Spanking drove me nuts

I put my aneros in for the first time. The plan was to experience the Aneros doing its magic for a bit, until my GF and I were ready to jump in bed and play.
I was standing in the kitchen, leaning over the counter, and we were talking about the fit and feel. She was heading out of the room, as she walked past me she slapped me on the ass.
This is normal. She loves touching, rubbing and slapping my ass. All playful, we hadn’t explored spanking yet. Sometime when we are having sex, she will slap my ass as I am on top fucking her.

When she slapped my ass in the kitchen, it caused the Aneros to bounce around a bit…and holy shit it felt good. I could not help it, and let out a little moan.
I didn’t think she heard, but she did.
A little while later, I was standing in a different room and she came up behind me and started messing with me. Rubbing my ass, grabbing my cock through my shorts, rubbing all over me. Then she took a step back and slapped my ass, hard.
I felt a quiver through my whole body and moaned a little. So she slapped my ass again.

Damn, it felt good.

When we got to bed, I was laying on my back, legs spread. She was playing with the Aneros.
I asked her, very timidly, if I bent over the bed, if she would spank me.
She agreed.

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