So i just tried my aneros for the first time last night. It was interesting, and I know I have a lot to discover. One thing though was position. I know everyone is unique, but what positions do you think are best for a newbie user?
Is it worth buying?
So here’s the situation: i already have a prostate massager and it’s a knock off aneros classic (looks just like it). Should I buy one of the more advanced real aneros massagers or won’t it be very different from the one i already have?
-i have anal experience
-i already feel pleasure using my knock-off massager
So will a real aneros be so much better and justify the price?
Road block
So I feel like I’ve finally started to get some really strong Pwaves and then as it feels like I’m about to have an earth shattering orgasm, my body starts to bare down on the toy like I’m trying to poo. The pressure builds up and then I proceed to piss all over myself. Before someone says it’s not pee, trust me when I stripped the sheets it’s pee. There is no pleasure after that point and the session feels dead.
I had this problem with the progasm, got a eupho and same problem.
Weird feeling’s?
When insert my aneros it doesn’t necessarily hurt but feels uncomfortable and good at the same time. It’s really a balance between pain and pleasure. It’s very hard to describe but it’s not so painful.
it hurts and feels good at the same time, is this normal?
What to do at this point?
I’ve been using my helix syn V for a few weeks now. I have got to a point I can reach regularly where I can feel my prostate (?) Swell up and get hard, similar to an erection but inside, along with high state of arousal and feel goods. I can get here with it off or easier with the lowest vibe setting. I don’t know at this point whether I should try to contract and push the aneros against it, hold light contraction for that “tickle” feeling, or try and relax all contraction.
So far contracting hard makes my legs buck and bounce and sometimes that motion upsets the contact to the happy spot. Holding the “tickle” feels AMAZING but eventually something moves inside and it stops. The relax completely kinda makes me lose the happy feeling.
Advice?
Am I the only one who know enjoys taking a poop thanks to the aneros? Lol
It’s like I can feel more of my insides now lol. It’s a weird thing to describe but it only happened once I got my first orgasm with the aneros. Am I the only one?
can someone please link me to a guide on how to use an aneros for a complete beginner?
I’ve tried searching this sub and couldn’t find anything. I’m considering buying an aneros, but I can’t find an explanation of how to actually use it. Thanks.
Which lube do you recommend?
I have yet to find a good lube brand. Either it is too liquidy and dries out too quickly, or it is too dense and requires some grip strength to dispense. Any recommendations?
First experience with Trident Helix – wow.
I did some research as my girlfriend and I have been enjoying dipping our toes into anal play (especially involving tongue, etc.), and settled on getting the Trident Helix + sliquid silk for the lube. From my research I was a little worried it would take a while of effort of me just letting it happen, and such as people say to do in here. However, I thought maybe I’d get lucky as I have played with myself before with no toys, and so I’m loosened up to the idea of that play, y’know.
Anyways, I tried it today in the shower for the first time, put lube in my hand and then just swirled the Helix around in my hand till it was properly lubed, inserted pretty easily, and damn – it was such a good experience. I actually came faster than I normally would, and it was for sure a more intense experience. I turned my shower setting to a less intense spray so I didn’t have to worry about lube being removed as much which was a good call. Tried playing with myself standing up at first, but quickly just laid down in the tub and enjoyed it.
I must have lasted less than 4 minutes honestly. I think me doing kegels with it in helped warm me up to it quickly, and I also noticed that I got to the edge way faster than I normally would, and just let it happen. I think this is just the beginning of the intensity of it for me, especially since I haven’t involved my gf yet.
Staying in the NOW & Avoiding Fantasy
It’s easy to get ahead of the sensations and fantasize about what the waves of pleasure COULD be like, but this attitude almost always shifts me out of the current pleasures and grinds them to a halt.
Seems like fantasy builds tension which kills relaxation…and the Super O.
How do you stay grounded in the now and avoid being too focused on reaching the Super O?