Is tensing up stopping me going further? And why is it better at the start?

Been at this whole thing a while.

I feel like the last few sessions I’ve had have been really good, but there’s two things I’m wondering.

I tend to notice when I feel a p-wave coming on that I tend to tense up my muscles, especially in my legs. When I release, the pleasure tends to dissipate. Should I be trying to not tense up or should I just go for it?

I’m also curious if anyone else has this experience. When I put the toy in I often find the first 15 minutes of the session are where the strongest feelings are for me. After that it kind of just tapers off. Does anyone else have this and maybe a suggestion for getting out of the funk and carrying the good feelings on?

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Just ordered my first toy an aneros Progasm Jr (and lube) anything I should know?

Hey everyone, I just did it. I overcame my fear and ordered my first sex toy. My family will be gone this weekend and it’s the perfect chance to finally order one. I was looking and ordered off amazon the Progasm Jr originally I wanted the Helix but it said it wouldn’t be here until after the weekend but the reviews for the Progasm Jr seemed good also. So yeah anything I should know or any tips?

What is the best way to add HANDS FREE vibrations to the Eupho? Vibrating cock ring?

I have a Helix Syn V. I love the vibrations on it, but right now the Eupho seems to be hitting the spot a little better for me.

How can I incorporate vibrations with the Eupho in a way that is still hands free?

I am thinking maybe a small vibrating cock ring which can loop around the base/tabs?

Tenga makes something called a “Iroha SVR” which looks like it would suit, but no idea about the vibe level.

Note: I have a lovense edge 2 and the vibrations on that are probably too strong for my liking. Whatever I end up using would ideally have softer vibrations like the Helix Syn V.

Which model should I try next?

I’ve had the prograsm ice for 6 to 8 months now. While I’ve had fun with it and it’s give me some great sensations and powerful traditional orgasms, I can’t say it’s ever given me the full hfdo.

I started with this one because I thought I’d enjoy the fuller feeling. While I do enjoy it, I feel like I’m still not where I want to be.

For anyone that took a similar path and started with the prograsm like me, which model did you move on to second? Did it work for you or did you have to try a third? What model do you guys recommend I try next?

Edit: perhaps there is something I can do to make the progasm work better? Like a technique or modifications?

The best and worst thing about protate orgasms and super-Os

The best thing about prostate orgasms and super-os is that if you learn to control them they can last pretty much as long as you want. But that also the worst part because you never go over the hump and get that feeling of relief that a normal penile orgasm provides. Anybody feel the same way?

Wearing all day !?

Hi all,

Like the title says I’m wondering if there is an aneros that’s comfortable enough to wear all day or at least for several hours.

I’m into anal play for years now and tried various dildos and vibrators. I think I can hand thicker stuff inside me but around the rim I need it a bit smaller.

Any recommendations?

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First Time

I’ve been using my Aneros for a few years now when masturbating. Yesterday I had it in and was manually stimulating myself and when I had an orgasm it felt great but had a second one like 5 seconds after the first. I have been feeling for the last few months that something is there but yesterday it happened. It was pretty much the same feeling as the first one with another few cum shots. It wasn’t as intense but it really made me feel like I am finally getting something different out of 40 years of person pleasure time. This has been a gradual thing but yesterday was the pinnacle of it building over the last year. Never did I have a second orgasm but slowly over time felt like another one was right there but it never happened till yesterday. I am hoping this will be exponential and will continue to increase over time as it has been. Just wanted to share because it felt really good.

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Help?

I’m trying 2 different models tonight. The more rigid one seems to be producing more precum. The helix syn vibration really doesn’t do anything. Which should I continue to use and any tips for hitting the right spot?

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Good morning, I hope you are well.

I am writing to you, since my order is on hold because you notify that it is a Visa Medical Prescription (authorized), I hope for your help since you are requesting a document that you do not have, since the purchase is for recreation.

I attach the email notifying me, I hope for your help, thank you very much

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Medical Benefits?

I’m new to the forum and came here quite by accident. I’ve been diagnosed and suffer from infrequent yet acute episodes of proctalgia fugax. It’s a very sharp pain in the rectum that is pure agony, but doesn’t usually last more than 20 minutes for me. I may have an episode once every six weeks or so. Proctaliga fugax is thought to be caused by spasms of the rectum and/or the muscles of the pelvic floor.

Anyway, while researching, I ran across a video recommending prostate massage in order to relax pelvic floor muscles. While investigating prostate massagers, I found this Reddit group. Besides the sexual benefits, has anyone experienced a significant medical benefit from an Aneros? I am a straight man and have zero experience in anything anal…except for the occasional fugax flare-up. Could regular prostate massage reduce or eliminate episodes of proctalgia fugax? Or would inserting a device inside me regularly just make things worse?