what your PC muscle actually is.

So, I had fun coaching a newbie.

But I think the thing that isn’t quite explained right is that the PC muscle is the same muscle you try to make your boner dance when you’re hard.
That’s what you want to do, thinking of it pushing DOWN onto the toy. And more is not always better. Sometimes a 35% hard flex is better than a 75% push.

The thing is I was trying to have the toy hit it…

The spincter isn’t really all that important in movement, until the involuntaries come. Try flexing LIGHTLY. That might be what you need to take you to the edge. “

unable to relax

No matter what I do I seem unable to relax into the pleasure. As soon as I start feeling anything I try to relax and focus on the feelings but the moment I do so all the pleasure leaves. I’ve tried edibles but have had no noticeable difference on how things feel in my prostate (maybe i’m not taking enough? usually I take about 5 – 7.5mg). Any suggestions?

I’ve unlocked amazing pleasure

I’ve been on a quest to unlock receiving pleasure from prostate play as well as aless for a while now. Every now and then I would have an enjoyable session with my aneros but I never had patience to rewire correctly.

I finally decided that this was an important goal of mine after reading success stories and other posts from those who have learned how.

Well, I decided that traditional “jerking off” was off limits. With that, I also stopped watching porn constantly. I told myself that from now on, I only want to receive sexual pleasure from anal / prostate play.

I also decided that I was going to start practicing nipple play and meditative breathing.

It’s been about a week and a half and I have been more horny than I have ever been in my entire life! The feeling is off the charts crazy good!

I’ve been away on vacation so I haven’t any privacy nor do I have any toys with me. However, every time I am in the bathroom and even just lightly touch my nipples, I instantly get ROCK hard and start leaking precum. I can literally feel my prostate swelling up and start throbbing.

Every time I take off my boxers there is literally a stream of precum that I have to wipe off with a tissue. Lol.

Absolute Euphoria: Keeps getting more intense

Had my best session last night that ended with me taking out my Eupho (to sleep) but then completely succumbing to a-less orgasms for the first time. They wouldn’t stop throughout the night and my mind and body were in total absolute bliss. In between my constant moaning, I started giggling periodically and I almost came close to crying at how amazing my body felt.

When I first began my journey 7 years ago, I would rate the pleasure as “Non existent”… but now the word I would use is close to “Indescribable.” The only phrases my mind could piece together during last night’s session were “This feels incredible” and “I’m so happy.” that I get to experience this level of pleasure every night.

My prostate is tingling, not with a RAGING horniness (I had to calm it down with a traditional orgasm), but a mild euphoria that is putting me at total peace with everything. I feel so calm right now and tranquil.

Finally some progress

So been going at it for nearly a year now with barely any success. Started with a helix then a knock off njoy wand. Could never get involuntaries and got bored too easy so went for a manual toy. Today I thought Id try the helix again and gave the do nothing a good go and after about 15 minutes I started spasming everywhere and getting mad involuntaries then many waves of pleasure. What now? I assume I rinse and repeat and it’ll get better?

my journey + looking for someone for aneros sessions

So long story “short”: I’ve known aneros for 3 years now, bought my helix syn trident in 2019 and it’s one of the best sex toys I’ve ever bought. So here’s how it went

may 2019:
I buy my helix syn trident online after reading about prostate orgasm and full body orgasm. I try it, don’t feel much, but it’s still pleasurable, a feeling of “warmth” in my ass, but I always end up sleeping. So i use it very rarely and usually masturbate with the aneros in.

november 2019:
seeing videos of guy fucking themselves with dildos, I buy one and have huge 100% hands free orgasms and sensations I never ever experienced before.

may 2021: the past year and a half I literally never used my aneros, and occasionally rode my dildo. It is by far wayy more pleasurable but also requires a lot of time, lube and it can be pretty tiring! so bc I’m lazy I often just wanked.

I was taking my finals at college (4 days with exams from 8 am to 4 pm) and needed something to relax a bit. At this point I had almost totally forgotten about aneros, I thought that dildos were way better. But searching for old stuff in my bedroom I find my helix syn trident and decide to give it a try.

A glimpse into the abyss?

Let me start by saying last night was my best session so far. I’m not sure if it was my uninterrupted night at home, my new shower gel, my newly found audio to listen to, my 4 days of abstinence, or my freshly minted Brazilian but I was hot to trot last night. Showered, relaxed and crawled into bed. Watched one porn clip which really got me going. Headphones on, lights out and within minutes my involuntary contractions were pumping me. Deep breathing and focusing on not clenching kept the waves going and then whack! the hfdo’s started. Rolled through about 6-10 of those and was starting to notice some weird sensations, like someone was sitting on my chest and then involuntary clenching of my eyes! I started to notice that the eye thing was possibly linked to the audio, which was super weird, like I was being controlled by the music. Whole session lasted about an hour and I was done. Magical night (and morning actually, I backed it up again this morning).

I get what people say about super o’s now. I think I caught a glimpse of it last night. Hopefully I can build on it next time (aka tonight!)

https://youtu.be/ULls1aPcAgk this is the audio I was listening to.

Helix Trident Classic.

No drugs.

The best Aneros model I have ever used isn’t actually an Aneros.

I mean, not technically, at least. Was the title clickbait-y enough for you?

So over the years, I’ve realized that I like a toy that doesn’t go very deep. I guess my prostate is pretty shallow? I dunno. I’ve tried and had success with plenty of toys over the years, but the session I just had blew most of these toys out of the water.

I couldn’t tell you where I saw it discussed, it was either here or in r/prostateplay, but I saw a comment where someone mentioned the High Island Health 950. Yeah, HIH is basically Aneros. That’s why I never bother to look at the HIH site. I assumed they sold the same stuff. But I was wrong, they have this nifty little guy called the Pro-state 950, and holy fuck y’all, it’s a banger. My body was auto-fucking with this toy so hard I thought I’d have a perineum bruise or something when I was done. I had the same amount of super-Os, but they were all so much stronger. I dunno if it’s just the new toy phenomenon where that first, unfamiliar session is great or what.

The thing is only 40 bucks and it’s shaped so much differently than any other Aneros toy is. It’s such a departure, but in such a good way (imo). I regret sleeping on this purchase. Do yourself a favor, fucking order one.