Got the Eupho about a month ago and have had decent success with lots of pre cum. But I think I prefer something a bit larger and not as long as this one almost seems to go too far in and misses the spot. So with that being said which one should I get next? I’m between the Helix Syn trident, program jr and the MGX
Vibe or Non-vibe
So I have dabbled in both the non vibrating and vibrating toys that are meant to stimulate the prostate but is there a downside to using one over the other and which one is more beneficial in the long run for the whole big wave of pleasure that comes with time. I have the aneros syn V I think and another vibrating prostate massager but I do have mixed feelings about both of them
Recommendations for use during sex
Looking for a new Aneros for use during sex with my wife. I have used the helix classic but I’m looking for something larger. I’m between Maximus and Progasm. Suggestions?
Progress with weed and Progasm
I’ve been trying the aneros on and off for close to 10 years now with mixed success. I feel like I had something like an orgasm or possibly an orgasm a few years ago but have struggled to replicate that experience since.
The first time I felt what I think was an orgasm I had been doing a session for around 3 hours with the original helix model and I felt what started to feel like a regular orgasm building but it started to spread. The sensation started in the tip of my penis then spread outwards envolping my legs and whole abdomen. I haven’t experienced anything like that since until recently.
I think the main sticking point for me has been trying to relax, it’s hard to find time to do a session let alone drop everything else going on in my head to enjoy it. I’ve also tried multiple models with varying degrees of success. I now have a helix, helix syn, eupho, progasm, an njoy wand and a few different vibes.
I recently decided to try and throw weed into the mix and see if that helped.
Well…
I’ve tried a few sessions with some great results feeling waves of pleasure eminating out of my prostate and periods where I feel like I get consumed by it all and almost black out.
Feeling Frustrated
So tonight was my fourth session with my aneros. So far I really haven’t felt all that much. At times I can feel my pulse, I even get a few involuntary contractions. Though nothing really pleasurable.
I know that I can’t just expect good times right out the gate, but it is hard to dedicate to rewiring when the reward is so elusive.
I’m mainly whining, and I know I need to learn to relax and just go with it. Any advice on how to get into the mental space needed?
Serious question, anyone get gas while using the aneros?
For real I have to remove it every 30 minutes to let the air out cause it blows up like a balloon in there… is this the Luke’s doing? Water based KY.
New progress
About me: 37 year old male who has been playing various anal toys for about five years.
I own the Helix classic, Mgx syn , Eupho trident, Njoy pure wand and Progasm . I’ve had varied levels of success with each of the toys and have always had fun while learning.
I recently had some extended alone time and decided to purchase a Helix syn v for the vibrating patterns and a small dildo with suction cup.
With the freedom to enjoy the time alone, I spent lots of time to relax and get in the mood reading on literotica and listening to gone wild audio.
Once fully aroused, I started running my hands all over my body, focusing on my inner thighs, neck, stomach and nipples. My nipples get overly sensitive really quick, so I used some body oils to keep everything slick and pain free. I was oozing a fair amount of pre cum before I inserted and found myself desperate for more.
I started with the Helix syn V and a healthy amount of aneros sessions lube. Once inserted, I concentrated on the feeling of being opened up by the toy and how my deep breathing was softly grinding the toy against my prostate. I absolutely love that sweet feeling of first noticeable contact when the prostate starts to engorge.
How to Trick your Brain to feel pleasure from the Prostate
You’ll read a lot of guides here aimed at mid-tier experienced users and most of them will gloss over a big step nonchalantly like “step 2. feel pleasure from your prostate, step 3. follow that pleasure like a ray of sunshine, across the rainbow, down to the pot of gold” etc.
But I remember the start of my aneros journey, and no matter what I tried I just couldn’t figure out how to feel pleasure by having this thing in.
Well, here’s my suggestion to any beginners at this stage of the process.
Guide:
1. Jack off once a day for 7 days with the aneros in
2. After the first week, do your next 7 days (however many sessions you want, you don’t have to do all 7 days for this part) WITHOUT touching your dick while having the aneros in, and no orgasm at the end (important, don’t cum!)
3. Repeat steps 1&2 in bi-weekly cycles until you start to feel your prostate awaken with warmth and good feelings.
If you’re like most guys, until you discover prostate play, you’ll have gone your whole life directly linking “rubbing your penis = pleasure”. The male body has many other ways to feel pleasure, the prostate is one of them. But the simple fact is you’re not going to undo and redefine years and years of muscle and mental memory of pleasure=penis in one or two sessions. You have to train your body and mind to recognize that prostate=pleasure. And this guide above will kickstart that process.
Gonna do my first session with weed tonight
I’ve been using aneros toys off and on for 10 years or so but never have tried a session with marijuana. My usual routine is different from what others typically do. I like to take a high amount of Adderall and then get super crazy horny to play with my ass and prostate. Stimulants make me want nothing more than to have a huge ass dido in my rear and just ride it all night. This results in me watching a lot of femdom and pegging porn or reading stories on literotica and listening to soundgasm, but I think I start revving up and then plateau from all the porn consumption. I remain super horny but I’m not able to truly relax amd breathe like I need to. I have already taken my high dose of addy tonight and will get my ass all lubed up and insert my Progasm but then I’m gonna eat an edible so I can slowly transition from amped up horniness to super relaxed highness.
Any suggestions on what may help my session tonight? I really love reading femdom stories and listening to femdom audio but like I said, I’ve never done this on weed.
HFO and other musings
I’ve been reading a lot on the wiki as well as searching this Reddit. I started my journey during Covid. Actually, I started like 10 years ago but didn’t have the support and info that’s prevalent today to help me so I quit after 6 months. So during Covid, I restarted the journey. Started with the helix trident and the squeeze method using mindgasm. Got good feelings and that itch everyone talks about. Also using poppers to help. Then bought a eupho and then a Maximus and then a mdx. I have a lot. Lol. Always had good feelings but never a HFO. Or at least I think I haven’t. Then switched to the do nothing method using them and got much better results while switching to a lube shooter. Definitely a game changer. Now the question. How do you get to a HFO or super O. What are the physical things that happen? Is it like an actual orgasm where your muscles contract (like your entire pelvic floor and cock) or is it something else. And how does that differ than a super o?