Does anybody else have issues with their aneros moving in and out? I use a good amount of coconut oil and the only toy I can seem to get any movement out of is the progasm ice. And that’s only if I forcibly push to make it slide out like a quarter of an inch. It seems like I can’t get my sphincter muscles to relax enough to let any toy move in and out. I’ve even tried weed and while it helps me relax and gives me better results overall, still no movement. I also feel like the texture of the progasm ice helps with movement being that it’s slippery. Any advice? I’ve been trying for about 5 years now and still no luck. Small progress here and there but it’s still almost none. Even tried mindgasm. Any pointers is greatly appreciated!
HFWO to HFDO, help please.
Hi guys, is there anyone experienced that can give an advise to how to switch from wet orgasms to dry ones? I get a LOT of pleasure from aneros, but always end up with a wet orgasm that enables the refractory period, may I be doing something wrong? I tried all techniques, from tug-of-war, to do nothing, to subtle squizzes… but although I get serious pleasure, I always get a normal ejaculatory orgasm.
Thank you.
Kegels orgasms?
Before going to bed, I always do a short session of kegels in bed lying down, 1 series of 10 exercises where I do 30s each holding the contractions and the last 2 I hold for several minutes.
I take my breasts while I’m doing the series, I start slowly squeezing them, making circular movements with my index finger on the nipples. Then I take my thumb and with the nail position it on the top of the nipple, and with the index finger in a circular motion of an old volume radio button, I begin to rub the finger from below while the nail presses the nipple on top.
That said, I do my set and have a good burning sensation with my prostate, control the arousal and go to sleep. And then hell begins, when my body relaxes I start to shake violently, the prostate “takes hold” of my body and brings me contractions with the body, my heart races, I am panting and I feel pleasure. Last night I had some of these hellish shakes and sensations, the first of which was the most violent as I started shaking and subconsciously turned my ass up and arched my back like I was being fucked, and in the most bitchy way possible I took it my hand and I gave the biggest slap anyone ever had on my ass (they never touched her).
Does anyone do kegels before going to bed and have some experience with this? Or something like that…
Prostate orgasms with Helix Syn V
I finally achived dry prostate orgasms with my helix syn v with the help of poppers. They feel like a traditional orgasm but can vary from 10-30 seconds. Not much of a refractory period. They feel great. Had I smoked weed I am almost certain I wouldve had a super o. I cant smoke weed due to work. None the less I am satisfied and happy that after 9 years Im able to do this. Btw the helix syn was turned off the whole time. I have the progasm, jr, helix trident and the syn. Progasm will be used next. Now that I can get dry prostate Os I know what to look for. Clenching lightly didnt do anything for me. Clenching regular or hard made it happen. Also go slow. Dont squeeze quickly. Another thing that attributed to my overnight succsess was doing kegels for 4 hours straight for a whole week. Welcome me to the club!
Comparing to drugs
The first time when I had my successful super-O, I knew it right away. It was a constant dopamine rush for about 2 hours. Then I realized it would feel the same with drugs like cocaine and meth although I’ve never tried. I wonder what differences they make in terms of intensity, amount of dopamine released and actual time you feel the rush for. Has anyone here tried the both and tell the difference? I have no interest of trying the drugs though. I’m happy enough with Aneros for now.
first time trying boy butter water based
I’ve been using my aneros helix syn for about a year and a half now. I’ve definitely reached the point of sessions with consistent dry po’s. I usually just run to the cvs and grab astroglide gel, which I definitely rank above Ky and whatever cvs’ generic brand is (sorry I feel like i’m running product placement).
A sex shop opened in my neighborhood, so I went and checked it out, and saw they had boy butter h20 and I have seen lots of good reviews on here so I grabbed some. I am baffled by how much of a difference it makes. This feels like one of those ah-ha! moments that we all get along the way on our journey on par with when I started using a lube shooter.
This is all to say, boy butter is head and shoulders my new favorite lube. Mind blowing session, my prostate is still throbbing for more.
What does the cage do with aneros?
Hi guys I’ve seen several videos of people using a chasity cage with aneros. Can anyone tell me which are the benefits of it? How are the sensations? What’s the purpose?
Thank you.
Intense Shaking and Pleasure
I recently got a aneros Trident model. I have been testing it out for the past few days. I have been starting my sessions slow and it feels great. What feels best for me (so far) is quick, tight clenches in rapid succession. My heart rate increases and my whole body twitches. But there seems to be no “release.”
Although the twitching around my body feels good, it is hard to control and makes it harder to keep clenching. I am wondering if anyone has experienced a similar thing or would have any advice?
Much appreciated.
Bad orgasm from penile masturbation with massager
I’m not really sure how to explain the issue I’m having but I recently purchased a Helix Sync V; to say I’m finding it difficult would be an understatement.
However, I’ve masturbated a few times with it inserted as it felt good during the build up.. but ejaculating feels really underwhelming, far worse than even without it, almost as if there’s no feeling to the climax.
Am I doing something wrong or is this the same experience as others?
Dissuaded by how good it feels to cum from traditional masturbation. Anyone ever felt like that and was proven wrong (in the best way possible haha)?
So I’ve tried a variety of clenches and positions and have a toy. I’ve felt very nice feelings. My body reacts—it trembles and flushes with a hot feeling. All of that is great.
But…
Nothing I’ve felt has come close to the amount of pleasure from the exact moment of cumming traditionally. Even though it’s a short 5-10 seconds at the peak of pleasure, nothing—not even hours-long feelings of “niceness” have—come close to that.
I understand that it’s a whole other kind of pleasure, and many of you would say it can’t be compared. However, there has to be some arbitrary scale in which you can say you’ve felt a better feeling during prostate play than jacking off. What is that feeling like? Because if you told me that I’d be signing up for feeling the pleasure of a traditional orgasm strung out over a long duration—hell yeah, I’ll be all over that. But if you tell me that it’ll never get as “quantifiably” pleasurable as that, rather it’s just about the waves and the length of time and all that, I can’t bring myself to get too excited about that. Idk why, but I can’t. Maybe I’m just looking for a new mindset more than anything.
I’m not trying to diminish the fun of prostate play at all. This is totally a personal hang-up which may or may not actually be a hang-up. That’s what I’m trying to figure out.