Help on progressing [Question]

Hi so I would consider myself an intermediate aneros user, been using mine on and off for about 2 years while including the use of porn in my sessions. Today I decide to go without porn to feel out the vibes and I experienced what I hope was my first P Wave, if felt as if the aneros was going in and out on its own causing pleasure every time it moved, all while my legs were shaking and I felt tingles all over my face and body. This was my first time experiencing this but have not been able to recreate it. Later on in my session I tried but just got an erection and got the usual feelings of my prostate swelling against the aneros and forcefully pressing against it (this usually leads to a HFWO which I don’t want). Does anyone have any advice on how I can recreate and grow from that experience? Thank you.

TL;DR: Had my first P Wave, couldn’t recreate it where do I go from here.

The Progasm. Such a great purchase for me

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about two years. Due to my family schedule and my own naivety and me being impatient I did not make much progress, or rather I didn’t make quick progress. I had worked my way through fingers to ‘training kits’ to generic toys to more expensive toys and finally settled on a dildo and an Aneros, the Helix Syn Trident.

Even then they didn’t do things for me every time, only some of the time. I looked at what I had and used and I decided I needed a bigger toy, but not bigger for the sake of being big. I wanted something with purpose so I picked up the Progasm the other day.

I have seen the posts of people saying, ‘my prostate to too high up,’ and I chalked it up to them meaning, ‘it’s not as easy as it sounds / looks in the videos.’ Boy was I wrong.

When I first opened the box I was surprised by how big the Progasm is and thought, “What have I gotten myself into?”. It’s much bigger than the Helix Syn Trident. Looking back at it I was disappointed with how small the Helix was but I trusted that Aneros knew what they were doing.

I prepped myself and inserted the Progasm and immediately knew I had made the right decision. I felt it press against my prostate and I started getting hard which was thrilling to me. I stood for a few seconds just enjoying the feeling. Read more »

Bit of a ramble

So I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about 5 years now and own lots of toys – mainly Aneros. My practice has been a little inconsistent with periods of activity followed by months of not trying it. I guess when I first read about it in my naivety I was just gonna stick a toy up there and experience this incredible new type of orgasm. Sadly that didn’t happen and I’ve spent lots of time reading all sorts of techniques and toy reviews and persevering (albeit sporadically) hoping that at some point I’m gonna “get it”. I think I started to doubt that it even existed and that maybe this whole thing was a con – or even if it wasn’t that maybe I was just incapable of experiencing it. Read more »

Question about first session

Hi everyone. I bought my first prostate massager today and tried it out a a little while ago. I didn’t notice anything for a while, so eventually I just relaxed and focused on my breathing, pulling it in on the in breath and relaxing on the out breath.

Eventually I started to get erect, the sensation got more intense, and my contractions got stronger involuntarily. It got to the point where I was moaning and shaking uncontrollably, but the sensation would then die down pretty quickly. I then relaxed and started over, and this happened a few times.

What frustrated me, though, was that this wasn’t exactly pleasurable. It felt like I was on the verge of an orgasm, but didn’t quite make it. Is this normal? Does the fact that I had masturbated a few hours earlier have something to do with this?

Peredise question

I didn’t see anywhere that the larger size is a trainer and the smaller size is more “advanced” but I have seen that in comments and reviews. Is this accurate? Why would the smaller one be more advanced?

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Need help!

hello everyone
I‘m so frustrated. Since more than 10 years I‘ve been trying and I don‘t get there. The thing is that , as a kid, and long before I discovered my dick for masturbation, I discovered my prostate. It was something natural for me, it felt like magic, I had no idea that it was sexuality. At some point I stopped having super O’s during puberty because feelings had become overwhelming and I was kind of scared of it.

In my mid 20s I started using aneros and basically since then I‘m trying to have this feeling again. Everytime I think that I‘m getting there I‘m starting by zero again and I feel like I‘m just not able to be connected to my body. It‘s so frustrating because I remember the feeling of ecstasy , the pure bliss, feeling “whole“ ,don‘t want to sound dramatic but it feels like a big part of me and my sexuality is missing. I lost it and I‘m afraid that I‘ll never be able to feel it again.

I‘ve been listening to mindgasm on youtube which helped somehow, sometimes I get some shaking in the legs , it feels nice but that‘s it. Don‘t know how to make it bigger. I try to not expect much, try to relax etc… in the end I’m frustrated and sad. btw I‘m using helix trident. I used others in the past , was not any different Read more »