Tag: Aneros

1st Aneros Session After 2 Months of Only “Toy-Free” Orgasms

I’ve had plenty of fun w/ kegel-induced orgasms since working on getting them consistent over the course of this past winter, and I decided to challenge myself to both only ALESS orgasms and semen retention starting 1/13. I don’t care about the SR claims, just felt like doing it. If anything, abstinence made the ALESS orgasms more consistent and led me to discovering just how pleasurable I find reverse kegels.

Yesterday, the prostate was badly aching for direct stimulation. I already planned to break out an aneros at the 2-month mark, so the anticipation was making it worse. Weapon of choice was the progasm jr. No weed or porn since NNN, didn’t even do much fingering this time. Basically just cleaned-down, lubed-up and got to work.

Like the advertisement, I did not last 5 minutes. That was one of the most intense and downright exhausting sessions I’ve had in some time. No prior ALESS session could stack up. I wanted it so damn bad, but no fuckin way I could take more than 1hr of what I can only describe as a conniption of cumming. Didn’t ejaculate, didn’t need to. How much precum and seminal fluid must one generate before the p-gasms are no longer considered dry? Half a ballpoint pen? A small lake? Tadpole pond?

Usually, aneros sessions leave me w/ that post-sex refreshment feeling. Not this one. I felt downtrodden and disheveled, a victim of the aftershocks that persisted for ~20mins after removal of the device. I was watching a Metroid speedrun trying to relax but I kept orgasming. The shame…

I’m interested but unsure about how save they are

I am interested in these aneros products, but if they make me feel unsafe, it will not put me in a relaxed and excited mode. I found out that some users had cracks in their aneros product and some broke. I gues the silicone version would provide some protection if things go wrong. How different does the silicone feel from the plastic versions?

I want to buy an Aneros toy to my bf for his bday

Hi, my boyfriends bday is approaching and I would like to buy him an aneros toy.
I have to say that he is new to this and has never tried anything anal. My ex in comparison really enjoyed it, but he knew himself so well, that I didn’t have to take care of anything (he knew how to ease himself into being able to take up big sizes too, he did the cleansing himself etc. …).
I don’t do anal toys at all on myself so I am not really experienced – thus, I would like to ask:
– should I get him the Helix trident? What is suitable for a beginner?
– I guess he will need an anal doushe too? Can I get any recommendations for that?
– should I get him poppers?? Are there other alternatives to them? (Never used them. Im scared they work similar to drugs)
– I would also like us to use it together on him – meaning maybe having some kind of mutual sexual experience while him using it (I am a woman), do you think this is possible? I don’t know if him having it inside and me stimulating his penis would be the same as me as a woman having a vaginally inserted dildo while the man pleasuring her orally on the clitoris … I assume that he needs to be relaxed w the aneros inside to have some pleasure, no? How should we approach this so it would be a mutually pleasurable experience and that he would be as relaxed as possible anally?
– my idea was to introduce him to this since he enjoys outward prostate stimulation so much. My and ex and me did pegging but I think we can’t start with that and he is open for internal prostate play for starters… Read more »

sensation not as good as before

So I’ve been on this journey for few years and I had my first Super o accidentally while aneros plugged in and sleeping. Woke up and got that full body buzz vibration all over but after that could not replicate the same feeling. However with different models, lube, sessions and edibles I can now regularly get strong pwaves and hfo wet or dry. The issue is that the prostate does not feel as good as before. At first it was like shock tingling feeling whenever prostate was massaged. Now it just feels like meh but only get really exciting when nipple play is involved. The prostate vibrates but maybe I’m used to it? And is not that pleasurable. Anyone lese having this issue? I feel like pwaves are coming and going but cannot build up to have constant orgasm state like when super o happened. Any tips or advice? Thanks.

Importance of abstinence?

I keep hearing sort of conflicting advice on whether to limit/avoid ejaculation while you’re rewiring. I know everybody is different, but has there been any consensus formed around this very important element of prostate play?

For some context, I’ve been ejaculating about once a week for several weeks now and having consistent aneros sessions 2-3 times per week, making sure to not stimulate my penis at all. So far, there’s not much progress to report, at least nothing noticeable, and in fact I feel like my libido is decreased. However I look back on good aneros sessions I’ve had in the past, and I’m certain I was cumming frequently around that time. However some people swear by abstinence as the thing that finally helped them make good progress with the toys.

I guess I’m answering my own question here, i.e. “do what works for you and don’t worry about other’s journeys,” but I’m still curious to hear everyone’s input on this!

Anyone here who suddenly had significant “success” after years of not much?

I’ve enjoyed Aneros toys for years and had occasional P waves, but never much more than that despite trying a lot of different suggestions, Mindgasm, etc.

I’m just wondering if there’s anyone who was like me for a long time, but then got to a greater level. If so, did you do something different? Different toy or technique? Or was it just that one day it happened?

Movement issues?

Does anybody else have issues with their aneros moving in and out? I use a good amount of coconut oil and the only toy I can seem to get any movement out of is the progasm ice. And that’s only if I forcibly push to make it slide out like a quarter of an inch. It seems like I can’t get my sphincter muscles to relax enough to let any toy move in and out. I’ve even tried weed and while it helps me relax and gives me better results overall, still no movement. I also feel like the texture of the progasm ice helps with movement being that it’s slippery. Any advice? I’ve been trying for about 5 years now and still no luck. Small progress here and there but it’s still almost none. Even tried mindgasm. Any pointers is greatly appreciated!

HFWO to HFDO, help please.

Hi guys, is there anyone experienced that can give an advise to how to switch from wet orgasms to dry ones? I get a LOT of pleasure from aneros, but always end up with a wet orgasm that enables the refractory period, may I be doing something wrong? I tried all techniques, from tug-of-war, to do nothing, to subtle squizzes… but although I get serious pleasure, I always get a normal ejaculatory orgasm.
Thank you.

Comparing to drugs

The first time when I had my successful super-O, I knew it right away. It was a constant dopamine rush for about 2 hours. Then I realized it would feel the same with drugs like cocaine and meth although I’ve never tried. I wonder what differences they make in terms of intensity, amount of dopamine released and actual time you feel the rush for. Has anyone here tried the both and tell the difference? I have no interest of trying the drugs though. I’m happy enough with Aneros for now.