat deck. It was definitely pleasurable, but still it didn’t feel like it was “conscious” pleasure.

I was in such a state of relaxation to get to this point that I was just kinda in a trance. The best equivalency I can make is to wet dreams. I come out of it very exhausted and I know that what I went through was pleasurable, but it kinda felt like it was in the background.

It was very intense, but there was never really like a point of no return or final finish like I’m used to with orgasms.

I don’t know if what I had was a prostate orgasm or p waves. With a prostate orgasm is there a “finality” to it? I never came in this session or the last, so idk.

First Aneros Session Recount

Massager: Aneros Helix Trident
Lube: Coconut Oil (Lubed toy, hole, and used a lube shooter)
So, before I started I read a lot about common techniques and practices. I even watched a couple of videos of people having prostate orgasms and super orgasms (or so they say) with the aneros to have a frame of reference.
Once the toy was in, I laid flat on my back and started to do some deep breathing exercises. After a few minutes of this to get relaxed I remembered that in some of the videos they say that stimulating your nipples can help. So I started with that and rubbing other parts of my body (never touching my penis) and this did feel good, especially with the deep breathing.
After a bit of this I started to do some kegel exercises. I was having a tough time of actually feeling the massager inside me, I didn’t feel pressure or full or really anything. But I tried visualizing the toy inside me and that helped a lot, I got a clear picture of where the toy was and what it was doing.
While doing the kegels I felt what I could only describe as “wisps” of pleasure, like tiny little bursts of a pleasurable feeling I felt move from my prostate area upwards. I tried focusing on that feeling like some guides say, but I couldn’t really hone in on it. I went back to my deep breathing and nipple play and kinda just reset the situation.
Then, instinct just kinda took over, it was much less cerebral. I started moving my hips up and down while doing the kegels, it felt good so I just kinda rolled with it.
I knew I felt something, but I didn’t know what. It didn’t feel like anything I’d experienced in sex or masturbation before. The best way I can describe it is when you see sheets of water going down a window, but the water was small bits of pleasure and the window was my body (from my ass to my head).
At this point I don’t really remember what I did, I was just continuing what I was doing (the kegels, the moving my hips up and down, the nipple play, and the breathing) when suddenly my breathing went shallow and fast, and after a few seconds my torso was having uncontrollable spasms. My breathing got very heavy and fast, and my torso was shaking for about 10 seconds. Then, nothing.
I just remember feeling thirsty, my lips were dry, so I grabbed some water before looking down. The towel under me was dry and my dick was still soft, so I knew I didn’t cum, but I did feel a good amount of pleasure. At this point I wanted to reapply lube (I probably didn’t have to, but I’ve never done ass play before and I don’t want to take any chances of not being lubed enough). This was a natural break point anyway. I checked the clock and it had only been about 20 minutes since I’d started, so I knew I was gonna go back in for more.
After my quick break, I put the toy back in and got ready again. I watched one of the videos again to see what the success stories looked like, and I noticed way more leg shaking than torso shaking, so idk.
Anyway, I went back to what I was doing before, breathing, kegels, nipples, worked my way back in over the next few minutes.
Then, my breathing went shallow and hard again. I could feel myself quickening my hip movement involuntarily. Then my whole torso and legs went into spasms, the waves of pleasure were more intense this time (still not really that strong though, any penile orgasm would be much stronger), but I couldn’t really focus on them at all, I was just experiencing them. My knees eventually bent and were shaking vigorously. This time the shaking went on for about 30-45 seconds (at least so I think, it was much, much longer than the first time). Then, it just stopped all at once.
The upper part of where my quads meet my hips were sore and I just kinda laid there catching my breath. I can only describe what I was in as a trance, I didn’t really have too much conscious control of my body. Again I hadn’t cum or even gotten an erection.
I’m not really sure what happened, not much of the pleasure was deliberate and it wasn’t really comparable to anything I’ve experienced from sex or masturbation. I don’t really know what to make of it, but I did like how relaxing it was and I see that there is definitely potential there.
I’ll probably give it another go sometime this week.
Is there anything I should be doing differently? How do I have more “conscious” pleasure, like something I can definitely feel, not something that’s like in the background?

It is getting intense

Hi again! I have been telling you my adventures with my new wand during my last sessions. This one will be similar, however, I’m looking forward to playing with my aneros next time. Let’s begin!

So, as usual, I took a shower and cleaned myself. Unfortunately, water went too deep, so I had to clean myself again once more (be careful with the amount of water while anal douching). I headed to my bedroom, put some towels on my bed and prepared the lube and the toy. This time I also used a syringe to insert some lube, as I’m struggling with it since my toy dries while playing with it (I’ll be looking for some new lube). I lubed the wand and I slid it in.

I found my spot quite quickly, but I took the toy out to add some more lube. I reached the same point once again and I started playing. As told you in my last post, my strategy is to move the wand as if it was a joystick, it really works for me (remember that all of us are different). While playing with the wand, I also started to relax more and more by breathing deeply. At some point, I got to feel my toy rocking against my prostate, it was a nice sensation. Read more »

My first breakthrough

I bought an Aneros about two weeks ago. I’ve never really tried prostate play before this. I tried about 2-3 sessions with it in a week, and it felt good, but not the amazing feelings I had read about. I finished myself with my hand at the end each session due to some frustration. I tried doing nothing with meditation, flexing and un flexing PC and sphincter, mindgasm, and just about any other idea I came across online, and nothing really was amazing. I was doing some kegels during this week and really struggled with separating movement between sphincter and PC muscles.

Today, after not having touched or really thought about my aneros, penis, and prostate I was laying on the couch watching TV and started to feel super horny, probably due to the fact that I usually masturbate daily. I remembered Mindgasm saying to hold both muscles for 30 seconds and then release. This was the thing that had felt good, but we not lasted a couple seconds. I decided to try holding it for as long as I could

AND HOLY HELL IT STARTING FEELING FUCKING AMAZING.

I was doing everything I could to flex both muscles as my body pushed back with incredibly strong feeling of pleasure and massive convulsions and violent shaking. This was so intense and i guess my muscles are weak so I could only do it for about 3 minutes max. I didn’t have a bunch of time so I only did this about 3 times resting for a few minutes between. Read more »

Need advice

I have a progasm jr. I like it a lot had some good sessions with it. I’m curious if another model is better. I want to explore a bit. Any suggestions??

Trying to have a wet prostate orgasm

Hi guys! I’ve been on a stroking ban for a week now and have been trying to achieve some kind of prostate or anal orgasm. I had been hoping that my level of (constant) horniness and patience would get me there, but I feel kind of lost. Whether I try the Aneros Helix Syn for an hour (just laying on my belly, relaxing, sometimes doing kegels), a prostate vibrator, the Lovense Hush or my Fuck machine, the most I can do is use a dildo to extract a few drops without any orgasmic feeling.

Does anyone have maybe a video to recommend? Am I going about this all wrong? I’ve been investing lots of time and getting my mind clear, but maybe I’m just expecting too much? Very curious to see what people think here!

My 2nd Aneros Helix Sync V went bad!

So far I have had 2 different Helis Sync V models quit working almost the same way. They were never abused nor under water, nor dropped. Anyone else besides me have this happen? They both started losing their minutes of charge & eventually would not charge at all. I started using it without the vibrations but realize it is still under warranty but every time I send it back, I have to pay for the return shipping & insurance charge. After the 2nd time I feel it is a losing situation!