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Help with technique

I was new to butt stuff in general when I bought my progasm jr a couple years ago, and I’ve only recently started really using it in earnest. When I first insert it, it feels like it punches my prostate. It’s a short, really intense burst. I wouldn’t mind if the rest of the session involved that but the sessions are usually okay at best. It might be that I don’t know how to psych myself into a heightened sexual state and that’s what my rewiring will be, but I feel like it’s possibly also my technique.

I have very strong kegel muscles and have no problem flexing and holding, but I feel a greater sensation from flexing without the toy than I do with it. Without it, I get a buzz in my pelvic region and a fog in my head. With it, it feels like something is just shifting around slightly without stimulating much. I usually give it a few dozen pumps, sometimes holding it for 10 or 15 seconds, expecting something to build up. The initial punch from insertion feels much better than the lax sessions that usually follow.

Am I doing something blatantly wrong, using the wrong toy, or something I haven’t thought of? And should the toy (to stimulate the “punch”) be shifting in and out of my ass or (as it usually goes) is it supposed to stay fully inserted?

Anus looks “concave” after using aneros for extended period

I fell asleep with the aneros mgx trident in, which was about 12 hours. Its 4 days later and my ass just looks different. Looser would be the word to describe it, and it looks like theres a whole/crevice above my anus. Any advice?

I’m so frustratingly close (I think) and I’m not sure how to progress

I’ve been at it for a little over half a year now and I feel like I’ve made big steps lately. I have both the Ice and Helix syn(cut the tails off both of them, highly recommend it). I get to the point where it feels amazing and I could cum in pretty much 10 seconds if I wanted to touch my dick. I’m still to experience any involuntary contractions 🙁 The only way I can achieve “involuntary” contractions is to contract at about 20% and it’ll start doing it’s own thing but it’s still in a way me doing it.

Anyway, I basically dance on the edge and I have a hard time getting over it. Every contraction feels incredible but I can’t quite get over the edge. Relaxation is out the window at this point as I’m having muscle spasms in my whole pelvic area. How did you guys get past this point? I stay at this level for about an hour (probably longer if I tried) before I call it quits. Total session duration probably 1-2.5 hours.

I have an Njoy wand as well but I haven’t had much success, I have no idea where to use it as I don’t seem to feel where my prostate is.

Trying something other than the VICE

Hello all,

I snagged a VICE Syn back in the day, back when I thought, “Oh I’ll pop it in, crack the vibrations, and experience bliss.” …. yeah not that easy. I’ve read that vibrations aren’t exactly the way to go starting out. I believe the quote is, “like a chainsaw, numbing everything.”
While I feel that maybe overstated, I haven’t had much success. I’d like to try something else out, mainly different material compatible with silicone lube. I’ve been eying the helix. It seems more manageable? Any thoughts?

muscles to contract

beginner

i see people saying that your cock shouldnt move, but when i was pissing this morning i quickly remembered to stop. when i do that my cock moves, but with a lot of guys it doesnt.

if i squeeze my spinchter not so hard, it doesn’t move as much, almost not noticeable.

my balls also go up and apparently thats the PC muscle. people online were saying you’re supposed to use that one, but apparently its the anus in the book. im confused.

this seems like a long journey that im willing to try. i just hate to start off wrong and since i’m messing with muscles, I know its very difficult for me to retrain myself out of muscular habit.

also. how long is a session? how do you contract the muscles? in pulses?

Cumming with aneros rather than dry orgasms

Recently i’ve finally been able to achieve orgasm with my aneros, but the issue is that i’m having full wet cumming orgasms rather than the dry ones that are described as leading up to Super O.

could I be doing something wrong?

My latest Super-O and answers to questions I received

Background: I’ve owned an Aneros since February 2011, and it took me 3-4 years to have HFWOs, and 5-6 years to be able to have Super-Os. I had originally bought an Aneros because I have BPH (largely gone now).

First, another Super-O Story since people enjoy hearing about them. Second, answers to the questions people PMed me after my last thread got archived (Sorry I don’t often login on this account).

This has been my longest Super-O yet, and I achieved it much more quickly this time. In the cooler months is easier to relax I find. I was lazy and decided I would just try and shut my mind off for about 20 minutes and do nothing.

Next, I did my usual technique of just rubbing spots on my body, everywhere but my nipples. Began trying to get a fantasy in my head. I started telling myself too that even if I had a HWFO, it didn’t matter, so long as I enjoyed the session. I was not going to let the fear of a HWFO ruin my session, so I simply thought it from a fear to a “It’s okay if that happens” thing.

Did a few contractions to get my PC muscles warmed up. It was hard to focus as I was tired, but managed to just barely do so. Did some more teasing of my body, got my fantasy ready, and touched my nipples. Read more »

Which Aneros models or other anal toys offer the best experience for sitting and rocking on them?

I’ve been an off and on Aneros user for nearly ten years, using the original Aneros with the ribbed bottom. I’ve come close to a prostate orgasm, I’ve made myself cum from it, and I’ve used my hand to manipulate it and provide more pressure on my prostate.

Earlier this week I had a day to myself and the mood struck to masturbate for the second time that day. About ten minutes in, I really started craving some anal stimulation, so I get the Aneros and put it in.

While on the couch, I guess I was in a position where I was sort of laying / sort of sitting, and could move my hips and ass in such a way that the little curled tab helped move the toy in and out gradually as I jerked off. It felt fantastic.

Then I sat up fully and really started rocking forwards and backwards on it – fucking it basically. Wow… amazing sensations. I kept jerking off but as I’d get this rush I’d let go of my penis and just briefly enjoy the Aneros on its own. I eventually came like that and the combination of hip movement and jerking off felt completely amazing as my orgasm built up.

It was a great discovery that now makes me really curious about which toys are suitable to a sitting / rocking method. I have big fantasies of my wife pegging me, and the proper sit and rock toy feels like the next best thing in the short term. Read more »

which one to buy?

i wanted to try something new. So i though about buying a prostate massager and the best ones are coming from aneros. Since im new into that and did a test on the offical site and they recommand to use the helix. But i heard that this version is for some people too small. Is that true? Im 188 cm and im corious if it would be better to buy another version for example the eupho. what do you guys suggest?

Considering getting one of these but would greatly appreciate some recommendations

I’ve had a few HFWOs with a fairly large dildo and while that was fun and enjoyable in it’s own way, it’s nothing like the super-o I’ve seen described. I’ve played around with a few prostate specific toys and had some enjoyable experiences (mostly just really powerful orgasms from traditional masturbating). I’d given the hands free flex thang a few good ol college tries, but the keagles where pretty exhausting to the point of being mostly unenjoyable. Maybe I was trying to hard with the wrong toy though as the one I use is much heavier and metal and nothing like an aneros design wise. I was considering a Maximus or Progasm but didn’t know if those were good jumping off points. I liked the idea of the Eupho because I really enjoy long deep motions but it doesn’t appear to be a great first time toy from everything I’ve read and that put me off to it. Plus it’s said to be the smallest toy and I think Id enjoy a more fuller experience but I’m not sure as I’ve never really had a super-o. I’ve read a lot of guys with previous butt stuff experience found the helix disappointing and small and I share those concerns as it’s a pretty hefty price tag for what it is. Also, minor note, I’d considered just cutting out the keagles and getting one of those industrial blenders I mean giant prostate twirly vibrator ones.

Any comments or suggestions would be much appreciated!