Some questions after the first session

Yesterday i had my first ever session with my new Helix Trident. I liked my session but i have some questions.

1. When my toy was in i noticed that it slipped down a bit. It wasn’t fully in. Is that normal?
2. How often should i concentrate my PC muscle? should i just pop it in and let its do its own thing or should i concentrate the muscle a couple of times?
3. Should you be erected while the toy is in? I rubbed my nipples in order to stay erected, but i think that this distracts me of the feelings of my prostate.
4. Can i masturbate “normally” after a session without my toy in?

Morning after the night befOre

So yesterday was a cool day. I posted in a state of frustration about a lack of progress and received some encouragement and advice. Fast forward a couple hours and I finally cracked it, and had a number of super-O’s. Fucking incredible!!!

Today I’ve been off-the-chain horny. Crazy horny compared to normal. Woke up at 6am and had to jerk a little to settle back to sleep; I edged 3 times this morning/early afternoon, which I thought had calmed me down, but an hour or two later and I’m back to square one. A fantastic outcome, don’t get me wrong, but is this normal? Either generally, or at least early on?

Was planning to rest today and try again tomorrow, per suggestions online, but at this rate I don’t see me resisting tonight…

Getting frustrated

I’ve had my Helix Syn for about 2 months now, and whilst I’ve not hat anything mindblowing yet, my early sessions seemed quite promising. Definitely experienced P-waves, and a few times caused some trembling sensations in my extremities (mostly arms/hands).

But it seemed to regress after the first couple weeks. I think a lot of it is mental – I feel like if nothing significant (I.e. Light P-wave) happens in the first 20-30 mins, I get frustrated and *that* seems to be the nail in the coffin. And no amount of relaxation beforehand seems to get around this. I’m a little annoyed in all honesty that I am not moving forwards at all, but the feeing of stepping backwards is such a mood killer.

Have people experienced this kind of stall, and what did you do to navigate it. I know that it will take time and there’s no magic solution, but tips for managing expectations would be really appreciated. It’s clear I’m getting in my own way, but I don’t know how to effectively combat that.

Also, when learning the technique, I’m a little lost on how active I should be. On the one hand I’ve been told to relax completely, let the toy drive. On the other, people say tensing the prostate is key. One thing that has gone right is that I feel a lot more able to work my prostrate when I have nothing inserted – kegals were never something I really got in to before, but I really have gotten good at them I think – but not so much with the Helix inserted. It’s like I can isolate the prostate without it in, but when it’s inserted it’s much much harder to isolate the prostate. I end up clenching my butt/sphincter too, which seems to kill any growing P-waves. What are you doing?

Some tips for my first session?

I have an aneros vice in the mail and its set to arrive tomorrow. I have put fingers in my ass many times, only to supplement regular masturbation, i’ve never tried to get a super o like that. but for my first session, do you just leave in the massager and thats it?

I need everyone’s input please!

Hi Team,

Let me start out by saying I am 31 years old and I’m straight, but I’ve always been curious with my back door, but where I am from, it’s not really acceptable to do so. I guess that would mean I am basically bi, just unable to act on urges.

I been using aneros products on and off for about 1 1/2 – 2 years. I started with a Progasm ice (black), however after about 6 months the Ptab broke off and so did my hunger.

About 6 months after I purchased another progasm ice, this time it was the clear one. I always wanted to expand on my collection to experiance new sensations. When the trident line came out, I saw my chance and expanded to Helix, Maximus and Eupho (all trident), and wow I am glad that I did. I am also a huge advocate of the ‘do nothing technique.

I have a couple of questions about experiances some of you may/may not have had, what happens to you etc. I’ve tried searching, but alas here I am.

Whenever I have a session, once I have inserted the device, my muscles start pulling it in and out straight away. I’m not complaining, it feels great, but I have only read that it takes 10 – 15 mins of contractions for this to occur..? – I know everyone is different, but does this happen for anyone else?

How long did it take?

Just started using a Helix Syn a few months ago. I have definitely came close to a few super o’s, but haven’t fully achieved one yet. Was just wondering how long it took to get to a super o.

SUPER O! I HAD A FUCKING SUPER O! I HAD A FUCKING SUPER O!!!!!

(Apologies for typos here guys, I wrote half of it while riding and gasming but I’ll try to fix up the second half at least, I want to preserve the emotion of what I was typing in the first half though)
You guys I’m in fucking tears with the amount of pleasure I just experienceD I felt like I saw through time and looked at the face of god. I’m on such an extreme high I don’t feel like reality is real my willy is so hard and im pissing out pre cum IM HAVIN GA PORSTATE O AS I TYPE THIS IM SO FUCKING IN LOVE YOU GUYS 😭I LOVE THIS SO MUCH! PLEASE DONT STOP 😭😫😩 I never want t o come down holy FUUUUUUUCK MY HOOOOOOLE! 😫😫😫It felt like the fucking Big Bang went off in my stoMACGH! IT KEEPS WASHING OVER ME LIKE A SONIC BOOM! I dont know how this amount of pleasure is even legal!
Writing this portion of my blog entry after the feelings have subsided, now currently not riding. FUCK! I am speechless, I did NOTHING. I was lying on my back in bed, pillow under my bum, almost “hugging” my knees. And I did nothing! I just laid there in the dark. it gradually happened over around 20 minutes. It started as a wee twitch in my hole, my bum would throb and throw the toy about and the more that happened, the stronger the twitches grew and grew, feeling like a morning stretch at first, then grew more and felt EXACTLY like butterflies in an extremely specific point the absolute pit of my tummy, right below my sternum, the BANG! I swore I heard it, it was so extreme, not violent but at least a 10 on the richter scale. It was like someone dropped a pebble onto my tummy and ripples just took over my torso, but the ripples were tsunami waves, every wave made me feel so warm then when each passed i would get chills, goosebumps, almost like ASMR and I would get colder, then hotter again with the next wave, in this rapid cycle, I felt these waves EVERYWHERE; in my lips, the top of my head, my nose, my fingertips, even my shoulders, I ORGASMED IN MY FUCKING SHOULDERS?!?!! After it subsided, it lingered at the butterflies stage again, almost teasing me, “Will I happen again? Will I do it, won’t I?”, and the cheeky bastard moved right to my willy and just kept it on a CONSTANT state of being on the edge of orgasm, right at that point of no return, just dancing back and forth between the territories of cumming and holding back, at this point I was just completely overcome with the most OVERWHELMING level of euphoria and a level of joy that to be perfectly honest I cant even fathom or comprehend, and my eyes just started STREAMING crying I was so happy! It truly wasn’t just an orgasm, what I experienced was the most emotional, profound, consciousness changing, mind altering, almost religious experience and sensation I’ve EVER experienced, my bum is still absolutely POUNDING, my hole is throbbing in and out like I’m being auto fucked and my body is positively vibrating!
I dont care if this is the high talking, but I genuinely mean it when I say I fucking love you guys! I would NEVER have been able to experience any of this without these forums and your guys’ help! Off to have what I can only imagine will be just as satisfying of a wank, and then to sleep for the next decade xD

Is there a reliable way of finding method to finding a suitable toy?

I’ve recently begun to explore prostate play and It’s help me had several hands-free orgasms (ejaculatory) by using a small vibrating toy. However, I achieved this by quite aggressive kegel flexing and using my hand to shift the toy around a bit – the opposite of the relaxing approach normally suggested.

This has lead me to the decision to take a more relaxed approach and next time I do any sort of prostate play I plan to take a long shower, smoke a joint and really take my time. However, before I do this I was planning on buying a non-vibrating toy as these seem to be the best for super-Os but I’m having trouble deciding on which one because people often talk about different models working for them differently and I don’t want to spend loads of money on trying to find the right toy. So I’m wondering if there’s any advice on finding my first non-vibrating toy.

Thanks.

Precum as lube is great!

Sometimes I’m in a situation where I don’t have access to proper lube and have to resort to using spit. Well, recently I discovered that precum works amazingly well(who would’ve thought). I think I might even prefer it to normal lube from now on because it seems to last forever and has a great feel.

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