How do I separate the pressure from the pleasure? With aneros or without it, either by little contractions or just breathing into the area, I start feeling something around my prostate but 90% of the time it is just some pressure and very scarcely it turns into pure pleasure of little waves. To me it feels as if the muscles in the area are too tight even though I am trying to relax them at all times. As if the pressure is blocking the pleasure from flowing freely… Also other pressure around my ass/ buttocks/thighs feeling remains for hours after a session.
I feel like this is the main issue hindering my progress and keeping me from having P waves and HFDOs (never had any after years of trying). Hopefully someone understands what I am talking about here. I feel as if I fix this pressure thing I will be good to go.
Any idea on how to separate the prostate/muscle pressure from the pure prostate pleasure who had the same problem? Big thanks to those who contribute some advice!