Shift your focus!

Hey,

For quite some time now I try to reach that elusive Super-O. I felt some pleasure here and there and had some p-waves but nothing earth shattering so far. Today I was kinda frustrated about another dud session, when I read the following quote in the aneros forum: “Pleasure is where attention is”. This made me think: I always felt the pleasure generated by the aneros in the general penis area. Maybe this was because my center of attention was very much penile focused? Penile pleasure waves are easily induced, so why not try to induce pleasure waves from the prostate? I mean, it’s a prostate massager after all, right?

So I had another aneros session with the intend to actually shift my focus from my penis to the spot, where the aneros makes contact with the prostate. At first nothing much happened. The penis sent some pleasure waves as always, but I tried to ignore them. I tried to even feel the tiniest sensations in my butt. After some time I felt some warmth at the spot where the aneros makes contact. Then, all of the sudden, holy fucking cow!!!, this sensation changed. It suddenly became pleasureable and pleasure was groing very deep inside of me. And not only that. It felt like a very substantial type of pleasure that felt like it could grow into a Super-O very easily. Compared to the pleasure induced by penile attention, which only feels like you are on the brink of a normal boring orgasm but dies down very easily, this one felt warm and fuzzy and lovely and like it could spread across your whole body. When I have p-waves in my penis, they die down easily when I get an errection, but the prostate centered p-waves weren’t affected by my errection at all (which, by the way, emerged much more rarely with the mentioned prostate pleasure than with the penile pleasure).

Finally achieved P-Waves

I decided to do an impromptu session tonight and although my preparations were hasty, it’s my most successful one so far.

I had tried the “do nothing” method a few times before and it really didn’t do anything apart from a few nice sensations sometimes.

I gave it another try, this time laying on my front instead of my back in exactly the same posture I use to sleep and closed my eyes.

After about 15 minutes of getting used to the feeling and just breathing normally I started getting tingles in the area near my prostate. These would last for maybe 30 seconds before going away and coming back.

However, after another 10 minutes the tingles came back and enveloped my whole body and it was honestly one of the best feelings ever, as if I had melted into nothing. This feeling continued for about a minute or so before going away.

For the rest of the session I had other similar feelings but none that enveloped my whole body so I decided to end it by manually having a HFWO, which I rarely achieve usually but came very easily this time.

I have never felt this drained yet satisfied after a session , I probably won’t have horny thoughts for the next few days.

Sorry for bad english, it’s not my first language.

tips on getting pleasure with peridise.

When i first used it, i inserted the big one, applying a lot of coconut oil on it. as i inserted the first knob, i pulled the rest with just my anal muscles, and started contracting and relaxing. it didnt do much for me so i contracted and held it for a long time and for a sec i could feel the third knob just got out and came back in again, this happened 2 times for me, didnt really feel anything. i had an urge to pee, i guess it was because of me contracting and relaxing and i had a lot of precum.

what should i be looking for??
what should i be doing??
and how long will it take for me to find pleasure in it?

Help to choose my 3rd Aneros

Hello people of the interwebs,

i need help to decide my 3rd Aneros, i would love to get some input form you guys 🙂

What i already have:

PROGASM: first one i bought years ago. I like the feeling, but it seems to be very fixed in place. I feel kind of “full” with it (even if i can take WAY bigger toys usually), so not much movement i can induce. Needs some affort to keep it in, which can be annoying

HELIX SYN TRIDENT: have it for a couple of month now, love it overall. gives me nice feelings. Easy to keep in, easy to move with my muscles down there. Overall very fun and the reason i started investing more and more time into playing with my prostate.

– LELO HUGO: kinda like Progasm but vibrating, very strong, alsmost overkill i would say. I enjoy it a lot tho

Further information:

I recently got into mindgasm which helps a ton to get deeper into prostate play. I never got to any HFD/WO nor Super-O or anything, just nice feelings during long sessions. I feel like i make progress due to the mindgasm sessions tho.

My thoughts:

– maybe the Progasm jr.? I really like the overall shape of the Progasm, it just seems to be a tiny bit to big/fixed to move around

UK stock of Syn V

I can’t find the Syn V in stock at any of the reputable shops I know of. Does anyone know of somewhere with them available?

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I am getting there…

It‘s been some wild 2 -3 weeks and today is probably the most intense and craziest day so far…

I‘m a single 49 y/o straight male who is used to watching porn and wanking off, almost on a daily basis.

It even went so far that I‘ve developed a temporary ED, simply because of numbing my natural senses and overloading my mind and body with way too many stimuli.

My porn kinks got stronger and more bizarre and I literally spent more time searching for the hottest flics than enjoying my wanks.

Last month I‘ve made a decision to get rid of all the old blocking and harmful behavior and to kind of „restart“ myself in several ways.

I‘ve always been open to anal play, prostate play and other stuff but all the dildos that I have bought over the years just did not do it for me and probably only have supported my fantasy as I wanted to get pegged by my gf – if I had one lol.

Well, somehow I stumbled across this subreddit and found „Mindgasm“ which definitely was a huge eye-opener. Right from the beginning I could „roll“ my PC muscles and leaked a lot. On the third day, I had the first longer P-waves – still veeeery low level of course.

Then I read about the Aneros and ordered Progasm, Progasm Jr. and the Helix Syn because I‘ve been horny as hell and wanted way too much, way too fast. A huuuuuge mistake!

In The Search of Reliable Online Store

Hey everyone,

I am interested in buying an aneros, however official Aneros site has ridiculously high shipping cost for international shipments. I had also found that [amazon.de](https://amazon.de) also sells some Aneros products (shipped and sold by amazon) with a much lower shipping cost.

So Does Amazon do discreet shipping if so I can directly order from Amazon, or could anyone can point me a trusted reseller?

Thanks in advance

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I just got an aneros trident, what should I do?

Hello all, I’ve been a long time lurker on this subreddit and I’ve decided to purchase a trident toy from aneros. I’ve done some light anal play in the past (fingers mostly) and I enjoyed it some. I have some questions on how I should go about using it.

What position should I be in when I use it solo?
What sensations should I expect?
Should I jerk off a little bit before hand or should I just insert it at the start of the session?

I have some other questions but those are the biggest ones. Any advice is greatly appreciated!

Feelings eventually go away?

I’ve had some good sessions before in the past. Most recently though, I had a good session with my njoy wand using it backwards AND hands free. My issue is though, that eventually the good feelings I have wear off and go away. I don’t think it’s because of any change of positioning or something like that. Is there something I’m doing wrong?

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