Where I am at on the journey

I am about one year in and I still haven’t experienced a Super O. I have a progasm, helix syn, and helix classic. I seem to feel more with the helix classic. I like the tabs best on the progasm but feel more with the helix size and shape. I usually pick the helix classic over the helix syn because I tend to feel the P tab more (I think because it doesn’t bend). I start my sessions really aroused which seems to help but I keep the arousal very high (w/ videos). I keep thinking that it will get me closer. The bad part of being highly aroused is that it sorta drives me mad and it makes me want to finish as soon as possible rather than allowing the aneros take me into the direction I need to go. If my arousal dips then it feels like I dont feel as much with the aneros as when I am fully aroused. I am trying not to chase it but at the same time encourage it. Does anyone else find a difficult balance between too aroused and not aroused enough? Also with respect to positions, the side position didn’t seem to do anything for me. I sometimes get the shakes when I am on my back but it’s not the most comfortable position. I worry if I dont keep my legs up then I wont have the maximum movement (legs down is more comfortable). Since the movement is so small/subtle, should I even worry about my position (as long as I am comfortable). My other favorite position is face down, however, I think when I get too aroused, my penis touching anything short circuits me into having a traditional orgasm (which ends the session). I also seem to have better luck on the floor vs a bed, I really haven’t figured out why. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks.

Using an Aneros for the First Time right now!

Well after 2 hours and thinking anal play was overrated I am to the point where I have an entore numbing sensation all throughout my body. No orgasm or twitching or anything earth shattering but Im now in a position where i can thrust and feel my prostates good vibes. I think Im going to enjoy learning this.

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I just used a Lelo toy for the [F]irst time.

So I’m 25yrs old and female. I have been single for a year and a half now and my old toys were, well, getting a little old and boring. So I decided to purchase a [Lelo toy](http://t.wowtrk.com/aff_c?offer_id=9501&aff_id=48839) i read a while ago about other users experiences with them on here, and I could hear you all cheering me on as I purchased it. In the end I bought the Ina wave.

I used it for the first time last night, I was in a bit of a rush, and not really ready to play, but I couldn’t wait any longer. It took a while to get used to the controls and which way around they were, and all the different settings (all ten of them!).

But from the brief encounter I can tell this is going to take a while to figure out how to get the most out of it, but it will DEFINITELY be worth it. The vibrations were intense and not loud, the wave motion was really different but in a good way.

When all things were going (both the inside and clit part vibrating and the wave motion going) it was magical. The wave motion made the clit vibe move up and down exciting my clit to the max.

With the wave motion going, but the vibes on different settings (increasing/decreasing, quick on/off/on/off etc) this was the ultimate tease. My clit got just enough to almost send me over the edge, but then it would stop.

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Possible first timer

Never done any prostate massage or anything like that ( I did play around in my bum once though).

Anyway, I am considering getting an aneros or similar device for some solo play.

Sooo, any advice about what particular device would be good for a first timer? What kind of lube would be good to use (water based or silicone based or whatever. Is it even safe? I don’t want to risk any incontinence or something like that in the future.

Any other advice that I didn’t think to ask for is welcome 🙂

Not quite hands free, but definitely not how I used to do it.

After about 30 minutes of having my Helix Syn in, slowly relaxing and contracting different muscles, I felt like I needed a little push. All I had to do was rest my hand near the base of my dick and cupped my balls. That touch alone got me fully hard, and while maintaining my rhythmic muscle contractions, I squeezed the base of my cock without moving it at all. I managed to cum like this, without moving my hand up and down. It wasn’t dry, but it definitely felt more intense and lasted longer than most orgasms. This seems like a good inbetween step between full on old style jerking off and hands free.

Progasm not big enough?

I got myself a Progasm. It’s my first Aneros product. I’ve used it for about a week. I’m having a few issues.

I only experience sensation on my prostate when I really clench my butt cheeks, sphincter and K-muscles. Even then, the sensation isn’t so intense. Rather mild. When I relax the sphincter, I no longer feel the Progasm. I’ve tried a lot of different positions. Lying down flat, with knees up, on my chest, on the side, sitting upright. Nothing really enhances the feeling.

I went for the Prograsm first because I’m an experienced bottom, and the times when I’ve had amazing anal sex were when the guy was pretty big. Before getting an Aneros, I had purchased a small stubby silicone prostate massager that did nothing for me.

Anyway, I’m wondering if maybe the angle’s not right for me on the Progasm, or if it’s too small. For the record, the guys who’ve topped me always compliment me on how tight my hole is. I’m 5’11, 165 lbs, muscular fit body, mid 30s.

What is going on

Hello. Let me start by saying that I have been trying prostate play with the aneros for about 2 years now. I have had the helix classic, I now own the helyx syn, the peridise and the progasm ice. I have not really had the super o or earth shaking orgasm everyone speaks of. It has felt ok at times, it has felt good at times even great at times. Never a hands free orgasm. Well last night I had a session that was a little different. It lasted a few hours. I started with my helix syn was super horny felt small pleasure waves pass through me on and off. But was not really getting to the next level. So I moved on to the progasm. Things did heat up a bit. It felt really good. I love the full feeling of the progasm. So to not make this long and drawn out. I was feeling amazing but not wow amazing. I wanted to cum so bad or to at least just have some kinda jump to a level I have never been. I just couldn’t quite get there. I was totally relaxed and in the moment of pleasure. So I advanced to my wife g spot vibrator. I get a really strong tickling on my prostate with that. Almost like I’m going to see but a little different. That feeling comes and goes. Mostly because to keep it I have to press harder. I’m afraid of doing damage so I have to just take it in 10 to 20 second bursts. Well last night I was trying to hold it there a little longer and with a little more pressure and also trying to slide it around at the same time. Well last night I was able for the first time to achevie something that I have never done before. I came every where but in actuality I came no where lol that sound s funny but I’ll will explain .
I got the I’m going to cum feeling followed by I’m going to pee feeling. I’m just lying there (Oh my preference for position is on back feet on ground knees up ). Loving this new feeling when all of a sudden after about maybe a no it’s or 2 of this feeling coming and going. I get really warm around the base of my cock. I get that feeling that I’m going to cum. you know feeling your thick cum start to pass on its journey through your pipes to get out. But almost at the point of when it would fly free it changed to that lighter feeling of just taking a good piss. Like what was coming out was more lighter more fluid like substance. I take a look down at my cock that feeling like it is just gushing something all over the place like a fire hose. But I only see a little dribble of white milky cum and a little trail of clear fluid. Well from the feeling I should have been soaking wet. But from what was there. There was nothing. After that passed I had to stop. I wanted to keep going but I needed my session. So my question is what was this. Has anyone had this feeling. I was completely flaccid as I usually am during my sessions. I sometimes get hard on and off. But 80% of the time I’m flaccid. Is this feeling the true start of what’s to come and should I push and try to power through it and keep going next time. Also is there any tips or tricks or other units that one would suggest that work better than what I have. I usually use about 30 mls of astroglide (water based) if I’m using the helix syn and 30 mils of astroglide ( silicone based) if I’m using the peridise or my orgasm ice. Is this enough lube. Also another thing I have noticed that happens is sometimes my ass gets that feeling that I have to shit so bad it contracts so hard almost to hold it in. But usually my ass will squeeze out alot of the lube. With the toy staying in me a few time it has pushed of the toy. So am I doing any thing wrong in any area are these all normal Things. Any feed back would be great.