I been trying to get some great satisfaction from an aneros for about a year. After having one I’m for about 40 minutes I start to feel uncomfortable at my perineum and occasionally my k-spot. I would like to find a product that doesn’t have these “wings” stimulating these areas as much. I have considered just cutting the tip off of them and smoothing it out. Does anyone have a suggestion on a product or an aneros hack that might help me?
First timer looking for a hands free wet orgasm
Hey there. I received my Aneros Helix Trident yesterday. I couldn’t wait to use it. I didn’t expect to achieve a hands free orgasm on day one. Which I didn’t. But it did feel amazing. Does anyone have any suggestions using the trident on achieving a hands free wet orgasm? Thanks
Great session this morning
This morning I got everything prepped and hit the weed to the right amount of toasty, inserted the Eupho syn and within 2 minutes was getting mini orgasms. Took turns with a few of my devices; Helix, Tempo, Progasm Jr, each giving spectacular orgasms. Then I moved into the dildo play and tried a mounting method I had never tried before; mounted to a wall edge at a height that I could insert while standing. Sinking it into my hole until my butt touched the wall, I arched my back to the wall and moaned like a whore as the orgasms crashed over me, precum streaming onto the floor. I dismounted myself from the cock on the wall and right away moved into device-less orgasms as my stretched hole returned to normal. I then laid back down and really relaxed into an hour long calm seas orgasm, floating on a continuous wave of steady state pleasure. Really great session and I’ll definitely use that wall mount method again!
Aneros and your anatomy
Hiya,
I have a burning question about what seems to to be many people favorite method of achieving a prostate O, which is the so called “do nothing method”.
I’ve been frustrated with this method, because it usually instructs you to completely relax, focus on your sensations and let them lead you.
Problem is, I’ve never had any. At least, not when I’m not voluntarily contracting. Whent I am relaxed, I feel no pressure against my prostate, it essentially feels like I’m wearing a small butt plug that doesn’t do much on its own. I guess my anatomy is such that the Aneros doesnt quite sit at the right spot?
However, if I angle my Progasm upwards slightly, I suddenly feel it in all its glory. The more I push it upwards, the more I feel it.
So my question is: is this what all you people who use the “do nothing” method feel when you’re just relaxing your muscles? Are you supposed to feel the Aneros actively pressing against your prostate without moving or contracting? Or am I creating something artificially that should ideally happen on its own?
I can pretty easily make it so the Progasm hits that spot on its own, by adding some padding under my perineum. But is it the right answer?
Using a prostate massager for the first time
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This is an update with my previous post here about asking any recommendations before I try my first ever prostate massager Aneros Helix Syn Trident.
Previous post link: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/113fu2p/need_your_advice_on_my_very_first_prostate_session/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
I was pretty much satisfied with my first use. Even though I haven’t had experience yet with pegging, I was able to insert the massager easily, thanks to the recommendations you guys suggested. As per the manual that came with the massager, it asked me to be on the side so I did. After I inserted it, I sensed it inside a little. When I clenched my PC Muscle it also started to touch my perineum. After a couple of minutes, I began to relax yet the toy is moving slightly. I then tried to touch myself everywhere except my pp. I had a lot of precum but still no Big O yet. After time has passed, I decided to do a penile ejaculation with the toy inside so that I would know what it would feels like. It’s pretty amazing. It was able to prolong my orgasm and ejaculation enough I was really impressed.
I didn’t expect the session to be too long to be honest. I was expecting maybe an hour would be enough but I do think allotting more time would be the best thing to do next time. Therefore, I should do my next session on my rest days off work and cum hands-free.
First time with the Eupho = best session yet!
I’d gone roughly 2 weeks without orgasm prior to this weekend. Friday night I had a nice session with my Helix and Programs – lots of p-waves and nice feelings, very relaxed but for some reason I didn’t feel like using my new Eupho. The next afternoon I was quite horny and had that sort of tickly excited feeling in my prostate and decided to give the Eupho a spin.
All I can say is wow.
When I first put it in I could barely feel its presence at all. Did my deep breathing and relaxing and after a while I could feel my prostate throbbing and swelling and P-waves accompanied these feelings too. Involuntaries kicked in not long after that and the P-waves got stronger and some extra feelings were added too. A really gentle shaking, almost vibrating, of my hips and tingling in my head/temples which was quite nice. P-waves sort of changed and instead of going through me it just seemed to sort of settle in my stomach like a quite intense butterfly feeling.
The pleasurable feelings disappeared with the involuntary contractions and the shaking became stronger, even my neck was kind of twitching and my teeth were chattering like I was shivering, legs shaking. No amount of relaxing was stopping it, I even tried changing positions but nothing worked so I just waited for it to stop. It went on for what felt like 30 mins? Not sure but it was a long time but I tried to keep an open mind and not be disappointed by it, kept telling myself my body was figuring things out and I’d benefit from it in the long run. Eventually it died down slowly and being completely still again was a reward in itself and I felt quite calm and happy that I’d managed to ride it out.
Pain for 4 months since last session
I was a semi frequent user of my aneros and never really had any issues until one evening I did a 2 hour session. The next morning, I had a very tense aching pain extending from my tailbone area through the butt crack area (and part of the cheek) perineum and up to the base of the penis. All of these pains are strictly on the right side. It feels more like sharp pain when tending up my pelvic floor muscles or when going from sitting to standing or vise verse.
I thought maybe I just pulled a muscle, so I waited for it to heal with time. It’s now been 4 months since the pain started and it hasn’t stopped. It’s not as severe as day 1 but it’s felt like it has plateaued and not gotten any better. I saw my family doctor last week but she thinks a urologist and prostate exam would be a better route. She had no clue on what’s wrong with me. Anyone here had chronic pain come from a session like what I’m describing?
Ride your Aneros with someone else. Trust me.
Trust the process. I did that last week with a discord user. We were both ridding our Aneros and joined an audio call to hear and guide each other. I had three super Os back to back in less than 20min. Possibly the most intense ride of my life.
Best model for partnered sex?
My wife and I have dabbled with prostate play but I have never experienced anything beyond a mild discomfort. I did some searching and found the aneros – I think this is something I would really try, for both personal exploration and partnered sex.
Is there a model better than others for sex?
ASMR?
Does anybody else like to listen to ASMR during a session? I would love a link to any ASMR you recommend!