I used the helix till now and just got a program. When I tried it out it went in like the helix, after the head it just pulled itself in. However the tab on the arm thst points to my bag pushes to hard against me and hurts. Am I using it wrong or is it normal to hurt?
Was starting with a Progasm a mistake?
I bought my first aneros a while ago, a Progasm, the sensations are amazing and I really enjoy using it. However I am only able to achieve HFWO when using it, not a dry orgasm or superO. I understand patience and practice are needed to achieve these types of orgasm. My question is have I potentially gone too big by starting on the Progasm could the larger size be causing the orgasm to come on too quickly and therefore be making it a wet one.
Just looking for some advice if maybe I should get a Helix and use that until a superO can be achieved?
Any porn addicts here?
Prefacing this by saying I do not judge those who use porn in anyway. I’m a recovering porn addict of 20 years. Never got to the point where I had PIED or escalation to seriously taboo or illegal content but definite impact to my ability to become aroused outside the bedroom (i.e. by myself). I’ve been pornfree for nearly 6 months and before my last relapse in June I was porn free for 2 months. So 2022 has been a good recovery year and the one that I think will serve as the foundation for long term permanent porn abstinence.
Anyway, I’ve been using the aneros off and on for the past four years. I can count on one hand the number of times I feel like I’ve gotten even remotely close to a super on and two of those times has been in the last month. So I have a renewed interest in practicing this but obviously so many years of penile-focused ejaculatory orgasms to porn has made it very difficult to tap into innate arousal and experience a lot of success. My routine is usually to put my device in and do nothing for about 20 min other than deep breath and focus on lowering heart rate. I’ll then do some light contractions and try and differentiate between my different muscle groups. Lately I’ve been trying not to rely on any mental fantasy but it’s usually required to get me started with some involuntaries. At that point I’ll stop fantasizing and try and focus only on sensation and let my body do the rest. This is where I’ve had the most success and experience what I think are p-waves. But eventually I lose control of my breathing or try and maintain the right level of muscle contractions and lose everything. Eventually my involuntaries start to feel kind of one-dimensional I.e. I feel them only in one muscle group, usually my rectum and it will take me a awhile to get back to where I was.
Hey guys have you been able to get dry O’s and HFWO with soft dildos like Vixen Creations Mustang or the Squarepeg one’s ? Or only rigid Aneros devices can give you O’s ?
Hey I’m new to this and I was wondering if it’s possible to get O’s with a soft dildo or if only prostate massagers like the Aneros works ?
Vixen Creations Mustang if often advised as the best for pstim with the helix and the njoy wand. Squarepeg has dildo that « target » the prostate but they are super soft
Prostate massagers are rigid when dildos like vixen Mustang are soft so I was wondering if they work too because softness means less pressure on the prostate
Progasm jr to progasm
I’ve been using the progasm jr for over a year, and was thinking about switching to the progasm. The jr has done wonders for me and get regular full body spams from it. For people who have switched over , how much bigger is the progasm, is the feeling different , and will it hinder the progress i’ve made the progasm jr
Syn vs Not? Also general journey
I have had the helix syn trident (this is a good one to start with, right? I’ve seen some people dislike the trident model) for a year and had some great sensations but no O. I want to get the Eupho sometime but am wondering if the syn or regular white plastic version is better.
I’ve heard that the syn is softer and more comfortable but I’ve also heard that the white plastic aneros are more effective because of their hardness.
In the meantime I’ve had a couple good sessions, even one where my whole body suddenly felt really hod and tingly, as if I were being electrified. My main problem is that I haven’t had my sessions run long enough (I generally stop after 30 or 45 min, but I know the best results are supposed to hit around the 1.5 hour mark) and that I jerk off too much lmao.
I need to abstain from ejaculating for a few days, have an aneros session, then continue abstaining and having sessions. It’ll be difficult to resist, wish me luck lol. Hopefully I’ll do an update post in a week or so saying I was successful!
How to avoid ejaculation with aneros?
There are times where I ejaculate instead of reaching a dry orgasm or SuperO, what am I doing differently? I would like to understand the logic behind and advises are more than welcome 🙂
How long should I wait with the aneros in?
I just got boy butter for some super long-lasting lube. Most people I see say to try for 90 minutes with the aneros, but is it bad to leave it in after a session of that length and just try again after another 20-30 minutes?
Progasm Jr or Maximus?
Hey guys I’ve been playing with my Helix Syn, I achieved outstanding results and I got to some Super O’s. However, several months later, I am no longer able to reach it anymore, as I feel it is not pressing my prostate as good as before. Now I think it is time to switch to a bigger one and tale advantage lf the fully feeling they produce.
So which would be the next aneros you would buy after the Helix?
If someone has both the Progasm jr and Maximus, I will really appreciate it mentions the difference in feelings between them.
Thank you!
Movement
Should there be perceptible movement of the aneros device? Whether it’s rocking back and forth against my prostate or gliding in and out of rectum?