Hi. I’ve been using aneros for almost a year now. I’ve gotten to the point where I can achieve a meditative-like state and where the aneros feels really good relatively quick after starting a session.
But I’ve yet to have a session that lasted over an hour. I’m a very busy person who does not live alone so most of my sessions last about half an hour if they’re during the day, and that half hour feels good.
At night I get too tired after about half an hour and fall asleep / lose my arousal.
A couple days ago I had some time during the day and at about the half hour mark after waves of tingles my arousal seemed to die. Usually I have sessions at night and this is a sign that I am too tired to continue so I end the session. But this time it was the middle of the day and I was not tired so I continued.
Sure enough my arousal came back in slow building waves. But this time it was different, I had to actively relax/meditate way way less, it was almost like the arousal and effects of the aneros were happening on their own, like they were inevitable and coming no matter what I did. It was almost like breaking past the half hour(ish) point had moved me into the “second stage” of the aneros session.
How it felt: