How do you focus the energy and buildup

So when the aneros / or aless is building… its almost as if like an electrical current in your body is building up (is the way i would describe it). I find that this sometimes can get very harsh and powerful and sometimes it is more of a gental energy. I would describe the Super O as when the energy keeps flicking super fast thru the body and prostate area and then all of a sudden it just stops and you get the calm seas super O where it feels like you are floating thru space.
The question is what do you focus the energy on when it builds, do you try and keep it calm and slow, or do you enjoy when you clench (or kegal) and the energy builds and builds. I have had mixed results with both methods. But i much prefer the calm energy that slowly builds. I find the harsh energy can sometimes make your entire body start to twitch all over.
Do other people have this same build up of energy style (fwiw i rarely use the aneros anymore as I can do it all Aless… especailly with thc it just sets it off instantly) But just seeing which method people use to reach their super O..
I find the best sessions are when i try and almost stop the energy (which is impossible on thc) and try and stop the body from performing keegals and it eventually gets too much and I have to give into it.

Success? I think

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for years now. I’ve always found it pleasurable, but have never had the experiences like I read about on here. I’ve recently discovered nipple play + hip thrusts really get me going, so I planned for a session on Friday night. I had held off from cumming for 3 days prior, just to make sure I was really horny. I find that 420 enhances my experiences, so I smoked a bowl and laid on my bed. This time around I used the progasm, and….wow. This time as different. Immediately after putting it in I felt this wave of sensation over my body. As I began to rub my nipples, I started feeling a tingling pleasure in my groin and my cock began to twitch. I kept at this for a bit, and then starting thrusting my hips. For the first time, I started having those body shakes I hear people talking about. I could also feel my heart rate increase significantly. Kept going at this for a bit and then it started to diminish, and I wondered what the next step was going to be. I decided to try lying on my stomach, and seeing what that would do. I laid there for about 10 minutes, just doing small contractions and hip thrusts when I started feeling the pressure again. This time though, I felt more pleasure and could feel what I assume to be the start of an orgasm. I keep at it, not sure what was going to happen. Eventually I felt a very strong pulsing and felt like I was about to cum. I kept going, and then experienced a massive wet orgasm. Even after it was done, I was able to continue with the contractions and hip thrusts and it felt like a flutter. In hindsight, I wish I would have edged that pressure feeling out a bit and explored where it would take me. But I’m still wondering, what is it that I experienced? It was much stronger than a typical orgasm, and I never once touched my dick. Was this a prostate orgasm? Why do I see so many people talking about dry orgasms? Are the dry ones more intense?

Question: Is there any long term effect on health relating to the prostate or pleasure centres of the brain that I should be aware of in relation pursuing an orgasm every night ?

I’m just wondering if anyone knows anything because I’m at a point where I no longer need an aneros product to achieve an orgasm & I only really use it once a week but I’m kinda addicted to the whole routine of pursuing an orgasm every night now & am seeking anyones insight into whether I should be taking longer breaks for the sake of long term health?

Progress, maybe?

Hi there!

A few months ago, I bought myself a Progasm Jr. I haven’t had much success with it so far, just mild anal pleasure. That said, I kept trying in the hopes that my body would eventually get used to it, taking from the accounts of people on this sub and other websites. Here and there, I read that refraining yourself from masturbating the usual way for a few days would make you more sensitive to pleasure in other parts of your body.

So I gradually started to space out my masturbation sessions for longer and longer periods of time, and when I felt like I wanted to jerk off, I made sure to always plug in my Progasm Jr, and only ever use my hands when the frustration really got to me. Eventually my toy began to move on its own while I was watching porn and I did start feeling some other kind of pleasure from that, but nothing too substantial. However, something different happened today.

As I usually do before any session, I went to the bathroom to empty my bladder. It would seem, however, that I did a poor job, as I felt the urge to pee half an hour in. I didn’t want to end my session that early, so I pushed on despite the risks, and I began experimenting with that feeling. I tried to concentrate on the area where the urge to pee was coming from, and little by little, I switched focus to a spot right under it that felt really good. Read more »

Pressure near the tailbone. Normal?

Hey everyone. New to the Aneros and just curious…

I tend to get pressure in front of my tailbone. Not painful, but sometimes the pressure is a bit much. Maybe a little uncomfortable and mentally distracts me from trying to feel the prostate.

I haven’t seen this mentioned here before. Just wondering if that’s a normal feeling or if I should, I don’t, get checked out?

Again it is not painful but it can sometimes get a bit uncomfortable.

Overall I’m loving it. Still haven’t been able to climax from it which I know I’m not supposed to chase, but hopefully one of these days’

Thanks!

Finally bought something new, now have a question for other trident users.

So, I’ve been using a Helix syn for 4 or 5 years. I love it and have had varying degrees of success with it over the years and thankfully fewer and fewer dud sessions since beginning.

I’ve long thought of getting another and put lots of thought into it before maybe a decision. Long story short, i decided to go for a eupho with the classic finish (not the syn). I picked it up at a local shop last Friday and when I got home I realized i bought the trident version. I hadn’t intended to get that but whatever, I’m open.

I found it to be different and genuinely quite pleasurable, but the forward prostate tab gets really painful after a while(it’s flexible on my helix). I’ve heard others suggest that it can be cut off, but I’m not certain that’s what I want to do. I’m just looking for advice here. Do you get used to that tab over time? I actually didn’t mind the gentle pressure at first but after you really get into it, it really isn’t all that gentle anymore.

Thoughts? Tips?

Lube Recommendation – Progasm Ice

Hey all. Bought the progasm Ice. I’m looking for a lube recommendation for it. Can be a real product or a DIY (coconut oil + something else).

But just looking for an idea of anything that I won’t need to constantly relube with.

Thanks!

Success?! (Aneros Progasm Ice)

So I’ve been playing with my prostate every now and then for a few months, I tried the Aneros Helix, but I couldn’t feel it when inside me. I’ve had p waves before but nothing more.

I bought the Progasm Ice on sale last month and tonight was the first time I got to use it.

Once I got it in I just laid back and put on some porn to listen to. I have a small bullet massager that I was using on my nipples that was like okay, but nothing crazy.

After about 10 minutes of just laying there on my back with my legs up doing kegels, I had my first p wave, shaking, heavy breathing, the whole deal.

This happened a couple of times, it was going like how all of the other sessions went, p waves and leaving me questioning what the next steps feel like.

Then, I started moving my hips up and down, I remembered that I liked this motion and that it got my going last time.

Then, I started to feel intense pleasure in my head. I could almost feel a line being drawn from where the toy was touching me inside to my brain.

There was a buildup of pleasure in the front of my head, just above my forehead (idk if that makes any sense, but that’s where I felt it lol). Read more »

ways to increase sensations

Hi guys,

After having a my first HFWO with my Anero Helix Syn a month or two ago, I’ve been continuing to use it about every week or so. I’ve been continuing with the same routine, which has been making having a HFWO more and more easy, with less and less body spasming.

The problem is, I have very limited sensation up until close to the point of having an orgasm. It is clear that I am stimulating the prostate as I can cum relatively easily, and my prostate is definitely getting more sensitive as its getting a lot easier to cum with less movement. However I am a bit disheartened that I have very little to no sensations (like p-waves) leading up to the orgasm. I have tried using positions other than laying on my back with my knees up without much success, and I have also tried stopping myself from thrusting during the sessions as I’ve read that that makes you have a wet orgasm which is not my goal. I have also tried to separate the orgasm from ejaculation without much success as well.

I guess my point is, it takes me around an hour to have a HFWO, with little to no sensation up until about 5 mins before the orgasm. Is there anyway to help me have a dry orgasm, or feel more p-waves or sensations? (E.g. different positions to try or ways to make the prostate more sensitive) Read more »