Using a prostate massager for the first time

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This is an update with my previous post here about asking any recommendations before I try my first ever prostate massager Aneros Helix Syn Trident.

Previous post link: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/113fu2p/need_your_advice_on_my_very_first_prostate_session/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

I was pretty much satisfied with my first use. Even though I haven’t had experience yet with pegging, I was able to insert the massager easily, thanks to the recommendations you guys suggested. As per the manual that came with the massager, it asked me to be on the side so I did. After I inserted it, I sensed it inside a little. When I clenched my PC Muscle it also started to touch my perineum. After a couple of minutes, I began to relax yet the toy is moving slightly. I then tried to touch myself everywhere except my pp. I had a lot of precum but still no Big O yet. After time has passed, I decided to do a penile ejaculation with the toy inside so that I would know what it would feels like. It’s pretty amazing. It was able to prolong my orgasm and ejaculation enough I was really impressed.

I didn’t expect the session to be too long to be honest. I was expecting maybe an hour would be enough but I do think allotting more time would be the best thing to do next time. Therefore, I should do my next session on my rest days off work and cum hands-free.

Pain for 4 months since last session

I was a semi frequent user of my aneros and never really had any issues until one evening I did a 2 hour session. The next morning, I had a very tense aching pain extending from my tailbone area through the butt crack area (and part of the cheek) perineum and up to the base of the penis. All of these pains are strictly on the right side. It feels more like sharp pain when tending up my pelvic floor muscles or when going from sitting to standing or vise verse.

I thought maybe I just pulled a muscle, so I waited for it to heal with time. It’s now been 4 months since the pain started and it hasn’t stopped. It’s not as severe as day 1 but it’s felt like it has plateaued and not gotten any better. I saw my family doctor last week but she thinks a urologist and prostate exam would be a better route. She had no clue on what’s wrong with me. Anyone here had chronic pain come from a session like what I’m describing?

Ride your Aneros with someone else. Trust me.

Trust the process. I did that last week with a discord user. We were both ridding our Aneros and joined an audio call to hear and guide each other. I had three super Os back to back in less than 20min. Possibly the most intense ride of my life.

Best model for partnered sex?

My wife and I have dabbled with prostate play but I have never experienced anything beyond a mild discomfort. I did some searching and found the aneros – I think this is something I would really try, for both personal exploration and partnered sex.

Is there a model better than others for sex?

Almost there….maybe

I feel like I have finally got to nirvana but am not quite sure how to tip over the edge. My sessions are so enjoyable I’m not too worried at the moment but the first time I got there I barely did anything – just put my helix syn in and I was off. Any movement that was going on with it was on a subconscious level – I wasn’t actively controlling it or thinking about it.

Just to rewind a bit I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about 5 years (not always consistently) but without any success. About 6 weeks ago I started trying out Mindgasm – only tried the free lessons so far. I found that this really helped to awaken me in that area and I had a great session within a week – kept feeling like I was building to some kind of climax and this would happen over and over in cycles but no actual climax of any kind came and eventually the session just ended as the climax cycles ebbed away. In the 5 weeks since I’ve been completely unable to reach that kind of session again but a couple of nights ago I made a batch of “special” cookies. I have very limited experience with weed but read on here about the success people have in this journey with the help of weed. I can’t smoke it because it just makes me feel sick but having it in edible form is fine for me. Anyway – about 2 hours after consuming it I got really horny and put in my helix syn and it was instantly incredibly pleasurable and within no time I was on this crest of waves and feeling like I was near to reaching a climax. I went on like this for about an hour and in the end I did what I probably shouldn’t have and I finished myself off the traditional way – I was just so incredibly turned on I couldn’t help myself. Anyway, last night I did the same again and once again a major success almost instantly after inserting the helix Syn. This time I decided I wasn’t going to finish myself off so I just kept with the near-climax cycles. Eventually they died down and I started drifting off to sleep.

P waves?

Yesterday i had a new session with my aneros helix syn, once again i prepared as usual – butt lift pillow, lube injector, some audio binaurals, chastity cage, rubbing my nipples and the first two mindgasm sessions.
I started the kegels with the first two mindgasm sessions, after i plugged in the aneros. I started doing my kegels again pulling the middle and base muscles at the same time and causing involuntary contractions, i had some pleasant sensations with my legs shaking and rubbing my nipples sending good stimuli to the prostate.
Then, a strange feeling started, my body started to tingle and the temperature dropped like an icy shock, I became more breathless and felt butterflies in my stomach, the aneros was hitting harder but slower in the prostate causing intense sensations down there. This icy shock continued and came in waves, i had several of them during the two hour session, i felt satisfied even though i didn’t have the progress i already had of shivering and full body shaking from the previous two sessions but i believe that nature and beauty of the prostate massage session is this – finding out which way is the chest at the end of the rainbow.

Prostate play using do nothing approach and PE

Quick poll. I’m curious for those who have success with prostate play using aneros toys with do nothing method – on whether you find that when having sex…PE becomes an issue. I’m finding that and was curious with this group of any of you have experienced it and what did you do to solve it

P-waves?

I had a good hour-long session today. As soon as I slid the Aneros in, my heart started pumping, and within minutes my dick started to twitch, and I could feel the toy moving. About 10 minutes later, I felt this warm sensation behind my cock, and my abs tightened. This happened a couple more times before my session ended. Am I beginning to feel P-waves? I’m excited that it was my best session yet!

Am I on the right track?

I have been using the Aneros Helix for about a year, and I feel like I am slowly getting there! Recently I was relaxing listening to some ASMR using the do-nothing approach when suddenly the narrow started to twitch, my heart began to speed up, and my dick started growing. After about 45 seconds, my heart slowed down, and that was it. My question, then, is my heart rate and the twitching a sign that I am on the right path to a super-o? Any advice is welcome!

Does A Pulsing Tingle In The Penis Count As A P-Wave?

I’ve not had a Super-O or a prostate orgasm, but for years I’d get a tingle-pulse in my dick, i believe it’s influenced because of aneros usage. Curious does this count as a P-Wave?

It only happens sometimes, usually when i think of something arousing but I’m not able to build it further or control it. I don’t contract when this happens either.