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Not sure if I’m doing this correctly, am I flexing the right muscles and how I can measure progress?

To preface: I’m a gay mid-20 year old guy so I’m very comfortable with anal stimulation and have been exploring how to get more pleasure from my ass/anal sex. I’ve been trying to see if I can use my aneros to have a super-o or prostate orgasm or any of those good things, and I’m not sure really if what I’m doing is the right way. I have a helix and a progasm, and for the most part I use the helix because it’s much more gentle and I like the motion. Read more »

Car vibrations when driving do more than any prostate toy. Suggestions?

I have a jeep. It does more for stimulating my prostate just driving down roads that need to be repaved. Once had an 7 hour orgasm of sorts just driving and driving.

I have vibrating toys, a steel wand, aneros and other generic prostate massagers, etc. I can barely get anything out of them without the help of drugs and even then not much.

Any suggestions?

Thinking I just need to remove a balancing spring on my washing machine and sit on it. Har har.

My Best Super O Yet

I just had the most amazing orgasm of my life with the Progasm. For the past few day I’ve been very anal horny. I’ve been meaning to use the Aneros, but I wasn’t able to find the time. I was fantasizing about putting things in my butt all morning and feeling really tingly down there, so I thought what the hell.

For this session I laid on my back and tried to keep very still. I had really pleasant feelings right off the bat and had some wonderful dry-os almost straight away. The involuntaries started up soon after. When I’m relaxing properly my contractions are a lot more subtle. I have a habit of subconsciously clenching along with my involuntary contractions, which tends to not build sensations as well as total relaxation.

I had a really fantastic dry-o with contractions that felt *exactly* like a traditional orgasm. After that subsided another orgasm began to build. My ass started to contract on the toy quite vigorously and I got really hard. My penis pulsated with each contraction. Then I felt my butt clamp down pretty hard on the toy, along with my abdominals, quite a bit harder than normal. I wasn’t sure if I was actually squeezing that hard or if it felt so good that I mistook the sheer pleasure on my prostate for the pressure of a strong contraction. My whole pelvic region felt like it was squeezing down on my toy. Read more »

Progasm Modification

Does anyone know if it’s possible to make the head of my Aneros Progasm curve more so that it provides a firmer push against my prostate? I’m thinking of heating it with a cooking torch and trying to bent it forwards. I figured I’d ask before I attempt it and possibly end up destroying the toy. Thanks in advance!

just got my Helix, well, it works :) HFWO

After a long embarrassing delay with 2 amazon sellers. I had one of the Lovehoney vibrating ones before and it was too big, this fits very nicely and I am not completely immobilized while wearing it. I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to take it in but it went right in and felt good.

After about a half hour of wearing it, I did some contraction work, tried the cyclic rotation through anal and PC and I think I almost have it, but nothing was really happening. It was a nice warm full feeling, and I did like how the toy felt like it had a mind of its own and it was taking me on vs. me having to manipulate it.

I tried the contractions and put just a small amount of pressure on the handle pushing away from my body so that when contractions stopped it moved out more. That seemed to feel really good. After about 5-10 minutes of that I could feel a warmth and giddy feeling building. This itself was excellent, I look forward to feeling this more. Then, while contracting hard a wave came over me. I will say it was strong. I had tears in my eyes and I was laughing like a nut through it. It didn’t last very long, I think I got scared but I had a wet O experience. It was definitely stronger than my normal penis centric orgasms. Read more »

How do you use the njoy pure wand without getting tired?

Sorry this isn’t technically an aneros question, but hopefully I can get some advice here.

I’ve been getting so close to a prostate orgasm. I can feel it, teetering right on the verge but never quite getting there.

My tool of choice has been the njoy pure wand and the problem I’ve been running into is that I need a lot of upward pressure. So I have to use two hands. One to hold in in place, and the other as a fulcrum point to lever it up into my prostate. Fantastic results, but I can’t hold that position for more than a couple minutes. I’ve tried flipping it over so that it’s pushing from behind (the curve of the wand following my butt). I’ve heard people have had good results from that. I get the intense pressure, but not the pinpoint accuracy that I get the other way.

Anyone have any tips on how best to use this piece without having your arms, and hands get all worn out?

DeVice vs Progasm?

So I’m looking to pick up my first aneros toy, and I was having trouble deciding between the DeVice and Progasm. They seem to have mostly similar dimensions in terms of girth and width, but the big allure to the DeVice for me is that it’s made of silicone instead of hard plastic. The DeVice looks much more comfortable than the Progasm, but its profile is less… angular I guess? I’m looking for that “aggressive” experience often attributed to the Progasm and was wondering if the DeVice is capable of providing that.

Might the Progasm Jr miss my prostate?

I first got into anal play just a few months ago when I bought a [Lovehoney Rookie](https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17779). Using that, I could find my prostate and it felt great, especially when using some of the stronger vibration patterns. But, it’s quite flexible, so often when I feel like I want it to put more pressure on my prostate, it can’t. It also slips out of place quite easily.

So I bought a Progasm Jr. It’s rigid, and the design means it’s not going to slip out. I’ve tried it a few times now and although inserting it is a more intense experience (due to the extra girth, I guess) and I enjoy the feeling of just having it in, it’s never really felt like it’s touching my prostate at all, no matter what I do with my PC muscles.

Is it possible that the Progasm Jr is the wrong size/shape for me? If so, any suggestions on what may be a better fit? Or am I doing something wrong?