Things I’m learning about myself doing daily sessions that have nothing to do with orgasm.

I first bought a progasm about 2 years ago. I used it for a while but stopped mostly out of feeling embarrassed and insecure.

Recently I’ve been doing this for 2 and a half weeks almost daily. It’s not a long time but it’s been eye opening on an emotional level. I think I’m now understanding why I wanted to abruptly end my exploration a couple years ago. Shame.

I’ll do a session and during a session and after I start to appreciate my sphincter, my pelvis, my prostate, my breathing. I feel sexual and delicate. I think I am fearful or anxious about this. I have anxieties about my sexuality and traditional beliefs about body parts that were never healthy. When I place an object into my anus I feel embarrassed and ashamed. The irony is that those feelings also turn me on too. I think I need to process this more and really identify areas of shame about my body instead of running away or over eroticizing those feelings. I need to deal with my attitudes and beliefs about my body, my sexual fantasies and hopefully love myself at the end of dealing with it.

I’ve also found a new energy with my sex life with my wife. It’s only been 2.5 weeks but I’m really interested in being more communicative with her. Im also more interested in having sex with her. I’ve been married with her for 23 years and it’s not as easy to be into it all the time. Im really into it now. Read more »

Working out with my peridise on

I just wanted to share my recent experience (Like literally today) with my aneros peridise.

Couple of hours ago, I was woken up by my prostate with my helix syn on and I decided to go to the gym to do some light workout. I was horny when I woke up but had to shake it off, somehow. Ironically, I decided to put on a toy inside and I chose peridise just because it’s snuggly and I was confident it wasn’t gonna easily slip out.

As I was using the treadmill, I stayed on a walking speed. In each step, it was giving me this pleasant feeling and gently rubbed inside. It kept building up on my prostate and it lingered thoughout the cardio session. When I started sprinting, the sensation became less gentle and more rugged. It was still pleasant. No O’s just the feel good kind of sensation. I finished with some core and ab workouts and felt refreshed inside and out. And yes, more pleasant feeling from my prostate throughout the whole workout session.

I came home and prepped for a session by switching to my helix syn. Oh boy, I already felt good by popping that bad boy inside. I guess that’s one way to get my prostate to wake up lol.

Right now, I am doing nothing and just taking it in.

Just an FYI, I own peridise, helix syn and progasm.

How to feel aroused

My drive has been fairly low, i’m 20 and i have abstained for a week now. I thought it would be fairly difficult but i havent had any urge to masturbate at all. I know being aroused and relaxed are the main components of aless. I can get fairly relaxed but I just cant get aroused enough. How do I focus on my arousal and how can i increase it. Im practicing my kegels and trying the mindgasm files. I cant seem to take the involuntaries to the next level. I get some flutters here and there but it doesnt lead to the muscles moving all by themselves.

Need help with HFO options to play with.

So I have been playing with prostate/anal play for past few months. Some has been solo and just breathing with contractions and feeling things using prostate massagers that vibrate etc (sometimes on sometimes off) as well as curved glass or plugs. Waves of sensations felt and pleasure but no HFO, Super O or anything close.
I can’t find any aneros products at my local stores and can only order online but expensive when I can’t see the size and shapes as well as depths they go. So I am timid about buying the wrong aneros online.
I am not a size queen, but also don’t want anything too small. I like a bit of depth and find that’s where better sensations are. I also feel I don’t want the syn models as the syn toys don’t feel as good to me as smooth toys. I also really need something that doesn’t bulb out too much around the hole area because I am not fond of the feeling of the pressure if it felt like pulling out and putting pressure on Anus from the inside.

Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions? One of the local shops here in Canada had a mega sale on and I was able to get an aneros knock off so I ordered that to try as I don’t have anything like it but truly feel I will need the real deal to get where I wanna go.

Thanks

First prostate orgasm scare

Had first prostate orgasm and have had bad anxiety ever since. Body feels weird all over for days now. Almost like it altered my senses. Does this go away?

Is There A Premature Ejaculation Equivalent For Prostate Orgasms?

Like when someone slides in a toy in their ass, does anyone get instant anal orgasms?

That would be pretty neat, would love to be able to train myself to be like that if there’s any advice.

Also I’ve been practising for years and still can’t reach Super O unfortunately. Taking the entire month of August to deny touching my cock and avoiding porn, also wearing a chastity cage when not at work.

Peridise Surprise!

After having my mind blown with many Aneros massagers and a few years of experience with super Os I was curious about the peridise concept and pulled the trigger this week.

Got my Peridise set today and was honestly unimpressed when I saw the package… I knew it was smaller and a different concept to the regular aneros lineup but I was still underwhelmed at the tiny size and straight simple shape.

I went into my session with no expectations and when the toy popped into me I did not get the familiar “cupping” feeling of inserting the aneros.. just the small bulb popping in and nothing more. I laid down and started to experiment with contractions, breathing, pushes and pulls, trying to follow the vague directions…. Feeling for hints and trying to understand this thing… After half an hour of exploring and seemingly getting nowhere…. BAM!!!…. Found it… immediately felt a welling deep sensation in my belly and immense pleasure in my anus… like a rollercoaster accelerating and I let go of any restraint and had an enormous rolling, shaking, whimpering super O. For the next 45 minutes it kicked my ass with more and more orgasms.

Amazing first session and I feel like there is so much more to refine in my technique… it is definitely a different beast, and the orgasms are very different but equal or even more powerful. Peridise is a win on par with the Goat Eupho!!

Very confused orgasm, what happened?

Hey guys I’m a beginner, never ever done any kind of anal play. I seriously started practicing two weeks ago consistently, yesterday I thought I’d have a session after not cumming for 3 days, didn’t expect anything to happen. Just thought I’d refine and revise the sensations and I felt from my last session. It feels good for about 2 hours after a while I thought I’d switch my position where I lay on my stomach, shortly after things started tensing up and my breathing turned into fast short breaths. I couldn’t feel the aneros in me, but I held a medium strength contractions.It builds up more and more to the point where my heart beats so hard and fast as if the devil himself bangs on the door from my inside and until everything eventually spills over like a cup full of honey that looks like a spoonful of honey from the anime, Ponyo. The dry orgasm itself only lasted for 3 seconds, and it was a pure bliss of my entire body. I laid on my back again and twisted my nipples, although not an orgasm the buildup pleasure was so strong, my entire body and head was buzzing like crazy and I saw light flashes from the corner of my eyes and I was breathing like I was hyperventilating. I couldn’t exactly pin point whether that was an anal orgasm or a prostate orgasm. I doubt it was a super since it was so short plus I’m also a beginner.

Bee wax lube(natural jelly)

I’ve been looking for a new lube (waterbased lube doesn’t really work that well for me) and came across this Murel natural jelly recipe from the aneros website forum.
Anyone with experience to this lube that can attest to it?
For context, the recipe goes along the line of coconut oil mix with bee wax and then maybe some shear butter

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