Feeling a buildup, not sure how to proceed.

Hello! I appreciate your time and reading this.

So, recently I have been feeling some kind of build up and I can feel it hitting my prostate and if I relax my muscles, it gets sucked up.

However, I am not sure what do with this feeling. It feels great, but get rather lost on how to proceed.

I try to go with the flow and just do what feels good, but feel like I am missing something to do when I get to this point.

Can’t get past HFWO

That’s it. It’s either nothing happens and I fall asleep and wake up disappointed, or I have a HFWO. I know to some that sounds great and all, but I’m trying to reach the Super O.

No matter how much I relax, it either kills the excitement, or i end up getting hard and cumming. It’s frustrating because I feel like I’ve come so close, but only one if the 2 happens.

Does anybody know how to get past this? Is this just a phase?

It’s great, but frustrating as hell and feels like progress has halted completely

Lube

Here’s a question for the experienced. I have read (and felt) that adequate lube is paramount.
My problem is – I dry out over extended session (as it should be) In particular – the sphincter loses it’s “glide”.

I have used coconut oil (not slippery – for me), water based normal, water based thick , hybrid thick (best?), regular astroglide, petroleum jelly, j-lube (slippery – but MESSY and still dried out)…

I have progasm, helix syn trident (has been the best so far), MXG syn trident, and peridise.

I REALLY want to try silicone lube to keep things moving – but don’t want to mess up my SYN devices…

Nothing is more disappointing than waiting for days to have the time to do this – but having “process issues” that “void” the attempt..

Is it worth just getting non-syn devices and using silicone lube? Would that even be a better “glide”?

Almost there..

I’ve been playing for a few years, and – apart from a couple of meh-sessions – it keeps getting better each time.

Three days ago, I experienced pleasurable shaking and “sweet” sensations below like never before over a period of at least half an hour. Even a bit overwhelming from time to time. It kept coming on and on, and my Aneros (first Eupho, then Progasm) seemed to have a mind of its own.

Not a super-O, I think, but not far from it, either. If someone had told me five years ago that my body was capable of producing this much pleasure on its own, I probably wouldn’t have believed them. So, yeah: It’s real.

Ingredients: Low expectations / no orgasm-chasing, nipple-play, binaural sounds, minimal clenching during session, no drugs/weed/alcohol, regularly doing my kegels.

Simple Method that works

Simple method that works well.

1.lay on back knees up, feet flat on bed/floor.

2. Shea Butter for lubricant on non silicone type model.

3.Nipple Stimulation every so often and definitely when orgasm is close if you enjoy doing this.

4.Insert toy then do nothing, DO NOT DO ANY PC CLENCHING, just lay still and let the toy do the massaging, it will take a while but the sensations continually build up until the orgasmic moment in which your body will loose control and start dry orgasming uncontrollably in pure bliss, when it’s time to start clenching your body will start the pc clenches automatically and these involuntary clenches that start on their own when this happens is an orgasm and not the manual style clenching.

The O that happens using this technique feels fantastic and last for several minutes! Works for both prostate and peridise toys.

Weird experience

I’ve been lurking this sub for several years and finally built up the courage to purchase the Helix syn back in January. I’ve been using it pretty consistently at least 3x per week until today and while it felt good to have it in, it didn’t feel spectacular. My orgasm when penile masturbating with it were noticeably stronger.

Having read stories on here for a while, I was hoping to notice some of the common signs of prostate pleasure like increased precum or touching a specific spot would produce a noticeable release of pleasure but those processes never seemed to happen. A few months back I gave up trying to get that Big O or any O from anal/prostate pleasure alone and decided I’d just enjoy the toy in while jerking off.

Today I when I lubed up the aneros to slide inside. I decided to use a lube shooter to out a few mils on water based lube up there and insert the toy. When I inserted the toy, I felt some different that I had not experienced over the last few months. It wasn’t pleasure, it wasn’t pain. I’m not sure how to describe it other than being different buy this sensation last for 1 second at most and faded away quickly.

What am I feeling?

I’ve had the Helix Syn Trident since around October last year and I’ve had mixed feelings with it. I’ve noticed since using it and eventually getting some feeling with it, my regular penis orgasm is weaker. The feelings I get I’m also confused with. Sometimes I can go for ages and get absolutely nothing, but then sometimes I can feel something building and then fairly suddenly I a weird sort of heat throughout my body which is centred in my head. During this my brain sort of turns of and doesn’t think of anything. This lasts about 30 seconds maybe and feels nothing like a penis orgasm, but the feeling is better. Thing is, I don’t feel like I’m done when the feeling goes, and if I can’t get it back I often resort to just finishing with my penis which usually ends in a disappointing orgasm in comparison. When reading about what other people have they describe ‘waves’. This doesn’t feel like a wave, and from what I’ve heard you WILL know if you have a super-o, and I’m not sure I have. Any tips on where to go, or what I might be feeling?

Do Aneros come sealed in any way?

I just received an Aneros Syn V from a reputable company (Not Amazon, but a shop known for quality toys). The box didn’t have any kind of tape seal on it/security sticker. The aneros itself was inside the box in its red cardboard holder/box without any kind of plastic wrap.

Do new ones come with any kind of plastic/seal on the boxes? Just wondering to satisfy my OCD and fear of getting a used one.

Thanks! 🙂

Advise: Seem to lose sensation after 20 minutes or so, I take it out and put it back and little by little it goes away.

So, when I start my sessions, I can feel it make contact and have been getting better about relaxing muscles, contracting, and just going with the flow of the feelings and building on what I feel.

I have seemed to reach an area where after 20 minutes, it’s like I lose all sensation and so I take it out and put it back and then I feel something, but the sensation goes away after a few minutes.

I THINK it has to do with my brain and not paying attention and my mind drifting, not 100% sure. I am a beginner and just wanted some advise. I suppose at a certain point, we all expiernced this, having a hard time 100% focusing on the sensation vs mind drifting