Tag: Breathing

A new journey

Sorry if this is a long post but I wanted to share my experience and would welcome any advice…

I’ve been an Aneros user for about 10 years, and have tried the Helix, Helix Trident, MGX, Progasm, Eupho Trident and now have a Maximus.

I’d had occasional pleasant feelings but nothing close to some of the experiences described in this forum. I didn’t bother trying for several years but then read through some of the details and tips provided in this forum recently and decided to try again. Some of the key changes that I’ve tried over the last few weeks..

1. Remove any expectation of an orgasm and just enjoy any good feelings
2. Breathing deeply when you inhale and exhale and using your whole body to do it
3. Big contractions aren’t good – either do nothing or do very gentle contractions
4. Use lots of lube (I’ve been trying boy butter recently and it feels much better and I don’t dry up as quickly).
5. Doing pelvic floor exercises through the day

I’ve had a lot more pleasurable feelings since doing this but last night was quite something else – although I didn’t have what would be described as a Pgasm or Super-O.

My wife and I went to bed and I was feeling a bit horny. She fell asleep so I decided to put the Maximus in and just have a light session and see what happened. Read more »

Intense P waves, but no HFDO

Thanks to practicing the the first few Mindgasm lessons, I now find I can start off on my p-wave journey fairly easily when relaxed and horny – ie not ejaculated for a few days. Lube up, slide in the Aneros trident helix and with some gentle contracting of pelvic floor and sphincter muscles start building pleasure resulting in long, body shaking, heavy breathing waves of pleasure. If I really allow myself to lose control, the 3rd or 4th wave is so intense that the involuntary contractions become really firm, causing a wet orgasm. It literally feels as if the cum is being squeezed out of my prostate. This is immensely satisfying, but I want to carry on fucking myself silly! I can sometimes consciously stop this by relaxing all muscles, but then lose the wave and the orgasm. I’ve posted similar before but any HFDO tips would be much appreciated 🙂

My experiences after 10 years of aneros

Aneros user of about 10 years. Warning: long post ahead. Unfortunately no TL:DR. Tips and tricks section after the wall of text 🙂

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While penis-centered sexuality as I learnt it as a teenager is more of a mechanical approach the joy your prostatate can give you requires a more holistic process. For me set and setting are important. Nowadays I rarely have time to use my aneros (job,kids,friends, sports … ) but when the opportunity arises the foreplay / preperation is an important part of the experience.

Throughout the day (s before) I do some PC muscle squeezes which already activate my prostate because it knows whats to come. I like to take a bath or a nice hot shower, do some hair removal around my penis, the balls and the perineum/anus (Sugaring ftw!) so everything is smooth and hairless, give myself a pedicure (soft feet feel amazing 😉 and eventually put on a jockstrap (it feels sexy and keeps the penis out of the way while the anus is accessible) and douche just for the ease of mind. Ill then go about some chores, gardenwork, go for a walk or do some yoga, sometimes with a buttplug in, sometimes without – all in the sexy anticipation of whats to come. Read more »

Minor Milestone with the Helix Syn

Hey guys! I have been a lurker in r/aneros and r/prostateplay for a long time. About a month ago, I finally decided to take the plunge and buy myself an aneros. After doing some research, I decided that the Helix Syn seemed like the best toy and the one that was most recommended for beginners. When I first got the helix, I was super excited and tried it several times over a couple weeks, with little (if any success). I had a totally free day today, so I decided to have some fun. I thought I’d kind of journal what happened and post it here to see if you all might have any tips or advice for me for the future. Sorry in advance for the long post.

This time, rather than blitzing through clean-up (I prefer to douche before playing in the backdoor, I know it isn’t strictly necessary, but it helps me to relax) and getting the toy in as fast as possible, I decided to take my time and try and be mindful during the cleanup process. Read more »

Self Care

I’m a professional person and in my field of work there is an ethic of self care that is necessary and even mandatory. Unfortunately, life is such that time for “self care” is nearly impossible. Until . .

Aneros. My self care.

I often (more and more often) find myself locking my office door at work for 30 minutes of “self care”. Writhing uncontrollably on my office floor, gasping for breath, eye rolling back into my head as my body spasms in unrelenting ecstasy. Being used. No care in the world. My body flooding with endorphins.

My self care.

PSA: DO NOT DRIVE WITH ANEROS

Before I tell my story, here’s some background info. I have around 2 years of focused experience with the eupho, progasm ice, njoy purewand, etc. Recently I’ve had some breakthroughs, although from day 1 I’ve found some pleasure.

Fast forward to today, I have a fairly long ride to and from work. I’ve been looking to expand my collection and close by was a shop that offered the MGX, Helix, and Maximus. I took the plunge on the MGX as the ribbed stem seemed intriguing and I was used to the movement of the eupho. At the end of my shift, the anxiousness kicked in and I had to give it a spin since I had around an hour to kill in the car.

I was not prepared for what I got myself into. Some deep breathing focusing from the pelvic floor, and suddenly within 15 minutes involuntarily contractions started increasing, by 20 minutes I was on the verge of screaming. Rolling o’s took over and by the fourth I took a drink of water. It went down the wrong pipe, and in the process of coughing what I guess would be pre-cum spurt out. That didn’t put me off though, and once I composed myself I was back in the zone after getting the rhythm of breathing back to speed. Simply rotating Kegel/Reverse Kegel’s in coordination with inhale/exhale seemed to kickstart the whole process again. By the time I parked I was in absolute bliss but dumbfounded about the entire experience. Read more »

Things I’m learning about myself doing daily sessions that have nothing to do with orgasm.

I first bought a progasm about 2 years ago. I used it for a while but stopped mostly out of feeling embarrassed and insecure.

Recently I’ve been doing this for 2 and a half weeks almost daily. It’s not a long time but it’s been eye opening on an emotional level. I think I’m now understanding why I wanted to abruptly end my exploration a couple years ago. Shame.

I’ll do a session and during a session and after I start to appreciate my sphincter, my pelvis, my prostate, my breathing. I feel sexual and delicate. I think I am fearful or anxious about this. I have anxieties about my sexuality and traditional beliefs about body parts that were never healthy. When I place an object into my anus I feel embarrassed and ashamed. The irony is that those feelings also turn me on too. I think I need to process this more and really identify areas of shame about my body instead of running away or over eroticizing those feelings. I need to deal with my attitudes and beliefs about my body, my sexual fantasies and hopefully love myself at the end of dealing with it.

I’ve also found a new energy with my sex life with my wife. It’s only been 2.5 weeks but I’m really interested in being more communicative with her. Im also more interested in having sex with her. I’ve been married with her for 23 years and it’s not as easy to be into it all the time. Im really into it now. Read more »

Need help with HFO options to play with.

So I have been playing with prostate/anal play for past few months. Some has been solo and just breathing with contractions and feeling things using prostate massagers that vibrate etc (sometimes on sometimes off) as well as curved glass or plugs. Waves of sensations felt and pleasure but no HFO, Super O or anything close.
I can’t find any aneros products at my local stores and can only order online but expensive when I can’t see the size and shapes as well as depths they go. So I am timid about buying the wrong aneros online.
I am not a size queen, but also don’t want anything too small. I like a bit of depth and find that’s where better sensations are. I also feel I don’t want the syn models as the syn toys don’t feel as good to me as smooth toys. I also really need something that doesn’t bulb out too much around the hole area because I am not fond of the feeling of the pressure if it felt like pulling out and putting pressure on Anus from the inside.

Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions? One of the local shops here in Canada had a mega sale on and I was able to get an aneros knock off so I ordered that to try as I don’t have anything like it but truly feel I will need the real deal to get where I wanna go.

Thanks

Peridise Surprise!

After having my mind blown with many Aneros massagers and a few years of experience with super Os I was curious about the peridise concept and pulled the trigger this week.

Got my Peridise set today and was honestly unimpressed when I saw the package… I knew it was smaller and a different concept to the regular aneros lineup but I was still underwhelmed at the tiny size and straight simple shape.

I went into my session with no expectations and when the toy popped into me I did not get the familiar “cupping” feeling of inserting the aneros.. just the small bulb popping in and nothing more. I laid down and started to experiment with contractions, breathing, pushes and pulls, trying to follow the vague directions…. Feeling for hints and trying to understand this thing… After half an hour of exploring and seemingly getting nowhere…. BAM!!!…. Found it… immediately felt a welling deep sensation in my belly and immense pleasure in my anus… like a rollercoaster accelerating and I let go of any restraint and had an enormous rolling, shaking, whimpering super O. For the next 45 minutes it kicked my ass with more and more orgasms.

Amazing first session and I feel like there is so much more to refine in my technique… it is definitely a different beast, and the orgasms are very different but equal or even more powerful. Peridise is a win on par with the Goat Eupho!!

Very confused orgasm, what happened?

Hey guys I’m a beginner, never ever done any kind of anal play. I seriously started practicing two weeks ago consistently, yesterday I thought I’d have a session after not cumming for 3 days, didn’t expect anything to happen. Just thought I’d refine and revise the sensations and I felt from my last session. It feels good for about 2 hours after a while I thought I’d switch my position where I lay on my stomach, shortly after things started tensing up and my breathing turned into fast short breaths. I couldn’t feel the aneros in me, but I held a medium strength contractions.It builds up more and more to the point where my heart beats so hard and fast as if the devil himself bangs on the door from my inside and until everything eventually spills over like a cup full of honey that looks like a spoonful of honey from the anime, Ponyo. The dry orgasm itself only lasted for 3 seconds, and it was a pure bliss of my entire body. I laid on my back again and twisted my nipples, although not an orgasm the buildup pleasure was so strong, my entire body and head was buzzing like crazy and I saw light flashes from the corner of my eyes and I was breathing like I was hyperventilating. I couldn’t exactly pin point whether that was an anal orgasm or a prostate orgasm. I doubt it was a super since it was so short plus I’m also a beginner.