I bought the bullet and bought the aneros helix. I have played with toys for a long time and I found the helix to be super comfortable once inserted, probably because my anus/rectum is mildly stretched. I masturbated and had a penile orgasm last night with it. It was amazing. I kept it in overnight and took it out this morning before I showered. Then I went to work. At the end of my shift all I could think was putting it back on once home and this is what I did. Now I’m immersed in my evening activities and find comfort, naughtiness and excitement.
Has anyone worn the aneros for a long time while not in a masturbation session? I almost want to take it to work and have it on all day.
Did I have a prostate or penile orgasm?
I purchased an Aneros Syn V on Black Friday and have generally felt disappointed with my limited experiences so far.
Let me begin by saying I’m not chasing the Big O. I realise it takes months, sometimes years, before you might have the Big O. I have, however, been interested in prostate milking or something lesser than the Big O.
Now, I’ve had maybe four or five sessions, so I’m a complete noob. I’d never had any luck before whatsoever. Tonight, however, I decided to give it yet another go before deciding if I’m going to keep it or return it before the 60 days are up. I came back home after staying at my parents’ for the holidays; decided as I hadn’t had much alone time, I’d be aroused and might feel something special.
# The Session
I gave it a go and I quickly got hard and kept my boner for a good ten minutes or so, before it died down. I got a boner again and kept it for another ten minutes or so before, again, it died down. At this point, I thought I’d listen to one of my favourite pieces from r/gonewildaudio. I got a boner again and felt very aroused. Decided I’d top it off by watching one of my favourite porn videos.
I was using my PC muscles wrong and saw instant results after doing it right
This is actually incredible. I thought I could manipulate the Aneros well after 2 years of use. I am a not a newbie to this, yet I feel like I was doing it wrong the whole time!
People usually just say to move the Aneros use your PC muscle (the same one that bounces your dick) so I did. I isolated the muscle and could hold and move it well.
This would cause the Aneros to move but not much maybe in and out 2-3cm. I was doing the same in my last session but felt like I saw videos of peoples Aneros’ practically fucking them in a in and out motion.
I thought I tried it all. being super relaxed, relax the sphincter muscles and let the toy do the work but I was wrong. Your sphincter muscles can go a level deeper to practically not holding anything in. I realised that your base level of muscle relaxation (so you not thinking about tensing your pc/base muscles) isn’t actually how relaxed they can go but a mere constant flex you do unconsciously to stop shitting and pissing yourself.
So I can’t describe the feeling of what I did but the closest thing is a reverse kegal but a very light one. Then the PC clench. This caused my Aneros to move so much better and it felt much better than what I was doing before.
So I just had my first “session”…
(TLDR at the bottom)
if you could call it that. I’m brand spanking new to this but it seems like there’s a lot of rules although that may be too strong a term, guidelines I suppose it more apt.
In terms of those guidelines, I didn’t really follow them. This is my maiden voyage and I’ve never had anything up there besides my gfs tongue and maybe two inches of her finger. I got cleaned up, smoked some weed, got naked and lubed, and took a good 5 minutes to actually relax enough to get my helix syn inserted.
I watched porn, I stroked my dick, and generally just did what I would do when I jerk off, but I also stopped touching myself at points, relaxed, moved my pelvic muscles, felt my very first sensations ever from prostate stimulation. I wiggled and moaned but ultimately ended up stroking my cock until I shot a huge load and I think that’s ok.
Because I’m so new and still getting comfortable, while I understand there are specific methods to get to the specific goals we’re all aiming at, I also think it’s ok to do what you’re comfortable doing and taking you’re own route to mastering this type of prostate play.
I know I did it “wrong”, I know I’ll have to change, but that was pretty fun and felt really good and I’m going to bank that session as a relative success.
Replacement charger for Helix Syn V (UK)
I lost my charger for the Helix Syn V. Does anyone have a link to an Amazon UK charger that will do the trick?!
Thanks!
How do you guys take care of your anus?
During Christmas break I was using the bathroom like 6 to 8 times a day because every 30 mins I would have an intense burning around my anus. I’m sure it was raw from wiping a lot to the point I would just rinse off in the shower.
I want to get some sessions in but it can be painful and make things worse. I started putting some balmex (zinc oxide) on my anus along with some tp and the irritation has went down over the last couple of days.
Does anybody have any advice on better care for your anus and irritation? Creams that you use? Lube techniques/types to reduce friction? This has been kind of an on going issue for me. It gets better but this last time was like pooping fire.
Diet was shit this month so I’m going to change that to veggies and protein diet with a fiber supplement. Hopefully that will help. But any extra advice would be great.
Anyone here have mental health issues?
I’ve read that people with anxiety or ocd should not attempt to p-gasm because the resultant energy could make their illnesses worse. Anyone here with these illnesses think this is a load of hooey?
Totally lost
I started out so well. Read the wiki, forums, this reddit and just about everything possible. Practiced regularly. Had some early results (different feelings anyway).
Now I’m just totally confused about it all.
I posted early in my journey that we needed a clear definition of terms to avoid confusion and allow people to identify what they’re experiencing. I feel we need it now more than ever.
I haven’t experienced anything out of body so I’m assuming I haven’t had a super o.
I have no idea what a p-wave is. Nor mini o, hfdo, or any other term you want to mention.
I love my toys. Love anal play. I think I’m just going to chuck the dictionary out and ride!
Peace out and happy new year to all!
Why oh why!
If you ever want an example of expectations ruining a session just ask me.
Every time I have the house to myself for a few days and primed for a good rogering I’m always disappointed. I was so ready today I couldn’t help my wife leave quick enough. Then proceeded to have the most shit session on record.
Hopefully the next few days are better.
Sleeping
I’m sure the answer is yes, but do any of you go to sleep with your toy inserted? If so, how did that work out?