I have been trying with devices (mainly Aneros) for about 6 years now and had very limited success until the start of this year. A bit of Mindgasm seemed to help get me started but what really unlocked it for me was eating cookies with weed in them. My sessions were incredible once I started with the weed even though I still can’t say I reached any kind of orgasm as such – I just really enjoyed the sessions (but generally drifted off to sleep – probably thanks to the weed). Anyway, recently I’ve stopped the weed due to some mental health issues and my success with toys has been zero unfortunately. But the last couple of nights (and last night in particular) I’ve had some really promising results with no toy at all and just totally being relaxed in bed and just kind of “feeling” the area around my prostate – and I don’t mean with my hands, I just mean being very aware of the sensations there. I did play with my nipples a bit which also helped. But as I’ve read many times it’s the subtle sensations that seem to build. I can’t pretend it was as good as when I was on the weed but I’m really encouraged by this. I was having horny thoughts also but I think the key thing was that nothing felt forced in any way. And the other thing I’ve always felt helps me is not any kind of rapid flexing of the muscles in the area but very slow and subtle tensing until I start to feel pleasure sensations and then holding that for a while or even letting it take the lead with where my flexing goes from there. I hope I’m making sense. I’m still in no way an expert on this but I found it better than trying to follow a more rigid practice like Mindgasm (although that still probably a great start to help people get to know the muscles in the area) and I was inspired by another post on here where someone else had gotten great results with no device. I think we are all very different and because the mind plays such a large part as well I think a lot of it is about finding your own “zen” state where you are really in tune with your body. I’m by no means there yet and I may have a dud session next time but I just wanted to share – and I’m especially pleased because I was thinking I’d only get anywhere again if I used weed and now I know there is hope without it!
Tag: Aneros
Got what I wanted!
I’m doing locktober and wanted to use aneros+chastity to redirect my focus from my dick.
Well, today I learnt how to have a wet orgasm through prostate orgasm, thanks to my aneros. The process was vastly more “mental” than physical. I felt like I willed my prostate to orgasm.
Very happy. Looking forward to using my aneros more. And now I don’t have a reason to stop chastity after locktober 🥳
hopeless and desperate for advice
I’ve read countless posts about what to do and what not to do and I still just cannot figure out what I’m doing wrong. Very brief background information: I have experienced what I think were P-waves twice in one session but never again- I had just woken up and was feeling a little horny. Also I use aneros helix trident
I have been making sure of the following:
– I’m super relaxed physically (I often do a session after waking up)
– I hold a ≈50% contraction and my muscles do move involuntarily
– In the occasion I do feel pleasure, I don’t change what I’m doing physically in a way that might ruin it
– I lay on my back sometimes with my legs bent or on my side with my legs up to my stomach
– I stop after 20 minutes at minimum or an hour and a half at maximum
• I don’t touch my dick
– I (mostly) do not watch porn during sessions
– I try not to have the mindset of “chasing” an orgasm
My guesses as to what could be causing an issue:
– I jack off maybe once a day or every other day
– I don’t get nearly as horny as I used to a couple years ago as a teenager
– I’m not always super focused on breathing
– My mind wanders and I am not always thinking sexual thoughts during sessions
I’ve stopped experiencing pleasure in prostate
I’ve been doing prostate play for maybe 3 or 4 months and like 2 months ago the pleasure has went away and I don’t feel much anymore. I used to be able to get pleasure by just doing kegels but now I get nothing. I used nipple play to increase pleasure as well but now all I get is a ticklish feeling and sometimes a build up of pleasure if the aneros is positioned right but then it decreases. Orgasms are still better when aneros is inserted but I just feel nothing in my prostate now. Is there anything i can do to get the pleasure back? I can’t smoke weed either btw.
The continuing orgasms
I have been playing with my Aneros toys now for about 4 yrs. I love the feelings and the pleasure I get from them. But from the very first time I got a supper O, they have always been hands free wet orgasms. Which would end my session, because I would lose the horny feeling. But the other day I was having sex and was very high on gummies. During sex I have a major O. And then I started getting non stop mini Os one after the other. Just like I read about in the forms and blogs. My body was on fire it did not matter where I was touched another mini O would fire off. I was able to cum 4 times during out hours of sex, cumming each time and able to keep going without losing my hard on. It was incredible the mini Os were non stop, because my partner was touching my body everywhere and sucking on my nipples, my body was tingling all over. My prostate was on fire and I did not even have a toy in me. But it felt like there was the helix sync in there moving on its own. This lasted so long it was like a dream. I started to get worried because hours after the sex stopped I was still getting mini Os. Without even having my partner touch me. I was finally about to fall asleep and the minis Os stopped. But all I can say is I can’t wait to see if I can get back to that state where the mini Os are non stop. I would like to know if any one has had this happen to them after using the toys.
What did I just experience? is there a name for this?
My wife and I used the Aneros vice together for the first time. I felt that it was different from when we were making out because I was incredibly turned on and so hard. The pulses just seemed to hit harder. So after a while of making out and her using her own vibrator on herself and cumming, she mounted me and slowly started riding me.
This also felt different as when she moved, it didn’t really feel like the pleasure was coming from my penis but from my entire pelvis. we kissed and she moved up and down very, very slowly. many times i stopped her when I wanted to extend the pleasure. Finally I felt it building and building until the pleasure washed over me. I felt that I was orgasming a few seconds before I felt my cock pulsing inside her. only after a few seconds did i feel my cock pulsing which signaled an ejaculation. I felt intense pleasure in my body and legs and an orgasm that felt better than any i’ve had before and lasted equally long. maybe close to 30 seconds. Afterwards, it didn’t stop abruptly like an orgasm usually does but faded.
Increased arousal?
Hi 👋 28M. So I recently decided to stop jerking and focus solely on my prostate sessions. I’ve been abstaining for about a week now and my session with my Aneros this morning felt pretty good as it was my first session since I’ve been abstaining.
What happened afterwards is what surprised me. Once I decided to end the session, I slipped out my helix, stood up, and was instantly rock hard and throbbing. Not only that but my nipples were also rock hard and I was slowly leaking pre. It went on for a few hours like on and off.
I’m obviously craving an O, so I’m assuming it’s my body’s way of adjusting to a new type of play. Does anyone else feel like this after their session or randomly throughout the day? If so, is this a sign of “progress” or anything?
WTF happened to me?
Yesterday I had the place to myself and decided to put in a session with my Maximus. I had taken a few drops of HHC tincture earlier on, and was feeling the effects. I felt very relaxed and quite aroused. I popped in the Maximus and laid down on the bed, on my side with one leg pulled up to my chest.
Up until now I haven’t had any kind of orgasm with Aneros toys, so I can’t be sure what has happened. I can only say that I never felt this much pleasure in my life, I was literally moaning aloud which rarely happens to me.
I usually get very pleasurable feelings during my sessions, but I have never experienced a P-wave. When I relax, my breathing tends to become slower and shallower. However, having read multiple times that deep and rhythmic breathing is key, this time I made a conscious effort to keep breathing slowly and deeply. What happened next is nothing short of amazing.
As I felt the pleasurable feelings grow in my prostate, my breathing went faster and even deeper, up until the point where I was a bit concerned I was about to hyperventilate. But I decided to be curious, go with it and see what happens next. I mentally told myself that I have permission to experience this limitless pleasure.
I think I had my first Super-O.. it was intense – and the tricks that helped me
Let’s talk about the orgasm (Super-O), how I achieved it, my “tricks” and my questions:
Disclaimer: Everything has actually been done *without* an aneros as I’m out of home, just pure muscles. No touching and zero other drugs involved. An aneros might have intensified the experience.
**Super-O:**
I have never experienced anything comparably in my life before. This orgasm lasted for about 5 minutes and my entire body was shaking, every muscle in my entire body felt stimulated. I felt lightweight.
The shaking, my body felt so stimulated that I couldn’t move at all. I tried it but all the sensations were too intense. My mouth was wide open as I couldn’t realize what is happening right now (and I’d have moaned to death if this flat wasn’t shared).
Very interestingly, my dick became rock hard and pumped up like never before. This is probably what the aneros wiki describes as “engorgement”. The muscular flexing across the entire body intensified the penile feeling and a few drops came out. But compared to the rest of the body, it only played a minor role.
When I then released my PC muscle, another wave of feelings I can’t described flew over my body. It just felt glorious.
**How I achieved it:**
I mostly laid on my back, legs angled comfortably. I aroused myself by looking at hot pictures. I think videos are too distracting and if I want to be aroused, pictures are way more effective. While doing so, I switched between contracting my PC muscle and sphincter muscle. Contracting both at once, switching up.
Lost it!
I’ve been using Aneros for a few years now and absolutely love it! I first started around 2017(ish) but it was during the pandemic that I really started to invest in it properly – living alone and all that. It took me a few years to rewire but I followed all the advice, stayed patient and I gradually improved. There were a few ups and downs, a few duff sessions, but overall I could really feel my progress. Eventually, I was able to ride those p-waves, would moan the house down as I experienced intense HFDO one after another, and would eventually climax with an intense HFWO. Complete sessions could be as quick as 20 minutes if I was pressed for time, or I could ride the pleasure for over an hour. I felt like I was really beginning to master it and I loved it!
I now have a partner who lives with me and my sex life is very active, so my frequency using Aneros has decreased a lot over the past few years. However, I still use it whenever I have the house to myself and despite my decreased frequency, I’m still able to reach the same intense pleasures like when I was using it regularly. Well that was until recently…