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Just received progasm, pretty disappointed

No stranger to occasional anal play with a plug or other object. I’ve been getting into manual prostate sim with fingers and vibe, and haven’t had a prostate orgasm yet but think I was getting pretty close. Lots of thick cum oozing.

So decided to step it up. Did the research, got a progasm black ice.

Super. Disappointed. I did a lot of research on how to use it, set aside some dedicated quiet time nice and relaxed. It slides in easily and overall feels good, but literally no prostate stim. As soon as it’s in I almost don’t even know it’s there. The tabs feel good during pc contractions but overall it’s minimal.

Just to make sure, I tried different positions, repositioning the progasm, etc with no results. Tried just quietly contracting pc muscles, and breathing, but nothing.

In short, am I just not wired right for this thing? Using.my thumb is vastly more pleasurable and could probably have a super O from that except it startz hurting my thumb before long.

Feeling like I wasted $60 on this modestly sized butt plug.

I think something has awakened inside me…

This ended up being a bit wordy, so I put a TL;DR at the end.

So, to start with – I’m straight, married, with children. I’m very new to anal play (with the exception of maybe a sharpie when I was like 14). I’ve been going through a bit of a lifestyle change, losing weight, going to the gym, eating healthier, etc. and have been pretty successful over the last 6 months. I have some time off work and the house to myself for a bit. Based on an AskReddit thread, I saw the Aneros Helix mentioned as one of the naughty items that have changed someone’s life or some BS like that.

I do sometimes enjoy tickling my anus a bit while masturbating, and am myself quite open to experimentation (the wife, not so much). So I did some reading and research, and found out about this prostate thing in my bum. So I ordered myself a Helix Syn (and a couple other things, a new sleeve, etc., just for shits) as a self reward for my big life change.

I was highly anticipating it’s arrival, even though I know it may take some time to really get into it. It arrived a day early. I immediately drew myself a nice bath with jasmine salts, and relaxed for a bit. Cleaned myself out as best I could (note to self, buy a new turkey baster), and set to work. Read more »

With and without Marijuana

Hi, I have a question about the use of aneros with and without using Marijuana. When I am stoned my orgasms start pretty much as soon as I insert, however, I have less luck when not stoned. I can eventually get there, but it’s not as intense and takes a lot longer. Has anyone else experienced this? Is there any way to make the sober sessions the same intensity?

Progasm shoots out as i cum

As the title suggests. I have the glossy black progasm, and when I start getting stronger p waves the toy just shoots out of my ass like a rocket. Is there any way to stop this?

How easy/hard is it to do damage with a dildo/massager? How much can I move around? What should I avoid with it in?

I’m being generous with the lube, yes.

Please answer:

Walking, sitting / standing, stretching… hell, climbing? Is there a range of movement I should avoid with a rigid object up the rectum? Lets say up to a “standard” sized plug.

Say you slipped on some lube and landed directly on your ass with the flare/tab of the anal toy being leveraged by your own body weight against the hard floor to wrench the plug inside you. Anything?

What’s the worst case scenarios or common mistakes. All I’ve ever heard about are:

1) Not using enough lube

2) Using an improper anal toy without flare/tab and getting it “lost up there”

3) Using something too large / long / etc

Just want to know if I should be moving like I have something up my ass when I have something up my ass, or if I can relax.

First Session – I Think I Had a Prostate Orgasm

Hi everyone,

TLDR: is it ok to apply pressure to my prostate via external pressure applied above the base of my cock while using my Aneros?

I finally took the plunge and bought an Aneros yesterday. My local toy shop only had the progasm, which is on the bigger side but I’m accustomed to plugs and D so I figured it was worth the risk.

The Progasm went in with no problem and felt great. I relaxed and tried to work my PC and anal muscles. I had some very good porn playing next to me and just gave into the experience knowing that this was my first time and trying not to have too many expectations.

I stayed soft most of the time (90 mins) and did have several flashes of eye rolling pleasure from my contractions. I was sure to not touch my dick too.

Here’s my question- I applied pressure to my prostate via external pressure right above the base of my dick. This sent me in OVER THE EDGE. I had an incredibly intense orgasm and came buckets without touching my dick. Is this technique ok? Should I avoid this moving forward? I certainly want to get to a truly handsfree MMO capability.

Can’t wait to try more!

Lots of pwaves

I started exploring a submissive relationship. I was denied for almost three days with some chastity. I got rewarded after my first 36 hours locked continuously locked by one of free play, so I chose my progasm.

I went to the loo, took a shower and relaxed for a bit. Prepared my things, lubed up the toy and the timer started. I pushed it in slowly, but since I was relaxed from my shower, it went in easily. I introduced it squatting next to my bed.

I put a cloth right where I placed my bum and layed down; pressed my feet to the bed spreading my legs as a woman giving childbirth.
After the first ten minutes it felt snugly pleasant and I started massaging my nipples in circles. Soon I felt as if someone focused their ministrations on the head of my penis and it kept going downwards, towards the prostate. I kept massaging and started thrusting the aneros using my pubic muscles, some shaking started, my legs wobbly as if I were raising something too heavy. I was distracted by it, so I checked my dick, just a bit of pre on its tip. I closed my eyes and focused on the head of my penis.

I imagined I took that “ball” and moved it up, and down, trying to make it bigger by my thrusting and my massage, eventually spreading it between my prostate and my tip. Read more »

Ejaculating Orgasm Achieved

After 2 years of prostate play I was FINALLY able to hit a milestone. I popped in my Progasm and browsed porn for about an hour, working on kegals and getting my prostate aroused. After I turned off the porn, I laid flat on my back with my knees slightly elevated and apart. I continued to work on focusing the sensations from flexing my PC muscles but noticed that sensations were heightened when I flexed my inner thigh muscles as well. This brought on a whole new level of pleasure. I reached down to the aneros and pushed it downwards firmly, so that the tip of the Progasm was firming pushing up against my prostate. I continued the flexing and kegals but I was unconsciously squeezing much harder than usual. I felt a peak and somehow I went over the edge and full out had a penile ejaculatory orgasm. It was intense, lasted a good minute or so and extremely pleasurable. The amount of ejaculate was average.

The session lasted about 1.5hours and I did not touch my penis the entire time. The orgasm was achieved 100% hands free. However, I know that this was not a true prostate orgasm, but wanted to see if this is something that has happened to others. Pretty happy with that session but still working on achieving those prostate waves of pleasure / super-o. Am I on the right track or was this a complete detour? Thanks for reading!

Helix – lube or no lube?

Received my Aneros Helix yesterday in the mail. Booklet doesn’t say to use lube to get it in, but does for different to on opposing page.

Do i use lube to get it in or just relax and get it in there? I’d have thought you’d use lube, but it’s not stated – and why not if it’s a no?

Question feels stupid but it’s explicitly stated to use lube for the other toy in the same booklet, no unsure now!

Discount codes

I’m really interested in trying out the Aneros Helix Syn, but my local sex store is way over priced. The aneros website is selling it for $70. Does anyone know of a discount code I can enter online to get a better deal?

I really don’t want to wait for Valentine’s day sales…I want to explore for myself what you all have been writing.

Thanks!