In a couple of days im gonna get my first prostate massager the helix trident. In order to get a good start im not gonna flick the bean to have a strong erection when im gonna so it. But im still corious how to properly end a session. How long should it be? Since im new i have to get along with the feeling having a toy in my ass. So i guess my first session should last 1-2 hours? Should i end my sessions with a “normal” orgasm?
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Help me find the aneros toy that will finally let me orgasm!!
Hi, so I’ve been interested in prostate play for a while but haven’t quite finessed it. I have only bought cheap vibrating toys online, that haven’t hit the spot.
I’m now looking to get into the Aneros brand (my budget is still pretty low – sub £50). My question is, which of the Helix Syn, Trident Maximus, or Prograsm Ice should I buy?
I play quite regularly with a regular toy that measures around 3.25″ in circumference and 4.5″ in length. That’s a nice fit for me. I worry a little that the Helix Syn is too thin at 3″ to give a satisifying feeling, while at the same time the Prograsm Ice measures at 3.75″, which could be too thick (one of the previous toys I used was 4.25″ thick, which was painful to insert and take out).
Basically my priority here is achieving a prostate orgasm with one of these toys – I have never had this before but have played quite a bit with my ass with small-modest sized toys.
Which will give me the best chance of achieving this?
Choosing the right Aneros (not the ‘Helix Syn’)
For just under a year, I’ve (40 straight [M]) had the Aneros ‘Helix Syn’ with little/no success.
After using different strategies, I’ve come to the realization that the angle and/or length/width of the ‘helix syn’ isn’t hitting the spot for me.
Whether it’s too short or long I’m not sure of, but I think the angle of the head is somewhat ‘off’. I believe it needs to be applying somewhat more pressure than I’m able to do simply by contracting different muscle groups.
The only time I feel something that resembles pleasure, is when I slightly pull the rear tab. Because of this, I’m thinking that I might want to try another Aneros model. I’ve read many different threads discussing different techniques, mindsets etc; but I believe that the issue is the angle of the device (I’ve been at it quite frequently, up to hours at the time).
So my question is: which one to choose? It’s hard to tell from the pictures online, therefore I hope that someone might be able to give their opinion.
Alternatively, I’ve looked into the njoy pure wand, but to be honest it’s 1) pricy and 2) pretty intimidating.
Anyways, thank you for reading!
Do you watch/listen to porn during prostate play?
As I mentioned in a previous post, I’m relatively new to this. I have an Aneros Helix Syn and will be using it for the second time ever tonight.
When you engage in prostate play, do you watch or listen to porn, or do you just turn everything off and try to focus on the moment? I’m interested to learn new techniques.
Thanks in advance!
New to prostate massage/Helix Syn
I’ve been interested in the idea of prostate play/massage for a while, but have never tried it. I’m 39 and married, but my wife is extremely conservative in the bedroom – unfortunately.
So, wanting to try it, since I have to go it alone, I bought the Helix Syn. I read a lot of comments and suggestions on here about what to do before I started. I had to wait until I knew I had the house to myself for a while since I can’t do it with my wife home.
I got naked in our bedroom, put on some porn, laid down on the bed and started. I lubed my finger and started to massage in and around my anus. Then I lubed up the Syn and slowly inserted it. My penis was flaccid at this point, but I didn’t touch it. I just tried to relax.
I started tightening and relaxing my muscles, trying to feel some sort of pleasure. I did this for close to an hour. My penis barely got hard, and I finally caved and masturbated to finish. Every once in awhile, it would feel like the Syn was sliding out, but it wasn’t.
I guess what I’m asking is what should I be feeling? Am I doing something wrong? I was hoping for this incredible experience – physically and emotionally. Should I lower my expectations? Should I look for other toys? Thanks for reading. Any help you can give a first-timer would be great.
I cut the curly piece off my helix syn. Will it still work as expected?
Does that piece serve a function outside of being a handle to pull the aneros out? I cut it off so I could sit more comfortably. Will this damage the way it works?
Am I almost there? Super O?
I do feel orgasmic pleasure waves, which feel about 70% pleasure of normal ejaculation pleasure. I do feel those orgasmic waves coming and coming…
But i somehow can not go beyond this 70%. I have been trying for 1.5 years. How can I go beyond this?
I lie down sideways and looking at porn or hot erotic pleasures help me feel these orgasmic waves…
Aneros vs. Pure Wand… for beginner.
Does anyone have experience with both of these things? What would be best for working on ones first prostate O?
If one model is not working, it might be worth trying another model
Long time reader, first time poster.
I just wanted to make a quick testimonial for the men who are having trouble getting any sensation out of Aneros. A little over a year ago, I purchased a Helix syn and progasm together. At the time, I figured that as a gay man who enjoys bottoming that the helix would be a good starter, and i would enjoy the girth of the progasm. However, after trying for months I really didn’t make any progress or even really have any good sensations. Aside from the occasional play session, I gave up using them.
Two weeks ago I decided to give one of the trident models a try. since I had a medium and large sized aneros, I went with the Eupho. I could instantly tell upon sliding it in that this model was touching my prostate in the right place, and over the past two weeks I’ve had several sessions of incremental progress. I’ve not had an orgasm yet, but I’m having a ton of fun and it feels great. Also, I’ve been able to switch to my other toys and get some mileage on them during the sessions as well.
Long story short: bigger isn’t always better, and trying different models worked for me!
Cheers!
Is this part of “the journey”
Second time user. I bought an Aneros years ago (can’t remember model) and what I know now is that I was both misunderstanding what to do and being impatient. Ditched it and never thought about it again til about a year ago.
Bought a Helix Syn about a month ago, and hand a handful of sessions. From the off, things were different. Don’t know if it’s a better body-model fit for me, a better understanding of what to do to maneuver the thing, or a little of both, but it’s definitely doing something. Regularly have p-waves, and have had I think 2 smallish orgasms, though nothing approaching a super -O I don’t think.
But for the most part, I feel like I’m struggling to make progress. Im still finding the sessions a little frustrating, because whilst I definitely can distinguish the prostate from other muscles down there, I’m having trouble keeping it contracted. I fee like I get up to 10 seconds and 2/3 of the time my sphincter contracts significantly, which knocks out the prostate contact. And I can’t seem to release the sphincter only, so I have to fully relax and start again. And after a couple times of this, I normally bail on the session out of frustration.
That said, in the last 48 hours especially I’ve noticed more sensitivity to my prostate without any direct stimulation (by me or a toy). I can contract it on and off for a minute or two, and it’s not orgasmic but it is pleasurable. And I don’t think I’d ever been able to distinguish my prostate from the overall piss-stopping clenching of a few muscles.